Roger Bruce Barnett, 74, of Colts Neck, NJ passed away Wednesday, September 4th surrounded by his family. Roger was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY. At the age of 20, he took his first job on Wall Street where he ultimately spent a long and successful 35-year career, rising to the rank of President of …
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Roger Bruce Barnett, 74, of Colts Neck, NJ passed away Wednesday, September 4th surrounded by his family.
Roger was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY. At the age of 20, he took his first job on Wall Street where he ultimately spent a long and successful 35-year career, rising to the rank of President of his last firm. In his early twenties, he served in the United States Army National Guard. As a young man, he was set up on a blind date with a woman named Joyce whom he married three years later, and the couple had three boys. While the boys were young, Roger moved his family to Colts Neck, NJ where he and his wife raised their family.
Roger loved everything sports—if there was a ball or a puck involved, he was watching it on TV. As a kid, he was a NY Giants fan in Brooklyn Dodger territory due to his sports hero, Willie Mays. When Willie and the Giants moved to San Francisco, he became a fan of the new baseball team in town, the New York Mets. He was also a devoted fan of the NY Football Giants and the NJ Devils. He had a strong love for horse racing and when he was older, he and his wife owned horses which raced all over the East Coast, including New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Delaware, Maryland and Florida. And of course, he loved to participate, as well—he was an avid tennis player, usually playing three times a week.
Roger loved spending time with his family, with trips to their summer home in the Pocono Mountains in a house Roger built primarily by himself. His favorite trip was a weeklong vacation with his family to Saratoga Springs, NY in the summers to see the horse races, a trip they took together for 30 years. He and his wife also traveled all throughout the Caribbean on vacations.
Roger is survived by his loving wife Joyce Barnett of Colts Neck, his children Scott Barnett and his wife Mindy Barnett of Woodbridge, NJ, Robert Barnett of Long Valley, NJ, and William Barnett of Jackson, NJ and his adored grandchildren Lucas, Brooke, Robert Jr., Logan and Kaitlyn. He is also survived by his brother Donald Barnett and several nieces and nephews.
Visitation will be Saturday, September 7th from 2:00 – 6:00 PM and Sunday September 8th 12:00- 1:00 PM at the Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 South Holmdel Road. A service will be offered Sunday, September 8th at 1:00 PM at the Holmdel Funeral Home. An Entombment will follow the service at Marlboro Memorial Cemetery, 361 Highway 79, Morganville.
In lieu of traditional remembrances, the family asks that donations be made to the American Cancer Society at www.donate3.cancer.org or to the American Heart Association at www.heart.org.
To leave a message of condolence or share a favorite memory please visit Roger’s page at www.holmdelfuneralhome.com.
Scott van den Berg
left a message on November 6, 2019:
When Cory scored his first ice hockey goal (even though it was a deflection), Roger and Joyce were standing next to me at the Winding River outdoor rink during a house league game. It was during that game I learned they were the proud grandparents of the best little hockey player I can remember watching on the ice... Luc. That was the day I met Roger and there were many other days where I had more than enjoyable conversations with him and Joyce. I was extremely saddened to hear of Roger's passing, but I am happy to have gotten to know him over the past nine years. I wish I had a chance to say goodbye, but this is my only avenue left! I hope everyone he touched will be able to move on with his memory guiding them. Goodbye Mr. Barnett! I always looked forward to speaking with you no matter how short the interactions may have been over the years.
Barbara Coyne
left a message on September 7, 2019:
To the Barnett family,
I extend my deepest sympathies for your loss. I want to share my last memory of Roger. It was at Rob’s wedding and I remember how ecstatic Roger was. He was clearly overjoyed with being a grandfather and so proud of his family. I remember thinking he has to be the happiest guy on earth.
Carol and john Rodeck
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Dear Joyce and family,
Your loss is real it is great and we grieve with you. Roger was your everything and the void will never be filled. We are thinking of you at this sad time and hope you will be able to remember all your wonderful times together over your sorrow. Love to your family as well. You are always rembered with fondness by us. Prayers to all.
