Robert E. Dalton (78), the world’s best dad and grandfather, the most loyal of friends, and accomplished traveler, passed away peacefully on Sunday, December 13, 2020. He was born in Bayonne, NJ to the late Helen and Robert H. Dalton in 1942. At age 14, Bob met his wife Dolores on Christmas Eve and four …
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Robert E. Dalton (78), the world’s best dad and grandfather, the most loyal of friends, and accomplished traveler, passed away peacefully on Sunday, December 13, 2020.
He was born in Bayonne, NJ to the late Helen and Robert H. Dalton in 1942.
At age 14, Bob met his wife Dolores on Christmas Eve and four years later they eloped to Winston-Salem, North Carolina on May 13th, 1961. They began their family in Bayonne and settled in Colonia where they lived for 29 years. He eventually retired to Osborn Island in Little Egg Harbor Township, where he designed and built his dream home.
Bob attended St. Henry’s Grammar School, Marist High School and St. Peter’s College.
Bob worked for IBM for 33 years, and while proudly serving his country in the Air Force, he worked on the United States’ early missile defense system. After retiring from IBM, he continued to work as an Executive Consultant with PricewaterhouseCoopers (PwC). In his retirement, he was still very active in the community serving on the Mayor’s Advisory Committee, the Dredging Committee and as Treasurer of the Osborn Island Association.
Bob seldom had nothing to do. He enjoyed traveling, the beach, dancing, music, reading each and every plaque in a museum, boating and had several other interests that kept him busy. When he wasn’t traveling around the world, he was spending his time with family and friends. He always found time to help and care for everyone around him.
He was a member of the Keyport Yacht Club and enjoyed going there on Friday nights listening to live bands and enjoying the company of fellow members.
He is predeceased by his wife, Dolores, of 55 years.
Surviving are his children Kathleen and her husband Daniel O’Brien of Lincroft, Cynthia and her husband Daniel Emanuele of Bethel Park, PA, Robert C. Dalton of Little Egg Harbor Township, and David and his wife Louisa Dalton of Massapequa Park, NY.
He took extreme pride in his 10 grandchildren: Lyndsay (Jordan), Danielle (Nicholas), Tara (Lily), Shannon (Sumeet), Melissa (Moe), Matthew, Allison, Tessa, Alexander, and Sofia, and three great-grandchildren McKenna, Liam, and Nicholas.
Also surviving are his siblings Mary Romer (James) and Christopher Dalton (Luann), beloved sister-in-law, Lorraine Podraza, cherished nieces and nephews: Mary Anne, Claudine, and James and his dear friend and companion, Barbara McDonald.
Bob left an impression on everyone who knew him and will be forever missed.
Visitation is on Sunday, December 20 from 2pm-6pm at Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 S. Holmdel Rd., Holmdel, NJ 07733.
Mass of Christian Burial Monday, December 21 at 10:45 am at St. Henry’s Roman Catholic Church, 82 W 29th St, Bayonne, NJ 07002. Burial to follow at Holy Cross Cemetery and Mausoleum, 340 Ridge Rd, North Arlington, NJ 07031.
In lieu of flowers, please enjoy a Gin and Tonic in his memory or make memorial contributions in Robert’s name to St. Jude Children’s Hospital www.stjude.org, the National Down Syndrome Society www.ndss.org, or the John Theurer Cancer Center, Hackensack, NJ www.jtcancercenter.org
To share a favorite memory or send messages of condolence please visit Robert’s Page of Tributes at www.holmdelfuneralhome.com.
In order to accommodate all the Dalton’s family and their guests, we ask that you please be brief during visitation so that all guests will be able to offer their condolences. Face protection is also required as per state regulations. Thank you for your kindness during this difficult time for all.
Susan Campbell
left a message on January 28, 2021:
To the family of my dear friend and colleague Bob,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. Bob was more than a colleague; he was a friend. Whenever I (we) in CFK was in need of a substitute teacher, he was always ready to serve. He love the kids and they loved him.
I especially loved his smiling face at the start of the day whenever I walked into his office down the hall. It was never business only. He was always concerned with how I was doing followed by a sit and chat.
Bob, was the kindest most selfless person I have know. I will personally miss him once things get back to normal.
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family, and all those who loved and cherished him.
Sincere condolences,
Susan Campbell and family
Susan Campbell
left a message on January 28, 2021:
To the family of my dear friend and colleague Bob,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. Bob was more than a colleague; he was a friend. Whenever I (we) in CFK was in need of a substitute teacher, he was always ready to serve. He love the kids and they loved him.
I especially loved his smiling face at the start of the day whenever I walked into his office down the hall. It was never business only. He was always concerned with how I was doing followed by a sit and chat.
