Joseph Patrick Fenton, DVM, of Lincroft, NJ, passed away peacefully on April 22, 2020. He was born in Long Island, NY and moved to NJ in 1987. In 1988, he met his now wife, Roseanne (née Basile). He fought a long hard battle with an incurable disease. Joseph, despite the challenges of his illness, always …
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Joseph Patrick Fenton, DVM, of Lincroft, NJ, passed away peacefully on April 22, 2020.
He was born in Long Island, NY and moved to NJ in 1987. In 1988, he met his now wife, Roseanne (née Basile).
He fought a long hard battle with an incurable disease. Joseph, despite the challenges of his illness, always had a smile to give which was infectious and made everyone around him smile. He was a courageous man with a strong faith in God.
He was a loving husband and a devoted father to his two sons Joseph (Doug) and Paul (Anthony).
A man of character and integrity who loved his family unconditionally. He lived what he believed and always put others before himself.
Joseph pursued a Doctorate of Veterinary Medicine from Purdue University (West Layfayette, Indiana) and graduated in 1987, putting him on a course to eventually opening a successful 23 year veterinary practice which he started in 1997, in Monmouth County. His love of animals was evident in how many of their lives he improved and prolonged because he wouldn’t give up on them no matter what the odds. He will be fondly remembered by his employees and clients not only for his expertise, but because they saw this man’s genuine love for their animals when in his care. He also helped rehabilitate many sick puppies and found loving homes for them through the rescue groups he was associated with in and around the area.
Joseph not only ran a successful veterinary practice, and as busy as it kept him, always found the time to take his sons to their hockey practices and weekend tournaments in and out of state. He was a avid fan of both the NY Yankees and the NY Rangers. He also enjoyed playing hockey on an adult team in Middletown once a week. He loved jazz music. He studied classical and jazz guitar in his youth in which he was quite accomplished.
When he wasn’t doing all that, found time to meet his relatives, donning his father’s “County of Kerry” sash, Italian wife in tow (also donning an Irish sash), and marched proudly in many a St. Patrick’s Day Parade in NYC which to him was an honor.
Predeceasing him were his mother, Patricia Fenton (née Walsh) and his father Joseph Fenton of Westbury, Long Island.
He is survived by his siblings, Joanne (Stephen) DeLuca, Brian (Laura) Fenton and Jim (Haiim) Fenton. He has many loving aunts, uncles and cousins who reside in and around Long Island as well as in Ireland.
His smile, kindness, and gentleness will surely be missed by many but especially his family. You were such a beautiful soul Joe. You will always be loved and forever in the hearts of your many family and friends! This world won’t be the same without you!
Rest In Peace, my love, my life.
Due to the current Covid19 restrictions, a memorial service will be scheduled at a later date.
Anyone wishing to honor Joe’s memory, with a donation may send it to:
Joan Darcy & PALS
(People with ALS)
c/o Riverview Medical Center
One Riverview Plaza
P.O.Box 8157
Red Bank, NJ 07701
Debra MacCarter
left a message on November 18, 2020:
My deep condolences to Dr Fenton’s family. He took wonderful care of our animals in good times and bad. It was obvious how much he cared for the animals. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Jane Miller
left a message on October 2, 2020:
Many of us in the Ramtown section of Howell, just learned of Dr. Fenton's passing today. I am so sorry for your loss. He was so good with our dog and worked with us to ensure that his last years were the best possible. He really is missed. ~Jane, Mike, Ross and "Jak" Miller.
Joseph Marianne DeAngelo
left a message on August 6, 2020:
He will be missed thank you for saving our dogs life’s . What a great loss to the community.
Marianne & Joseph DeAngelo
left a message on August 6, 2020:
So sorry to learn of Dr. Fenton's passing. Such a kind and caring soul. His love of animals was truly proven to our family over and over again for what he did for our girls, (3 chihuahuas). Another wonderful person taken too soon. Sending prayers to his family but sure he is watching over them all for that was just his way.
Scott Stekler
left a message on June 4, 2020:
I knew Joe years ago when he worked in Bergen County.
Very nice guy. I was sad to hear of his passing.
My father died from ALS so I know how horrible that disease is. I hope it gives his family some comfort to
know that there are people like myself who remember him
fondly.
Your friend and colleague
Scott Stekler
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Donna Rafael
left a message on May 18, 2020:
Dr. Fenton hired me in 2016 and introduced me to the “veterinary world”. I will always be grateful to him.
I’ll always have my memories of him on those long Saturdays.. after we closed , doors locked and then the emergency, which he never said no...
It was an honor., Dr. Fenton to have worked for you....
Lynn Kline
left a message on May 18, 2020:
So sorry to hear this. I worked for Dr. Fenton for a few years starting in 2015. He was always friendly and kind.
