John A. Benevento, 79 of Lincroft, died on Sunday April 19th at Community Memorial Hospital, Toms River. Mr. Benevento was born and raised in Brooklyn, where he founded and operated Millwork Specialties, a company that restored historical landmark windows and doors throughout the tri-state area. He enjoyed gardening in his backyard in Brooklyn and loved …
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John A. Benevento, 79 of Lincroft, died on Sunday April 19th at Community Memorial Hospital, Toms River.
Mr. Benevento was born and raised in Brooklyn, where he founded and operated Millwork Specialties, a company that restored historical landmark windows and doors throughout the tri-state area. He enjoyed gardening in his backyard in Brooklyn and loved taking care of his Bonsai trees. He was an avid craftsman and fisherman. John was a parishioner of St. Gabriel’s RC Church, Marlboro.
He loved to cook and kept the Sunday tradition of the family coming together alive. John was most happy when he was cooking each of his grandchildren the favorite special dish. Holidays were his favorite, being together and enjoying his family, which was most important to him. One of his favorite foods was sardines.
John was an avid fan of the New York Mets. He enjoyed all things baseball. One of his favorites things was to watch his grandchildren at their event, from baseball to soccer to all the dance recitals. He was there for everything from births to graduations. His grandchildren were his life.
He was pre-deceased by his parents Emily Faiello and Furi Benevento; two sisters, Grace Doria and Maria Maresca.
Surviving John is his wife, and childhood sweetheart, of 58 years, Lillian; three children, Emily and Robert Vitale, Lincroft, Furi John and Elisa Benevento and Joseph and Carrie Benevento, Lincroft; 9 grandchildren, Nicole, Kevin, Brandon, Emily, Baelee, Brielle, Taylor, Carley and Blake. And Amanda aka “Ralph”.
John also had an extensive family, with whom he shared a lifetime of memories and was always in contact with, from New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Florida and Colorado. He will be deeply missed by all.
John will be entombed in a private service at Holmdel Mausoleum. There will be a memorial service at a later date. To share a favorite memory or send messages of condolences to John’s family, please visit his page of tributes at www.holmdelfuneralhome.com.
Carl Sansone
left a message on April 30, 2020:
A candle was lit by Carl Sansone on 2020/04/30
Hope Hope
left a message on April 23, 2020:
Lillian, Joe, Carrie and the girls,
Words cannot even begin to express the sadness I feel. Watching you all from my porch, when food going back and forth. The endless smiles one everyone’s faces. I could feel the love that you all have for one another and now that’s is all turned upside down. Please know my boys, Kevin and I are here for you all.
Maria DeLeonibus Montiglio
left a message on April 22, 2020:
Dear Lillian and Family,
I am very saddened to learn of John's passing. Although we have not seen each other for many years, John holds a unique place in my childhood memories. As they say, children instinctively know the nature of the person before them. When I think of John's kindness, decency, and dedication to family, it fills my heart with love. His extraordinary life goes beyond the living and his memories will be cherished beyond his passing.
My most sincere condolences.
Cousin Maria
Grace D'Agostino
left a message on April 22, 2020:
A candle was lit by Grace D'Agostino on 2020/04/22
Dave
left a message on April 22, 2020:
To Cousin Lillian & family
So sorry to learn of your loss. You are in my thoughts & prayers
your 2nd cousin
Dave Totillo
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Lillian Benevento
left a message on April 22, 2020:
Hon, you are my love, my life and my all now and forever and ever. Until we see each other again your “Butch”will always keep you near and as I always promised you “I will be strong”. We did it hon...the family we always dreamed of is right here now. Remember what the priest said at the altar when we got married? He said” You will see your children and your children’s children gathered around your table”. God blessed us honey, please thank Him for us as you see Him face to Face.
Barbara longobardi
left a message on April 22, 2020:
Growing up in Brooklyn John and Lillian were my neighbors are used to remember John sitting in the backyard and he would yell up to the window hey Barbara did you finish eating your eggs yet????? and I would say no..... And then he would laugh at me and say if you don’t eat them you know you’re not going to come outside I said I know I know!!
Rest In Peace John. You were the best neighbor anyone could ask for you always had plenty of stories to tell and they were also very funny and I remember you took me and my dad fishing one time as well that was the only time I ever went!
Grace
left a message on April 22, 2020:
Aunt Lil & family
So very sorry for your loss there are no words.
From when I first met you & Uncle John you immediately made me feel so comfortable & took me in as part of the family, and later when you met my Mom You extended that Love to her. My first impression of you two was how in love you both were & how much family meant to you.
The world has lost a great man, husband, father, grandfather, uncle, cousin & friend
Sorry we can't be there at this time. Love you Grace
Maureen Totillo
left a message on April 22, 2020:
Em, again, condolences on the loss of your dad. It a terrible thing to lose a parent no matter your age. And your mom must be so lost. Keep your family close, that’s how you get past the pain. Soon the memories of the laughter you shared will return. Prayers and love to you all.
