Ronald Acquaviva, 80 of Holmdel died at his home on Tuesday, November 17th, surrounded by his family. Ron was born and raised in Hoboken, where he attended grade school and graduated from Demerest High School. Following high school he joined his father in the refrigeration business, which began his long career in the construction industry. …
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Ronald Acquaviva, 80 of Holmdel died at his home on Tuesday, November 17th, surrounded by his family.
Ron was born and raised in Hoboken, where he attended grade school and graduated from Demerest High School. Following high school he joined his father in the refrigeration business, which began his long career in the construction industry. Ron moved to Holmdel and began Acquaviva Companies which became the largest builder of homes in Holmdel, and one of the largest in Monmouth County. Some of his favorite projects were the CPC building in Morganville and the ARC of Monmouth County building. Ron served on the Board of Trustees of CPC of Monmouth County.
Ron was always giving back and never wanted credit, he just did it for everyone, he never said no to anyone who asked for his help. He was a parishioner of the Church of St. Catharine, Holmdel.
His enjoyed deep sea fishing and boating, along with caring for his vegetable garden. Ron loved his home in St. Martin, where he and family took many trips together. He will always be remembered as larger then life, loving husband, father, grandfather and friend.
Surviving Ron is his loving wife of 60 years, Francine; their sons and their wives, Christopher and Marsha of Manalapan, Gregory and Jeanne of Holmdel, Gerard and Jennifer of Millstone and Jeffrey of Holmdel; his adored grandchildren, Lauren and her husband Ry, Christopher, Ronald, Bianca, Anthony, Amanda, Ella, Matthew and Jake.
Visitation Friday, November 20th, 2:00 to 8:00 pm at the Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 South Holmdel Road, Holmdel. Mass of Christian burial, Saturday, November 21st, 10:30 am, Church of St. Catharine, 108 Middletown Road, Holmdel. Entombment will follow at Holmdel Mausoleum.
Contributions in Ron’s memory may be made to the St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital at www.stjude.org or Memorial Sloane Kettering www.mskcc.org.
To leave a condolence for the family, or to share a memory of Ronald please visit his page of tributes at www.holmdelfuneralhome.com
In order to accommodate all of Ron’s family and friends, we ask that you please be brief while visiting so that all guests can safely pay their respects. COVID19 regulations require masks and social distancing.
Linda and Al De Palma
left a message on November 23, 2020:
Sending deepest condolences to Francine and family! May he Rest In Peace! God Bless!
Dave & Karen Flood
left a message on November 22, 2020:
Francine and family- Sending love and a hug from Utah. We join you in sadness, while grateful to reflect on so many smile-worthy memories. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Janet Piscatelli
left a message on November 21, 2020:
Deepest sympathy to you Francine and your entire family. So many memories over so many years. Rest in Peace Ron.
Janet and Andy Piscatelli
Marielaina LaRosa & Michael Gallo
left a message on November 21, 2020:
May his wonderful memory and Legacy live on in is Sons and beautiful grandchildren!! My condolences to Francine and your family.
David Stout
left a message on November 21, 2020:
Acquaviva family, the Brookdale Community College family and Brookdale Foundation are heartbroken upon hearing the news about Ron’s passing. We are forever grateful to have known him. We know that the loving arms of your family and friends will help lift you up and bring you some comfort. Please know we are always here for you.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
William McCormick
left a message on November 21, 2020:
In memory of Ronald Acquaviva, William McCormick lit a candle
Peter and Grace Kalac
left a message on November 21, 2020:
We were deeply saddened by the news of Ron's death. He will be in our prayers. Peter & Grace Kalac
Heidi and Jim Maggs
left a message on November 21, 2020:
What a beautiful life and a beautiful family! Our heartfelt condolences to you all!
Pam Piscatelli
left a message on November 21, 2020:
So sorry Francine, boys, and families, to learn of Ron’s passing. Wrapping you all in love and light during this very sad time.
Fátima Cristina ZAGURSKI
left a message on November 21, 2020:
Dear Francine,
Do you remember how much Mr.Acquaviva
loved the song:"Singing in the Rain"?
Go with GOD.
❤️❤️??NEVER WILL FORGET.
Debbie Coker
left a message on November 20, 2020:
You will be missed be doing many but you are in a much better place
Camilly Silva
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Dear Francine, I am very sorry for your loss. Ever since I met Ron, he was very kind. He would make jokes that would brighten my day. I hope that he will be remembered as the kind man he was in his life. Ron was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed.