Bob, was the kindest most selfless person I have know. I will personally miss him once things get back to normal.
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family, and all those who loved and cherished him.
Sincere condolences,
Susan Campbell and family
Peter/Claudine Marilley and family
left a message on December 20, 2020:
Kathleen, Cindy, Robert and David. We are all so sad about Uncle Bob. Our hearts break with yours. We loved him and your Mom. There are so many memories our family have interwoven with your family from babies in Bayonne to our adult lives. Both of your parents were always around for us. I have clear beautiful memories of them visiting with us wherever we lived! And having a relationship with them as an adult was precious! You four and your families were the greatest joy in your parents lives. And through them, we have stayed in the loop of your lives. We have kept your Dad (and your Mom) in our thoughts and prayers and will continue to do so. Our love and prayers for you all.
Eternal rest grant unto Uncle Bob,
O Lord, and let perpetual light
shine upon him.
May the souls of all the faithful departed, through
the mercy of God, rest in peace.
Amen
Jerry and Kim Kiely
left a message on December 20, 2020:
To a Fellow Sailor whose company was greatly enjoyed while sailing through many adventures. Bob, for all the hearty laughs and good times with you and Delores, these wonderful memories will always remain in our hearts. Kim and Jerry
Kevin McGovern
left a message on December 20, 2020:
I have so many memories of Bob (and Dolores) as their house on Regal Drive was practically my 2nd home growing up with David and our families spent a lot of wonderful times together in the 70's and 80's. I was fortunate enough to get to see Bob and Dolores about 10 years ago when they came to visit us in Florida and it was wonderful to reminisce about all the great years we spent in Colonia and have one last conversation about our beloved New York Giants. Bob (always Mr. Dalton to me) you were a great Dad and friend and you will be missed! David, Kathleen, Cindy and Robert you guys are in my thoughts and prayers.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
George Kasmos
left a message on December 20, 2020:
My condolences to the Dalton Family.
I would like to share a few memories of Bob.
We met at a meeting after Superstorm Sandy in 2012. We were concerned about all the rules, regulations and the bureaucracy concerning the rebuilding of our homes.
I was there on a selfish endeavor to rebuild my home. Not till years later did I find out Bob's home had minimal damage. His advocacy was to help others.
After several months and constant communication Bob was a key person, behind the scenes, in helping develp a national non-profit to help people rebuld after floods.
As the years rolled on in our advocacy Bob and I would go to luch a few ti,es a year, he and I both loved Kosta's grill in Tuckerton. We became more than advocates, we became friends.
Bob was a selfless man. A few years into our friendship I spoke to one of his children, I beleive his name was Bob. I found out he was also an advocate concerning harmful chemicals in carpeting and flooring.
I wish I could have one last lunch with Bob to tell him;
I appreciate your service in the military.
I appreciate your advocacy.
I appreciated your friendship.
You left this world a better place than you found it.
May god bless you and your family.
You will be sorely missed.
Love you
Big George
Danny
left a message on December 19, 2020:
Kathleen, Cindy, Robert and David,
I loved your dad. He was my right hand man, and was always there when needed, handing me the right tool and advice on how to use it. I am not only your husband/brother in-law—he made me feel like his own son and for that I am eternally grateful. I will miss his wisdom and whit along with his smile and laugh but I know he will still be with me when I reach for the next tool in life. His greatest quality was that he taught his children to always do the right thing.
Be assured this Airman is on his mission in heaven.
Love your brother,
Danny
Mary and Jim Romer
left a message on December 18, 2020:
Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone at this time of such great sorrow. I will miss my brother so very much. He was a good brother, friend and person. We are blessed to have wonderful family and friends to help us work thru this time of sorrow. ❤?
Sandy Blackman
left a message on December 18, 2020:
Dear Kathleen, Robert, Cindy and David,
So sad to hear of Bob's passing. It has been a long time since we have seen the whole family, but have great memories of our times together. Continue to share your stories with your family, laugh and cry together, it is a great healer. Sending hugs and prayers, Sandy Hoard Blackman
Joanne Clark and Michael Cooughlin
left a message on December 18, 2020:
It is with our deepest condolences to Barbara and Bob's family. Bob and Barbara always smiling and enjoying life! They always exuded happiness and love for each other. Our thoughts and prayers are with Bob's family and Barbara. Sending many hugs to Barbara.
Rest In Peace .
Martha and Rich Niekrash
left a message on December 18, 2020:
I enjoyed spending time with Bob and his lovely partner Barbara on Friday nights at Keyport Yacht Club. We all loved seeing them there, enjoying the music and attending many of our socials.. We will miss seeing him, sitting next to Barbara on the side of the bar, smiling, and enjoying the music and his gin and tonic, . Our prayers go out to Barbara and his family, Rest In Peace, it was a pleasure spending time with you at Keyport Yacht Club..