Julie Adelson
left a message on May 8, 2020:
Dear Mrs. Fenton,I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband and the greatest veterinarian I truly believe in the world. I met him 21 years ago when I moved here from Brooklyn. Since that time I have referred to him as St. Francis on earth. He was so kind and caring not only to our animals but to the owners and some of us are neurotic and emotional...but he always calmed us down. Thank you for calling me. It meant a lot. I will pray for you and your family every day but you now have your own saint in heaven to watch over you
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR SONS.
Anthony and Brittney Monte
left a message on May 7, 2020:
Joe was a great man, father , and vet. We were one of his first clients at his practice . And remain until this day . He has always pointed us in the right direction as to caring for our animals . He had compassion for each and every creature that walked into his business . The day I met joe , I was young , I had a lizard that got sick . Joe spent the night with me trying to help this poor animal . That was the moment I realised that Joe would be the one to care for the many pets I had over the 20 plus years I’ve know him. I have so many great story’s about joe . Just can’t manage to get them all out right now .
We are truely sorry for your loss . A great man and a blessing to all those who met him . Rest In Peace Joe.
Irwin Goodman
left a message on May 2, 2020:
A candle was lit by Irwin Goodman on 2020/05/02
Sue
left a message on May 1, 2020:
Dr. Fenton was our vet for our dogs for many, many years. He was genuine, kind, and so knowledgeable. We used to talk Yankees every time we saw him in his office. I’ll always remember the lengthy voicemails he would leave with his comforting voice on the other end. We are so sorry to hear the passing of Dr. Fenton. He will be truly missed. Our condolences to his family.
Uncle Tom Montalbano
left a message on April 29, 2020:
Roseanne probably knew Joe beyond being a member of the family he was a great DMV and it was a privilege to also have him as a nephew and friend. Always enjoyed his conversations and discussing the worlds problems and how to solve them, a special guy he will always be in our prayers. God Bless.
Uncle Tom & Bogey.
Melody Damiano
left a message on April 29, 2020:
A candle was lit by Melody Damiano on 2020/04/29
Mary Condon Galvin & family
left a message on April 28, 2020:
Please accept our deepest sympathies. Joanne has kept me up to date on Joe. We are so sorry for your loss. We were at your wedding and were grateful to share in your special day.
Sending hugs and strength
Roseanne Fenton
left a message on April 27, 2020:
A candle was lit by Roseanne Fenton on 2020/04/27
John & Helen Montalbano
left a message on April 27, 2020:
Roseanne,
So very sorry to hear about Joe's passing. A nice unforgettable guy always a pleasure to talk to. He will surely be missed by many. May God bless and watch over you and the boys going through this trying period.
Cousin John and Helen Montalbano
Patricia Nelson
left a message on April 27, 2020:
Sincere condolences Roseanne and family. Joe was a kind and loving man. May he rest in peace. Love to all, Cousin Patty Nelson
Roseanne Fenton
left a message on April 27, 2020:
Joe you are my love and my life. You took a huge part of me with you when you left.
Remember the lyrics to this song that I always loved....this is for you Joe!
“My Love, My Life"
“Like an image passing by, my love, my life
In the mirror of your eyes, my love, my life
I can see it all so clearly
All I love so dearly
Images passing by
Like reflections of your mind, my love, my life
Are the words I try to find, my love, my life
But I know I don't possess you
With all my heart, God bless you
You are still my love and my life
I held you close to me, felt your heart beat and I thought: I am free
Oh yes, and as one are we in the now and beyond
Nothing and no one can break this bond.
Yes I know I don't possess you
With all my heart, God bless you
You are still my love and my life
You're my one and only”
The boys, Doug and Paul miss you so much and you will always be with them.
Words cannot express the pain of losing you, only that you are free and no longer in bondage to your disease. You are now in the arms of the One you served here on earth, our Savior Lord Jesus and I will see you again Joe, my love, my life!
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Debra MacCarter
left a message on November 18, 2020:
My deep condolences to Dr Fenton’s family. He took wonderful care of our animals in good times and bad. It was obvious how much he cared for the animals. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Jane Miller
left a message on October 2, 2020:
Many of us in the Ramtown section of Howell, just learned of Dr. Fenton's passing today. I am so sorry for your loss. He was so good with our dog and worked with us to ensure that his last years were the best possible. He really is missed. ~Jane, Mike, Ross and "Jak" Miller.
Joseph Marianne DeAngelo
left a message on August 6, 2020:
He will be missed thank you for saving our dogs life’s . What a great loss to the community.
Marianne & Joseph DeAngelo
left a message on August 6, 2020:
So sorry to learn of Dr. Fenton's passing. Such a kind and caring soul. His love of animals was truly proven to our family over and over again for what he did for our girls, (3 chihuahuas). Another wonderful person taken too soon. Sending prayers to his family but sure he is watching over them all for that was just his way.