Karen and Glenn Cashion
left a message on November 20, 2020:
We offer our heartfelt condolences to the entire Acquaviva family. Our prayers are with you. Karen and Glenn Cashion
Margie Rafter
left a message on November 20, 2020:
My thoughts and prayers go out to Ron’s family. I will always remember him from 217 Madison St., in Hoboken
Dr. Anthony and Vicki DeNoia
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Our thoughts and prayers to the family of such an amazing, kind and unforgettable friend.
Our lives have been blessed to have shared many fond memories together.
We will miss him dearly.
Samantha Sodon
left a message on November 20, 2020:
My deepest apologies for your loss. May he Rest In Peace in heaven .
The Mattera Family
left a message on November 20, 2020:
May the love of friends and family soften your sorrow and sadness. Hoping your cherished memories bring your family moments of comfort. Rest In Peace
Nikki Alfano
left a message on November 20, 2020:
My thoughts and prayers with the Aquaviva family. May his light shine on forever. Rest In Peace
Peter Ferraro and AJ Altes
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Sending our deepest condolences to the Acquaviva family. May he rest in peace.
Theresa Vitiello
left a message on November 20, 2020:
My deepest sympathy for the loss of my cousin Ron. He had such a HUGE personality! He was so jovial and always made people laugh. I will miss him dearly. All of my cousins are in my heart and prayers during this difficult time. My love to all of the family.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Louise Mancione
left a message on November 20, 2020:
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers with the family.
Anthony cozzetta
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Sincere condolence to Fran and the family.
Ron was a wonderful man, good friend and Great neighbor.
Anthony & Christine Cozzetta
Valerie Niess
left a message on November 20, 2020:
GOD BLESS
BEST TO THE FAMILY
Tom and Jane Metz
left a message on November 20, 2020:
We cannot imagine a world without Ron. This great man was 100 percent goodness and kindness, and a loyal friend to us for many years. All that is good and fine in Ron has been passed on to his sons and grandchildren. We are so proud and grateful for his and Francine's friendship, and their wonderful family. May Ron live on in the Acquavivas and may he Rest In Peace.
Hult family
left a message on November 20, 2020:
I worked for Mr.A as the chef at Remington Cafe in Holmdel, he was a really good boss and friend ,I really liked him.
Nick Messere
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Our thoughts & prayers are with you all.
May Ron rest in peace. ?
Rose & Nick Messere
Joseph and Gail Lagomarsino
left a message on November 20, 2020:
With our deepest love and condolences to your entire family.
Ronnie, you will truly be missed by everyone who loved you and had the pleasure to know you.
Thank you??
Gina Murrello Ursino
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Prayers and love for the entire Acquaviva Family !
Bayaan Oluyadi
left a message on November 20, 2020:
In memory of Ronald Acquaviva, Bayaan Oluyadi lit a candle
Katia menezes
left a message on November 20, 2020:
God Bless you Ron
Katia menezes
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Dear Francine and family members,
Im am truly sorry for your loss. Your husband was a kind men and we had some fun times together. Always with a smile and telling me to go home during snow storms... i will never forget his sweet face.
May God be with you and yours giving you the strength to keep going and the understanding that his time has come, but he will live forever in your hearts.
My condolences, katia Menezes
Katia menezes
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Dear Francine and family members,
Im am truly sorry for your loss. Your husband was a kind men and we had some fun times together. Always with a smile and telling me to go home during snow storms... i will never forget his sweet face.
May God be with you and yours giving you the strength to keep going and the understanding that his time has come, but he will live forever in your hearts.
My condolences, katia Menezes
Judy Werble Weiss
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Dearest Fran & Family,
I am so very sad to hear the news of cousin Ron’s passing. In my childhood i always remember the fun times we had when my Aunt Edna and Ron would visit. And i never forget his generosity when i was at Aunt Edna’s funeral service in a huge rainstorm, i had no way to return home and he had his driver bring me all the way back to Manhattan. From all your posts Fran, over the years, I’ve learned what and amazing, kind and special person my cousin continued to be throughout his life. He’s now your Angel in Heaven watching over you and also with my sister Carole, who passed in 2013. I will always remember him fondly with his endearing smile ?