Debbie Eisenberger Matityahu
left a message on December 17, 2020:
He sounds like an amazing father and person. So sorry for this huge loss.
Sherry Dietz
left a message on December 17, 2020:
Bob and his partner Barbara were fixtures at Keyport Yacht Club on Friday nights when my band played. All of us loved seeing them there, enjoying our music - singing along and dancing in their seats. Bob was such a lovely person, and we so appreciated his kindness and support of our music. We will miss seeing him, sitting next to Barbara on the bay side of the bar, smiling, drinking his gin & tonic, and bopping along to “Pretty Woman” or “I Saw Her Standing There.” Rest In Peace dear friend. With love from Sherry & The Pirates (Sherry, Vince, Mark, JC, John, Jeff, and Mike).
Edward Andrew
left a message on December 17, 2020:
Bob will be missed, as a great neighbor and friend and as a valuable collaborator in Osborn Island's efforts to make it a better place ...and keep the politicians in line. RIP Bob....and sincerest condolences to his family. He may depart, but he will never leave our thoughts and prayers.
Ryan Hall
left a message on December 16, 2020:
In memory of Robert Edward Dalton, Ryan Hall lit a candle
Kasia
left a message on December 16, 2020:
Lord, give Robert eternal rest, and let the eternal light shine for him. So sorry for your loss, sending condolences from Poland . Kasia Stanisława Łukasz
Don & Cindy Bence
left a message on December 16, 2020:
Always enjoyed Bob's company and sharing stories of his many vacations and cruises. He was a true gentlemen and will be missed. Rest in Peace.
Lorraine Podraza
left a message on December 16, 2020:
The best brother-in-law anyone could ever have. Rest in peace, Bob.
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Susan Campbell
left a message on January 28, 2021:
To the family of my dear friend and colleague Bob,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. Bob was more than a colleague; he was a friend. Whenever I (we) in CFK was in need of a substitute teacher, he was always ready to serve. He love the kids and they loved him.
I especially loved his smiling face at the start of the day whenever I walked into his office down the hall. It was never business only. He was always concerned with how I was doing followed by a sit and chat.
Bob, was the kindest most selfless person I have know. I will personally miss him once things get back to normal.
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family, and all those who loved and cherished him.
Sincere condolences,
Susan Campbell and family
Susan Campbell
left a message on January 28, 2021:
To the family of my dear friend and colleague Bob,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. Bob was more than a colleague; he was a friend. Whenever I (we) in CFK was in need of a substitute teacher, he was always ready to serve. He love the kids and they loved him.
I especially loved his smiling face at the start of the day whenever I walked into his office down the hall. It was never business only. He was always concerned with how I was doing followed by a sit and chat.
Bob, was the kindest most selfless person I have know. I will personally miss him once things get back to normal.
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family, and all those who loved and cherished him.
Sincere condolences,
Susan Campbell and family
Peter/Claudine Marilley and family
left a message on December 20, 2020:
Kathleen, Cindy, Robert and David. We are all so sad about Uncle Bob. Our hearts break with yours. We loved him and your Mom. There are so many memories our family have interwoven with your family from babies in Bayonne to our adult lives. Both of your parents were always around for us. I have clear beautiful memories of them visiting with us wherever we lived! And having a relationship with them as an adult was precious! You four and your families were the greatest joy in your parents lives. And through them, we have stayed in the loop of your lives. We have kept your Dad (and your Mom) in our thoughts and prayers and will continue to do so. Our love and prayers for you all.
Eternal rest grant unto Uncle Bob,
O Lord, and let perpetual light
shine upon him.
May the souls of all the faithful departed, through
the mercy of God, rest in peace.
Amen
Jerry and Kim Kiely
left a message on December 20, 2020:
To a Fellow Sailor whose company was greatly enjoyed while sailing through many adventures. Bob, for all the hearty laughs and good times with you and Delores, these wonderful memories will always remain in our hearts. Kim and Jerry
Kevin McGovern
left a message on December 20, 2020:
I have so many memories of Bob (and Dolores) as their house on Regal Drive was practically my 2nd home growing up with David and our families spent a lot of wonderful times together in the 70's and 80's. I was fortunate enough to get to see Bob and Dolores about 10 years ago when they came to visit us in Florida and it was wonderful to reminisce about all the great years we spent in Colonia and have one last conversation about our beloved New York Giants. Bob (always Mr. Dalton to me) you were a great Dad and friend and you will be missed! David, Kathleen, Cindy and Robert you guys are in my thoughts and prayers.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
George Kasmos
left a message on December 20, 2020:
My condolences to the Dalton Family.
