Elaine Josephine Stemmer
June 1, 1969 - March 12, 2022
Woolley Boglioli Funeral Home
Sharon Stemmer
Sheri Covino
Rani Kemple
Paul Famula
Pat Delli Santi
Johnnie Marshburn
Judith McCann
Cheryl Kaufman
Miranda Boylan
Wendy Fiolek
Sherri Eisenberger Tobias
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Holmdel Funeral Home
26 South Holmdel Road
Holmdel, NJ 07733
Friday 3/18, 5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
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Holmdel Funeral Home
26 South Holmdel Road
Holmdel, NJ 07733
Friday 3/18, 8:30 pm

Elaine Josephine Stemmer, 52, of Middletown passed away in her home Saturday night. Elaine was born in Edison and raised in Colonia. After earning her bachelor’s from Seton Hall University, she went on to earn her J.D. from New England Law School, and once graduated, practiced law for some years. From law Elaine transitioned to …
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Sharon Stemmer left a message on May 20, 2024:
Missing you a lot, especially lately. I don’t know why. Every time I play candy crush I think of you. See you on the flipside. Love you 😘💔💋
Soph your baby left a message on April 1, 2022:
I love you so much forever and ever and ever ♾🤍 my beautiful guardian angel please protect me and give me strength..my entire heart and soul. Wish I could give you the biggest hug and kiss right now.
Sheri Covino left a message on March 24, 2022:
Missing you my beautiful friend.
Rani Kemple left a message on March 24, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Rani Kemple lit a candle
Soph left a message on March 22, 2022:
You, Livi, and I. We adore you, Mommy!👼🏼🕊❤️
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Soph left a message on March 22, 2022:
You, Livi, and I. We adore you and love you so much.
Soph left a message on March 22, 2022:
I love you more than words could ever describe and I miss you terribly. I wish you were here to talk to me every day for hours and giving me hugs and kisses. My heart aches every minute of every day and you are always on my mind. Eskimo butterfly puppy xoxo
Paul Famula left a message on March 21, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Paul Famula lit a candle
Pat Delli Santi left a message on March 21, 2022:
Don & family, we are sorry to hear about the loss of your Wife Elaine. May she rest in peace at the right hand of God. Our deepest sympathy, Pat & Lisa Delli Sant
Johnnie Marshburn left a message on March 20, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Johnnie Marshburn lit a candle
Judith McCann left a message on March 20, 2022:
My deepest condolences to you and your family. I pray for your comfort at this difficult time.
Cheryl Kaufman left a message on March 20, 2022:
My Heart goes out in Sorrow to Don, Sophia, Olivia, and to all of your family.
Miranda Boylan left a message on March 19, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Miranda Boylan lit a candle
Wendy Fiolek left a message on March 18, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Wendy Fiolek lit a candle
Sherri Eisenberger Tobias left a message on March 18, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Sherri Eisenberger Tobias lit a candle
Patrick & Carina Caraher & family left a message on March 18, 2022:
Our deepest condolences to the family. I met Elaine when she was in her early twenties. I’m just 2 years older than her. Her beauty, grace & love for her Mom & Dad left me a beautiful memory that I will never forget. She picked her Dad from work in a sports car & they were so happy together. You will be missed. May you Rest In Peace with our Lord Jesus. Love & prayers, Auntie Iday, Patrick, Carina, Katie & Kelly
Sam and Jenn Naso left a message on March 18, 2022:
Elaine will be forever in our hearts. Our deepest sympathies go out to you and the Stemmer and Sulse families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Wendy Fiolek left a message on March 18, 2022:
Donald, Sophia, Olivia, and the Sulse family, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful Elaine. I will always remember Elaine very fondly. She was beautiful inside and out and will never be forgotten. I will remember her for how sweet and kind she was and for her beautiful smile. She was one of the nicest people I have ever met. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies at this very difficult time. May she live on in your hearts and in your memories forever.
Kelli Benyak Caldwell left a message on March 18, 2022:
My heartfelt condolences to the Stemmer and Sulse families. Elaine was such a beautiful and sweet person. I will cherish my memories of her always.