John and Carol Rodeck
Karen Townsend
left a message on September 6, 2019:
I’m still in shock knowing you are no longer with us. I will miss you so very much! We have had so many wonderful times together, you were more than just my uncle, you were a very big part of my life growing up! We have had so many good times over the years, too many to even name, but I will never forget your sense of humor and infectious laugh. As a little girl you always knew how much I loved Disney, and your impersonation of Donald Duck alway made me laugh. No matter how many times I asked you to do it, you always would because you knew it made me happy. And you sounded just like him too. When I grew up and had a daughter of my own, you treated her like she was your own granddaughter. The joy in your face when Ashlee called you Uncle Bubba was priceless and for you to embrace her and let her change your name that day forever, well, that made me proud to call you my uncle. From that day on you became uncle Bubba, and it became exclusively your affectionate nickname. You will be deeply missed and forever in our hearts! RIP Uncle Roger, Also known as Uncle Bubba!
Robin Barnett
left a message on September 6, 2019:
You welcomed me into your family and have shown me unconditional love and kindness ever since. Your smile and laughter always made me feel like everything was going to be ok. You’ve been a friend and the best grandpa. Luc and I are blessed to have had you in our lives. You will be missed and loved everyday. R.I.P Lyle.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jose and Merci Muniz
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Our condolences and sympathy go to Joyce, children and grandchildren who will always treasure the beautiful memories left by Roger. His life and experiences will be a constant reminder of the love and care he had given his loved ones and will forever be with them. Rest in peace.
Barbara Astorri
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Joyce and family,
I was so sadden when I heard about Roger.
It was so great to see you guys recently after all these years....it felt really good to catch up. Roger was always such a positive presence...and that smile!
Joyce you and your family are in my prayers.
Bill Barnett
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Dad, you had an immeasurable impact on my life, my son’s life, our whole family’s lives, and that of everyone you’ve ever touched. I love you so much and already miss you terribly. We have so many pictures of you smiling with us, your friends, and especially at your grandchildren. You smiled at everyone, even in the hospital in the some of the most difficult moments. Forever smiling... Thank you, Dad... for everything!
Elaine Chilcoat
left a message on September 6, 2019:
I’m not sure how best to express my fondness for Roger, other than to say there will always be warmth in my heart when I think of him. I’m blessed to have been a part of the family through Scott, and am beyond grateful that I got to see Roger one last time before his passing. He is loved and he will be missed.
Mindy Barnett
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Dad, to say that I am heartbroken over your passing is an understatement. You were the best father-in-law a girl could ask for. In many ways, you were a better father to me than my own father was, and for that, I will be forever grateful.
Thank you for being such a positive influence and role model for all whom you've left behind. Scott and I are prouder now more than ever that we honored you with giving your name as Logan's middle name. You will live on forever in our hearts.
Love you and miss you immensely,
Mindy
Ed and Wendy Lane
left a message on September 6, 2019:
We met Roger at Scott and Mindy's wedding ( I am Mindy's sister). We remember him as being very nice and funny. Our hearts go out to the whole family. Such a terrible loss for all of you. But what a wonderful life he had. You have our deepest sympathies...
Maryann Korth
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Dear Joyce and Family,
I’m so sad to hear the news of Roger’s passing. I truly feel your pain since the passing of my Dad is still so raw. I hope you find some comfort knowing that others are thinking of you and sending love your way. May peace find its way to your heart. XO
Sel Piskin
left a message on September 6, 2019:
My deepest condolences to Barnett family upon the passing of Roger, my dear tennis friend
Bernadette Bonamassa
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Dear Joyce and family, I cannot express the sorrow I feel for your loss. We have been friends for many years and we have always tried to be there for each other. It has been an honor to know Roger and his beautiful family for all these years. I will always remember him as a caring and happy person. And I will be there when you need me to help in anyway I can.
Scott Pinheiro
left a message on September 6, 2019:
So sorry to hear this news. Roger was a friend and mentor for the last 20 plus years. He hired a green and untested financial advisor and together we shaped a long standing working relationship. I am forever grateful for his guidance.
Finance was our cornerstone but family came first. Every discussion we ever had started with an update on Joyce the boys and the grandchildren along with conversation on how Debbie and I were doing.
A true sports nut and a mutual Met fan. Got to have faith.
Joyce and family my deepest condolences. Focus on the wonderful memories.
Peace somehow.
Scott
Robert Barnett
left a message on September 5, 2019:
Dad there are no words to explain the heartache of losing you. What an incredible man, friend, husband, father and grandfather. We all love you!