Maureen Totillo
Jon Gjoni
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Grandpa John was a class act and a true role model, someone who you always looked up too. He will be truly missed and may he rest in peace
phyllis
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by phyllis on 2020/04/21
Robin Worth
left a message on April 21, 2020:
John Benevento was a noble man, the kind of man you don't see everyday. He valued his family more than anything, worked hard, and took care of everyone! The world has lost a bright, skilled, truly good person. I know he will be thought of every day. My deep condolences to his family.
Marie
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by Marie on 2020/04/21
Carmela Dalessio Sunshine
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by Carmela Dalessio Sunshine on 2020/04/21
Marie
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by Marie on 2020/04/21
Carmela Dalessio Sunshine
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by Carmela Dalessio Sunshine on 2020/04/21
Nicole Vitale
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by Nicole Vitale on 2020/04/21
Carolyn Maloney
left a message on April 21, 2020:
My heart goes out to Cousin Lillian and family....You are all very special people who had a very special dad...John you were a gentleman and I am glad to have called you cousin.
Lucia Imperato
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Grandpa John was truly a gem. Totally heart broken, We all loved him so very much. He will be truly missed
Rachel
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Our family is so very sorry for your loss.. we hope his memory will always be a blessing to you all..
Nikki we love you..
Rachel, Vinny & Rebecca
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Carmela Dalessio Sunshine
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Dear Aunt Lil and my dearest Benevento family,
My heart will be forever broken for all of you, I pray God brings you peace during this grieving time knowing he is no longer suffering. Uncle Johnny as they say was one in a million, the most kindest, loving, humblest and patient man I knew . I will cherish all the memories and talk about them often .I spent a lot of time with them growing up and wherever my Aunt was he was right their with her . My passion for planting and growing flowers comes from my Uncle, he taught me everything I know about plants. Let’s not forget about the Bonsai! We had so many great times together. I love you so much Uncle Johnny and you will be missed by so many. R.I.P and know we will all shower Aunt Lil with love and care. Just as you would want us to. Your up there with the best, I’m sure my mom is already cooking for you
Forever in my heart God bless all of you
Xoxo Steve and Carmela
Marie
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Thank you Uncle Johnny for always being there for all of us. We always had such good times & I will have the memories to last until I see you again. Aunt Lillian I Love you so very much.
Tricia Barr
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Dear Emily and Family,
I know how much your father was the true patriarch of your family. His love of life, his family, and appreciation and awareness of all the "simple" things are part of his legacy that I know he has already instilled in you.
I wish you all many moments of peace, laughter, and comfort as you recall the many wonderful days spent with your dad. Please accept my sincere condolences at this incredibly difficult time.
Love,
Tricia Barr
Emily Vitale
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Daddy,
This is the hardest thing I've faced in my life so far. You were my sun, moon and stars. I don't know how life will be going forward without you but I will try to uphold your legacy. Every time I make a good cup of coffee, watch an old movie, listen to The Lonely Shepherd, smell sawdust, cook something good, see the good in my children and gather with our family, I will know that you are still with me. I love you always Dad.
phyllis
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Thank You Uncle Johnny for being a GREAT Uncle. You kept family stories alive. Telling the story of me hiding behind the chair when You and Aunt Lil were babysitting for us. It was one that you always told. Like you always remembered that story I will always remember you as being a kind, funny , loving and well respected Uncle. I know you will always be watching over .With all the love and hurt in my heart , i say goodbye.
Pete Gallo
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Bobby, so sorry to hear ,my prayers and condolences to you and your family. May he Rest in Peace and cherish the memories
God Bless my friend.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Carl Sansone
left a message on April 30, 2020:
A candle was lit by Carl Sansone on 2020/04/30
Hope Hope
left a message on April 23, 2020:
Lillian, Joe, Carrie and the girls,
Words cannot even begin to express the sadness I feel. Watching you all from my porch, when food going back and forth. The endless smiles one everyone’s faces. I could feel the love that you all have for one another and now that’s is all turned upside down. Please know my boys, Kevin and I are here for you all.
Maria DeLeonibus Montiglio
left a message on April 22, 2020:
Dear Lillian and Family,
I am very saddened to learn of John's passing. Although we have not seen each other for many years, John holds a unique place in my childhood memories. As they say, children instinctively know the nature of the person before them. When I think of John's kindness, decency, and dedication to family, it fills my heart with love. His extraordinary life goes beyond the living and his memories will be cherished beyond his passing.
My most sincere condolences.
Cousin Maria
Grace D'Agostino
left a message on April 22, 2020:
A candle was lit by Grace D'Agostino on 2020/04/22
Dave
left a message on April 22, 2020:
To Cousin Lillian & family
So sorry to learn of your loss. You are in my thoughts & prayers
your 2nd cousin
Dave Totillo
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Lillian Benevento
left a message on April 22, 2020:
Hon, you are my love, my life and my all now and forever and ever. Until we see each other again your “Butch”will always keep you near and as I always promised you “I will be strong”. We did it hon...the family we always dreamed of is right here now. Remember what the priest said at the altar when we got married? He said” You will see your children and your children’s children gathered around your table”. God blessed us honey, please thank Him for us as you see Him face to Face.