Josephine Brown left a message on March 18, 2022:
Elaine had a way of showering a light of love on everyone around her. She will be deeply missed but always in our hearts. Take comfort in how much she and your whole family is Loved in these difficult times JoJo
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Nora Leonard left a message on March 18, 2022:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. At friend/family occasions Elaine was always very gracious, a beautiful and kind woman. Wishing you peace.
Connie and Ron Kristan left a message on March 18, 2022:
Don, Sophia and Olivia, our hearts go out to you for the loss of your beloved wife and mother, Elaine. Our deepest sympathies to the Stemmer and Sulse families. Our family will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Marjorie C. left a message on March 18, 2022:
May your soul rest in peace with the Lord. May your family find peace and comfort with memories of your smile. Gentle travels.
Vincent Meli left a message on March 18, 2022:
So sorry and condolences to all of you. Keeping the family in my heart and mind at this time.
Ella Sulse-Chicano left a message on March 18, 2022:
Sending our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time to the whole family of my cousin Elaine(Uncle Angel is the brother of my mother, Elisa+). As my family is also grieving for the loss of our dear sister recently in the Philippines, we are with you all. Just a family-related-note, i just knew now that Elaine’s second name is Josephine, I believe it was taken from our maternal grandmother’s name, Josefina+. Eternal rest grant unto the soul of Elaine Josephine, Oh Lord. And let Your perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace. Amen:
Dan & Rose Cendana left a message on March 17, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Dan & Rose Cendana lit a candle
Boparai Family left a message on March 17, 2022:
Deepest condolences for the whole Stemmer Family.
Jennifer Zimmerman left a message on March 17, 2022:
Elaine was one of the kindest souls I have ever met. My love and condolence to Donald, Sophia, Liv and family. Elaine will never be forgotten, she will forever be in all of our hearts.
Kim Benyak Tredici left a message on March 17, 2022:
My sincere condolences to Don, Sophia, Olivia and the Stemmer and Sulse Families. So very saddened to hear of Elaine’s passing. She was always so sweet and kind.
Alison Goldman left a message on March 17, 2022:
We send our deepest condolences to the Stemmer family. Elaine was beautiful inside and out. May she rest in peace.
Alma Sulse left a message on March 17, 2022:
May God strengthen you and your family.Pls.accept my sincere condolences for your great loss.
Lino left a message on March 17, 2022:
I was shocked and saddened when Uncle Angel called me about my cousin Elaine's passing. I first met her in their house in Colonia, NJ. When I went to visit Uncle Angel. She gave me some books and other stuff for my son.She was so sweet and friendly. You will be missed my dear cousin.
Maria Libretti left a message on March 16, 2022:
My deepest condolences to The Stemmer Family. Elaine was always such a kind and sweet person. May she Rest in Eternal Peace.
Cousin Leo left a message on March 16, 2022:
The first and the last time we met and saw each other was back in 1995, it was my first trip to the United States attending an international conference in Rochester. That time was also my first time to visit your family home in NJ together with my brother Lino Sulse and his family and the first time I met your father, Uncle Angel Sulse (Brother of my father) for a long time. Though it was a short moment with you I loved and appreciated the time, thank you for helping me when I asked something to drink inside your residence momentarily while we were having a moment with Uncle Angel outside the NJ residence. You may be gone now but your memories with me will be forever treasured. Thank you so much my dear and beautiful cousin. We love you. My deepest condolence to Uncle Angel, to husband Donald and lovely daughters Sofia and Olivia. You will be in our prayers in this sad and difficult time.
Bedevere curry left a message on March 16, 2022:
So sorry to hear and deepest condolences to your family.
Lisa Schiralli left a message on March 16, 2022:
Elaine was so warm and friendly. She was beautiful, tremendously talented, and so kind hearted. Please accept our deepest sympathy for your immeasurable loss, Boo, Sophia, and Olivia. May she Rest in Peace and may God comfort you.