Rest In Peace Dad
Chris & Anne Iorillo
left a message on September 5, 2019:
A candle was lit by Chris & Anne Iorillo on 2019/09/05
Scott Barnett
left a message on September 5, 2019:
Dad, I'm still trying to process the fact that you're no longer here, but I know you're not done teaching me.
Thank you for being the greatest father, friend and mentor I could ever ask for.
-Scott
Kyle Barnett
left a message on September 5, 2019:
One of the few people in my life I considered a true role model. How many times throughout the years I would ask myself, "what would Uncle Roger do in this situation?" I will miss your wisdom, sense of humor and kindness.
Patricia Barnett
left a message on September 5, 2019:
I am so very sorry for your loss, you are in my prayers.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
kathy prater
left a message on September 5, 2019:
Our hearts are broken for your family, we know you are no longer in pain but the void in peoples hearts will go on forever...always loved you, always will
Bob & Kathy Prater
Ned Doudican
left a message on September 5, 2019:
Our prayers go out to the Barnett family. Even though we haven’t talked in years I have some great memories of Roger. My first thought of Roger always takes me back to the morning after the 1986 Kentucky Derby and having brunch with Roger and Joyce in Lexington. Roger always had a smile on .A true gentleman.
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Scott van den Berg
left a message on November 6, 2019:
When Cory scored his first ice hockey goal (even though it was a deflection), Roger and Joyce were standing next to me at the Winding River outdoor rink during a house league game. It was during that game I learned they were the proud grandparents of the best little hockey player I can remember watching on the ice... Luc. That was the day I met Roger and there were many other days where I had more than enjoyable conversations with him and Joyce. I was extremely saddened to hear of Roger's passing, but I am happy to have gotten to know him over the past nine years. I wish I had a chance to say goodbye, but this is my only avenue left! I hope everyone he touched will be able to move on with his memory guiding them. Goodbye Mr. Barnett! I always looked forward to speaking with you no matter how short the interactions may have been over the years.
Barbara Coyne
left a message on September 7, 2019:
To the Barnett family,
I extend my deepest sympathies for your loss. I want to share my last memory of Roger. It was at Rob’s wedding and I remember how ecstatic Roger was. He was clearly overjoyed with being a grandfather and so proud of his family. I remember thinking he has to be the happiest guy on earth.
Carol and john Rodeck
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Dear Joyce and family,
Your loss is real it is great and we grieve with you. Roger was your everything and the void will never be filled. We are thinking of you at this sad time and hope you will be able to remember all your wonderful times together over your sorrow. Love to your family as well. You are always rembered with fondness by us. Prayers to all.
John and Carol Rodeck
Karen Townsend
left a message on September 6, 2019:
I’m still in shock knowing you are no longer with us. I will miss you so very much! We have had so many wonderful times together, you were more than just my uncle, you were a very big part of my life growing up! We have had so many good times over the years, too many to even name, but I will never forget your sense of humor and infectious laugh. As a little girl you always knew how much I loved Disney, and your impersonation of Donald Duck alway made me laugh. No matter how many times I asked you to do it, you always would because you knew it made me happy. And you sounded just like him too. When I grew up and had a daughter of my own, you treated her like she was your own granddaughter. The joy in your face when Ashlee called you Uncle Bubba was priceless and for you to embrace her and let her change your name that day forever, well, that made me proud to call you my uncle. From that day on you became uncle Bubba, and it became exclusively your affectionate nickname. You will be deeply missed and forever in our hearts! RIP Uncle Roger, Also known as Uncle Bubba!
Robin Barnett
left a message on September 6, 2019:
You welcomed me into your family and have shown me unconditional love and kindness ever since. Your smile and laughter always made me feel like everything was going to be ok. You’ve been a friend and the best grandpa. Luc and I are blessed to have had you in our lives. You will be missed and loved everyday. R.I.P Lyle.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jose and Merci Muniz
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Our condolences and sympathy go to Joyce, children and grandchildren who will always treasure the beautiful memories left by Roger. His life and experiences will be a constant reminder of the love and care he had given his loved ones and will forever be with them. Rest in peace.
Barbara Astorri
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Joyce and family,
I was so sadden when I heard about Roger.