Barbara longobardi
left a message on April 22, 2020:
Growing up in Brooklyn John and Lillian were my neighbors are used to remember John sitting in the backyard and he would yell up to the window hey Barbara did you finish eating your eggs yet????? and I would say no..... And then he would laugh at me and say if you don’t eat them you know you’re not going to come outside I said I know I know!!
Rest In Peace John. You were the best neighbor anyone could ask for you always had plenty of stories to tell and they were also very funny and I remember you took me and my dad fishing one time as well that was the only time I ever went!
Grace
left a message on April 22, 2020:
Aunt Lil & family
So very sorry for your loss there are no words.
From when I first met you & Uncle John you immediately made me feel so comfortable & took me in as part of the family, and later when you met my Mom You extended that Love to her. My first impression of you two was how in love you both were & how much family meant to you.
The world has lost a great man, husband, father, grandfather, uncle, cousin & friend
Sorry we can't be there at this time. Love you Grace
Maureen Totillo
left a message on April 22, 2020:
Em, again, condolences on the loss of your dad. It a terrible thing to lose a parent no matter your age. And your mom must be so lost. Keep your family close, that’s how you get past the pain. Soon the memories of the laughter you shared will return. Prayers and love to you all.
Maureen Totillo
Jon Gjoni
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Grandpa John was a class act and a true role model, someone who you always looked up too. He will be truly missed and may he rest in peace
phyllis
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by phyllis on 2020/04/21
Robin Worth
left a message on April 21, 2020:
John Benevento was a noble man, the kind of man you don't see everyday. He valued his family more than anything, worked hard, and took care of everyone! The world has lost a bright, skilled, truly good person. I know he will be thought of every day. My deep condolences to his family.
Marie
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by Marie on 2020/04/21
Carmela Dalessio Sunshine
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by Carmela Dalessio Sunshine on 2020/04/21
Marie
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by Marie on 2020/04/21
Carmela Dalessio Sunshine
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by Carmela Dalessio Sunshine on 2020/04/21
Nicole Vitale
left a message on April 21, 2020:
A candle was lit by Nicole Vitale on 2020/04/21
Carolyn Maloney
left a message on April 21, 2020:
My heart goes out to Cousin Lillian and family....You are all very special people who had a very special dad...John you were a gentleman and I am glad to have called you cousin.
Lucia Imperato
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Grandpa John was truly a gem. Totally heart broken, We all loved him so very much. He will be truly missed
Rachel
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Our family is so very sorry for your loss.. we hope his memory will always be a blessing to you all..
Nikki we love you..
Rachel, Vinny & Rebecca
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Carmela Dalessio Sunshine
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Dear Aunt Lil and my dearest Benevento family,
My heart will be forever broken for all of you, I pray God brings you peace during this grieving time knowing he is no longer suffering. Uncle Johnny as they say was one in a million, the most kindest, loving, humblest and patient man I knew . I will cherish all the memories and talk about them often .I spent a lot of time with them growing up and wherever my Aunt was he was right their with her . My passion for planting and growing flowers comes from my Uncle, he taught me everything I know about plants. Let’s not forget about the Bonsai! We had so many great times together. I love you so much Uncle Johnny and you will be missed by so many. R.I.P and know we will all shower Aunt Lil with love and care. Just as you would want us to. Your up there with the best, I’m sure my mom is already cooking for you
Forever in my heart God bless all of you
Xoxo Steve and Carmela
Marie
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Thank you Uncle Johnny for always being there for all of us. We always had such good times & I will have the memories to last until I see you again. Aunt Lillian I Love you so very much.
Tricia Barr
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Dear Emily and Family,
I know how much your father was the true patriarch of your family. His love of life, his family, and appreciation and awareness of all the "simple" things are part of his legacy that I know he has already instilled in you.
I wish you all many moments of peace, laughter, and comfort as you recall the many wonderful days spent with your dad. Please accept my sincere condolences at this incredibly difficult time.
Love,
Tricia Barr
Emily Vitale
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Daddy,
This is the hardest thing I've faced in my life so far. You were my sun, moon and stars. I don't know how life will be going forward without you but I will try to uphold your legacy. Every time I make a good cup of coffee, watch an old movie, listen to The Lonely Shepherd, smell sawdust, cook something good, see the good in my children and gather with our family, I will know that you are still with me. I love you always Dad.
phyllis
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Thank You Uncle Johnny for being a GREAT Uncle. You kept family stories alive. Telling the story of me hiding behind the chair when You and Aunt Lil were babysitting for us. It was one that you always told. Like you always remembered that story I will always remember you as being a kind, funny , loving and well respected Uncle. I know you will always be watching over .With all the love and hurt in my heart , i say goodbye.
Pete Gallo
left a message on April 21, 2020:
Bobby, so sorry to hear ,my prayers and condolences to you and your family. May he Rest in Peace and cherish the memories
God Bless my friend.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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