I would like to share a few memories of Bob.
We met at a meeting after Superstorm Sandy in 2012. We were concerned about all the rules, regulations and the bureaucracy concerning the rebuilding of our homes.
I was there on a selfish endeavor to rebuild my home. Not till years later did I find out Bob's home had minimal damage. His advocacy was to help others.
After several months and constant communication Bob was a key person, behind the scenes, in helping develp a national non-profit to help people rebuld after floods.
As the years rolled on in our advocacy Bob and I would go to luch a few ti,es a year, he and I both loved Kosta's grill in Tuckerton. We became more than advocates, we became friends.
Bob was a selfless man. A few years into our friendship I spoke to one of his children, I beleive his name was Bob. I found out he was also an advocate concerning harmful chemicals in carpeting and flooring.
I wish I could have one last lunch with Bob to tell him;
I appreciate your service in the military.
I appreciate your advocacy.
I appreciated your friendship.
You left this world a better place than you found it.
May god bless you and your family.
You will be sorely missed.
Love you
Big George
Danny
left a message on December 19, 2020:
Kathleen, Cindy, Robert and David,
I loved your dad. He was my right hand man, and was always there when needed, handing me the right tool and advice on how to use it. I am not only your husband/brother in-law—he made me feel like his own son and for that I am eternally grateful. I will miss his wisdom and whit along with his smile and laugh but I know he will still be with me when I reach for the next tool in life. His greatest quality was that he taught his children to always do the right thing.
Be assured this Airman is on his mission in heaven.
Love your brother,
Danny
Mary and Jim Romer
left a message on December 18, 2020:
Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone at this time of such great sorrow. I will miss my brother so very much. He was a good brother, friend and person. We are blessed to have wonderful family and friends to help us work thru this time of sorrow. ❤?
Sandy Blackman
left a message on December 18, 2020:
Dear Kathleen, Robert, Cindy and David,
So sad to hear of Bob's passing. It has been a long time since we have seen the whole family, but have great memories of our times together. Continue to share your stories with your family, laugh and cry together, it is a great healer. Sending hugs and prayers, Sandy Hoard Blackman
Joanne Clark and Michael Cooughlin
left a message on December 18, 2020:
It is with our deepest condolences to Barbara and Bob's family. Bob and Barbara always smiling and enjoying life! They always exuded happiness and love for each other. Our thoughts and prayers are with Bob's family and Barbara. Sending many hugs to Barbara.
Rest In Peace .
Martha and Rich Niekrash
left a message on December 18, 2020:
I enjoyed spending time with Bob and his lovely partner Barbara on Friday nights at Keyport Yacht Club. We all loved seeing them there, enjoying the music and attending many of our socials.. We will miss seeing him, sitting next to Barbara on the side of the bar, smiling, and enjoying the music and his gin and tonic, . Our prayers go out to Barbara and his family, Rest In Peace, it was a pleasure spending time with you at Keyport Yacht Club..
Debbie Eisenberger Matityahu
left a message on December 17, 2020:
He sounds like an amazing father and person. So sorry for this huge loss.
Sherry Dietz
left a message on December 17, 2020:
Bob and his partner Barbara were fixtures at Keyport Yacht Club on Friday nights when my band played. All of us loved seeing them there, enjoying our music - singing along and dancing in their seats. Bob was such a lovely person, and we so appreciated his kindness and support of our music. We will miss seeing him, sitting next to Barbara on the bay side of the bar, smiling, drinking his gin & tonic, and bopping along to “Pretty Woman” or “I Saw Her Standing There.” Rest In Peace dear friend. With love from Sherry & The Pirates (Sherry, Vince, Mark, JC, John, Jeff, and Mike).
Edward Andrew
left a message on December 17, 2020:
Bob will be missed, as a great neighbor and friend and as a valuable collaborator in Osborn Island's efforts to make it a better place ...and keep the politicians in line. RIP Bob....and sincerest condolences to his family. He may depart, but he will never leave our thoughts and prayers.
Ryan Hall
left a message on December 16, 2020:
In memory of Robert Edward Dalton, Ryan Hall lit a candle
Kasia
left a message on December 16, 2020:
Lord, give Robert eternal rest, and let the eternal light shine for him. So sorry for your loss, sending condolences from Poland . Kasia Stanisława Łukasz
Don & Cindy Bence
left a message on December 16, 2020:
Always enjoyed Bob's company and sharing stories of his many vacations and cruises. He was a true gentlemen and will be missed. Rest in Peace.
Lorraine Podraza
left a message on December 16, 2020:
The best brother-in-law anyone could ever have. Rest in peace, Bob.
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