It was so great to see you guys recently after all these years....it felt really good to catch up. Roger was always such a positive presence...and that smile!
Joyce you and your family are in my prayers.
Bill Barnett
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Dad, you had an immeasurable impact on my life, my son’s life, our whole family’s lives, and that of everyone you’ve ever touched. I love you so much and already miss you terribly. We have so many pictures of you smiling with us, your friends, and especially at your grandchildren. You smiled at everyone, even in the hospital in the some of the most difficult moments. Forever smiling... Thank you, Dad... for everything!
Elaine Chilcoat
left a message on September 6, 2019:
I’m not sure how best to express my fondness for Roger, other than to say there will always be warmth in my heart when I think of him. I’m blessed to have been a part of the family through Scott, and am beyond grateful that I got to see Roger one last time before his passing. He is loved and he will be missed.
Mindy Barnett
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Dad, to say that I am heartbroken over your passing is an understatement. You were the best father-in-law a girl could ask for. In many ways, you were a better father to me than my own father was, and for that, I will be forever grateful.
Thank you for being such a positive influence and role model for all whom you've left behind. Scott and I are prouder now more than ever that we honored you with giving your name as Logan's middle name. You will live on forever in our hearts.
Love you and miss you immensely,
Mindy
Ed and Wendy Lane
left a message on September 6, 2019:
We met Roger at Scott and Mindy's wedding ( I am Mindy's sister). We remember him as being very nice and funny. Our hearts go out to the whole family. Such a terrible loss for all of you. But what a wonderful life he had. You have our deepest sympathies...
Maryann Korth
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Dear Joyce and Family,
I’m so sad to hear the news of Roger’s passing. I truly feel your pain since the passing of my Dad is still so raw. I hope you find some comfort knowing that others are thinking of you and sending love your way. May peace find its way to your heart. XO
Sel Piskin
left a message on September 6, 2019:
My deepest condolences to Barnett family upon the passing of Roger, my dear tennis friend
Bernadette Bonamassa
left a message on September 6, 2019:
Dear Joyce and family, I cannot express the sorrow I feel for your loss. We have been friends for many years and we have always tried to be there for each other. It has been an honor to know Roger and his beautiful family for all these years. I will always remember him as a caring and happy person. And I will be there when you need me to help in anyway I can.
Scott Pinheiro
left a message on September 6, 2019:
So sorry to hear this news. Roger was a friend and mentor for the last 20 plus years. He hired a green and untested financial advisor and together we shaped a long standing working relationship. I am forever grateful for his guidance.
Finance was our cornerstone but family came first. Every discussion we ever had started with an update on Joyce the boys and the grandchildren along with conversation on how Debbie and I were doing.
A true sports nut and a mutual Met fan. Got to have faith.
Joyce and family my deepest condolences. Focus on the wonderful memories.
Peace somehow.
Scott
Robert Barnett
left a message on September 5, 2019:
Dad there are no words to explain the heartache of losing you. What an incredible man, friend, husband, father and grandfather. We all love you!
Rest In Peace Dad
Chris & Anne Iorillo
left a message on September 5, 2019:
A candle was lit by Chris & Anne Iorillo on 2019/09/05
Scott Barnett
left a message on September 5, 2019:
Dad, I'm still trying to process the fact that you're no longer here, but I know you're not done teaching me.
Thank you for being the greatest father, friend and mentor I could ever ask for.
-Scott
Kyle Barnett
left a message on September 5, 2019:
One of the few people in my life I considered a true role model. How many times throughout the years I would ask myself, "what would Uncle Roger do in this situation?" I will miss your wisdom, sense of humor and kindness.
Patricia Barnett
left a message on September 5, 2019:
I am so very sorry for your loss, you are in my prayers.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
kathy prater
left a message on September 5, 2019:
Our hearts are broken for your family, we know you are no longer in pain but the void in peoples hearts will go on forever...always loved you, always will
Bob & Kathy Prater
Ned Doudican
left a message on September 5, 2019:
Our prayers go out to the Barnett family. Even though we haven’t talked in years I have some great memories of Roger. My first thought of Roger always takes me back to the morning after the 1986 Kentucky Derby and having brunch with Roger and Joyce in Lexington. Roger always had a smile on .A true gentleman.
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