Uncle Domenick & Aunt Natalie left a message on March 16, 2022:
Boo, So sorry we cannot be there. We send our love and prayers to you, Sophia and Livi. Elaine was very special, a "one of a kind", and she will truly be missed. God bless you all.
Ellen Higney left a message on March 16, 2022:
To the entire Stemmer family, I am very sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you all. May Elaine rest in peace.
Cathi Ference Prosecky left a message on March 16, 2022:
Elaine was beautiful, inside and out. My deepest condolences to the Stemmer & Sulse families. May your happiest memories see you through the saddest days.
Cathi Ference Prosecky left a message on March 16, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Cathi Ference Prosecky lit a candle
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Beth Phillips left a message on March 16, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Beth Phillips lit a candle
Hana Blair left a message on March 16, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Hana Blair lit a candle
Haley Petrowski left a message on March 16, 2022:
From my family and I we are so sorry for your loss. Sending many prayers and love to you and your family.
caroleena left a message on March 16, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, caroleena lit a candle
Lisa Rivoli left a message on March 16, 2022:
Forever in my heart…..a special person.
the Avilas left a message on March 16, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, the Avilas lit a candle
Jeremy and Ashley Guarino left a message on March 16, 2022:
We will continue to think of you all for many days to come. Please find comfort in knowing that she is with you always. ❤️❤️
Teri Andrascik left a message on March 16, 2022:
Don, Sophia, and Olivia - We are so sorry to hear of Elaine’s passing. May you find comfort in the memories of your happy times together. She loved all of you so much. Our thoughts are with you. The Andrascik family
Joe Esposito left a message on March 16, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Joe Esposito lit a candle
Joe Esposito left a message on March 16, 2022:
My prayers and condolences to the Sulse & Stemmer families. It has been 35 years since I’ve last saw & spoke to Elaine. Her kindness, smile, friendship and caring heart will always be remembered by myself and so many others. You are forever remembered loved Elaine. Joe Esposito
Josette Spanola left a message on March 16, 2022:
Don, Sophia & Liv, We are so very sorry for your loss. As you have lost a spouse and mom we have lost a very dear friend who's loss leaves a huge hole in our hearts. In time you will find peace and know that she is watching over all of you and guiding you. Her physical presence may no longer be here, but know that she will walk side by side with you. There is some poem that says "what the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." All our love, Gerry, Josette & Haley
Connie Sulse left a message on March 16, 2022:
We are so sad to hear about Elaine's passing. She's my husband's cousin. We're praying for Donald, Sofia, Olivia, Uncle Angel, her brothers and family for God's love, peace and comfort during this very difficult time. 🙏 🙏🙏
Maureen Russo left a message on March 16, 2022:
Our sincerest condolences to the Stemmer family. Elaine was a truly inspiring person. Someone to admire and emulate. Although we did not talk regularly, She will forever be a part of me. May her soul and All the souls of the dearly departed Rest in Eternal Peace. Amen
John & Jill Stadtmiller left a message on March 16, 2022:
So sorry for your loss. The world lost a beautiful person inside and out. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Suzanne Antini left a message on March 16, 2022:
I’m so very, very sorry to hear of Elaine’s passing. My family is praying for peace and strength for all who knew and loved her. My sincerest condolences for her family. 🙏
Dorothy Meli left a message on March 16, 2022:
In memory of Elaine Josephine Stemmer, Dorothy Meli lit a candle
Jennie Esposito left a message on March 16, 2022:
Deepest sympathy to Dr. Sulse and your entire family on the loss of Elaine. Heaven gained an angel. Prayers and thoughts are with you.
Kendra Karwan Mohan left a message on March 15, 2022:
Elaine was a beautiful person inside and out. May she Rest In Peace.
Robin Elaine Pento left a message on March 15, 2022:
Dear Janice And Family, I cannot fathom how devastated you and your family are during this extremely difficult time; please accept my heartfelt condolences following the loss of your beloved daughter-in-law, Elaine. May your memories comfort you and your family. Most Sincerely, Robin
Woolley Boglioli Funeral Home left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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