Scott Stekler
left a message on June 4, 2020:
I knew Joe years ago when he worked in Bergen County.
Very nice guy. I was sad to hear of his passing.
My father died from ALS so I know how horrible that disease is. I hope it gives his family some comfort to
know that there are people like myself who remember him
fondly.
Your friend and colleague
Scott Stekler
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Donna Rafael
left a message on May 18, 2020:
Dr. Fenton hired me in 2016 and introduced me to the “veterinary world”. I will always be grateful to him.
I’ll always have my memories of him on those long Saturdays.. after we closed , doors locked and then the emergency, which he never said no...
It was an honor., Dr. Fenton to have worked for you....
Lynn Kline
left a message on May 18, 2020:
So sorry to hear this. I worked for Dr. Fenton for a few years starting in 2015. He was always friendly and kind.
Julie Adelson
left a message on May 8, 2020:
Dear Mrs. Fenton,I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband and the greatest veterinarian I truly believe in the world. I met him 21 years ago when I moved here from Brooklyn. Since that time I have referred to him as St. Francis on earth. He was so kind and caring not only to our animals but to the owners and some of us are neurotic and emotional...but he always calmed us down. Thank you for calling me. It meant a lot. I will pray for you and your family every day but you now have your own saint in heaven to watch over you
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR SONS.
Anthony and Brittney Monte
left a message on May 7, 2020:
Joe was a great man, father , and vet. We were one of his first clients at his practice . And remain until this day . He has always pointed us in the right direction as to caring for our animals . He had compassion for each and every creature that walked into his business . The day I met joe , I was young , I had a lizard that got sick . Joe spent the night with me trying to help this poor animal . That was the moment I realised that Joe would be the one to care for the many pets I had over the 20 plus years I’ve know him. I have so many great story’s about joe . Just can’t manage to get them all out right now .
We are truely sorry for your loss . A great man and a blessing to all those who met him . Rest In Peace Joe.
Irwin Goodman
left a message on May 2, 2020:
A candle was lit by Irwin Goodman on 2020/05/02
Sue
left a message on May 1, 2020:
Dr. Fenton was our vet for our dogs for many, many years. He was genuine, kind, and so knowledgeable. We used to talk Yankees every time we saw him in his office. I’ll always remember the lengthy voicemails he would leave with his comforting voice on the other end. We are so sorry to hear the passing of Dr. Fenton. He will be truly missed. Our condolences to his family.
Uncle Tom Montalbano
left a message on April 29, 2020:
Roseanne probably knew Joe beyond being a member of the family he was a great DMV and it was a privilege to also have him as a nephew and friend. Always enjoyed his conversations and discussing the worlds problems and how to solve them, a special guy he will always be in our prayers. God Bless.
Uncle Tom & Bogey.
Melody Damiano
left a message on April 29, 2020:
A candle was lit by Melody Damiano on 2020/04/29
Mary Condon Galvin & family
left a message on April 28, 2020:
Please accept our deepest sympathies. Joanne has kept me up to date on Joe. We are so sorry for your loss. We were at your wedding and were grateful to share in your special day.
Sending hugs and strength
Roseanne Fenton
left a message on April 27, 2020:
A candle was lit by Roseanne Fenton on 2020/04/27
John & Helen Montalbano
left a message on April 27, 2020:
Roseanne,
So very sorry to hear about Joe's passing. A nice unforgettable guy always a pleasure to talk to. He will surely be missed by many. May God bless and watch over you and the boys going through this trying period.
Cousin John and Helen Montalbano
Patricia Nelson
left a message on April 27, 2020:
Sincere condolences Roseanne and family. Joe was a kind and loving man. May he rest in peace. Love to all, Cousin Patty Nelson
Roseanne Fenton
left a message on April 27, 2020:
Joe you are my love and my life. You took a huge part of me with you when you left.
Remember the lyrics to this song that I always loved....this is for you Joe!
“My Love, My Life"
“Like an image passing by, my love, my life
In the mirror of your eyes, my love, my life
I can see it all so clearly
All I love so dearly
Images passing by
Like reflections of your mind, my love, my life
Are the words I try to find, my love, my life
But I know I don't possess you
With all my heart, God bless you
You are still my love and my life
I held you close to me, felt your heart beat and I thought: I am free
Oh yes, and as one are we in the now and beyond
Nothing and no one can break this bond.
Yes I know I don't possess you
With all my heart, God bless you
You are still my love and my life
You're my one and only”
The boys, Doug and Paul miss you so much and you will always be with them.
Words cannot express the pain of losing you, only that you are free and no longer in bondage to your disease. You are now in the arms of the One you served here on earth, our Savior Lord Jesus and I will see you again Joe, my love, my life!
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