With much love and warm hugs, cousin Judy
Diane baxter
left a message on November 19, 2020:
May you find peace and comfort
Nicolas Janine Giannotte
left a message on November 19, 2020:
In memory of Ronald Acquaviva, Nicolas Janine Giannotte lit a candle
Yousuf
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Rest in peace
Sean & Flanagan Family
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Mr.A helped hundreds and judged none...with a sparkle in his eyes. He will always be with us in our head and our hearts. Big love, thoughts and prayers to Mrs.A and entire Acquaviva family.
The Fatone Family
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Words fail to express our sorrow for your loss. Ron has made a difference in so many lives. He was an exceptionally kind, warm, and loving person. We will always remember our time, though brief, that we were able to share with Ron, his stories, laughter, and smile. Ron left a lasting impression on anyone he crossed paths with. Our deepest condolences to the Acquaviva Family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tom McCloskey
left a message on November 19, 2020:
I'm crushed by the tragic loss of one of the most decent men, loving husbands, father and grandfather I have ever known in my life. Ron was like a second/third father to me before and after the loss of my own father and father-in-law. Not to mention a loyal and trusted client for 20+ years of my legal career while in private practice. I am so, so sorry to hear this. I have been praying for him every day since first learning of his illness. I have a HEAVY, HEAVY heart - for him, Fran, Chris, Greg, Gerard, Jeff and all in the family. Hits home and hard for me. He was a good and decent man with such a big heart who helped so many - especially me. May God give you all comfort and peace in this difficult time of such deep personal loss. Love you Ron and all. - Tom McCloskey & Family ❤️?
Jane Denton
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Our heart is with you all. He was a wonderful man and grandfather. I can’t imagine the loss you are experiencing at this time. Sending love
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
William Serratore
left a message on November 19, 2020:
In loving memory
Michelle & Howard Broughton
left a message on November 19, 2020:
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Karen and Marc Buonomo
left a message on November 19, 2020:
We are saddened to hear of your loss. May our Lord give you strength during this difficult time.
Karen and Marc Buonomo
left a message on November 19, 2020:
We are saddened to hear of your loss. May our Lord give you strength during this difficult time.
CHRISTOPHER & MARSHA ACQUAVIVA
left a message on November 19, 2020:
There are no words that a son can ever say about his father. All he can do is take the lessons he learned from him and share them with his family and in this case just hope he does half the job this father did and he will be a success. Some men were blessed with the ability to raise their family while some men are blessed to raise families. My father was one of those men, for he has touched the lives of many families and helped them somewhere along their journey. As these next few days unfold that will become more and more evident. Hopefully we can all just take a little piece of him and share it with someone else. If we do, the world will be a better place.
Fátima Cristina ZAGURSKI
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Dear family,
So sorry for your lost.
Jesus sair to her:"I am the resurrection and the life.He who believes in me Will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me Will never die.
Do you believe this?"
RIP MR.ACQUAVIVA.?❤️
Debbie Coker
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Will always remember your hospitality when we would come to visit and that joyful smile. You will be missed❤️
Debra Hratko
left a message on November 19, 2020:
My sincerest condolences to all of the family during this very difficult time. I had the pleasure of working with Ron and his sons in the building industry for many years. A truly wonderful man and family. May god bless you all.
Lu and Frank Scarpulla
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Frank and I send our sincere condolences to your whole family
Rosemary Smith
left a message on November 19, 2020:
My sincere sympathy in the loss of your best friend and spouse. I truly feel your pain. Rosemary
Jeffrey
left a message on November 19, 2020:
In memory of Ronald Acquaviva, Jeffrey lit a candle
Mike Braun
left a message on November 19, 2020:
My sincere condolences go out to your family at this time.
Patty Gaines
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Dear Francine and Family, I am saddened to learn of Ron’s passing. May he Rest In Peace. We all will have fond memories to carry us forward. Love, Patty Gaines
Drew Piscatelli
left a message on November 18, 2020:
Not enough space on this page to recall even a fraction of the fond memories I have of Ron. I will miss him greatly. My condolences to the entire family.
Alma
left a message on November 18, 2020:
I’m so sorry for your terrible loss. My condolences to the family. He was truly a great man. May his soul Rest In Peace.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Linda and Al De Palma
left a message on November 23, 2020:
Sending deepest condolences to Francine and family! May he Rest In Peace! God Bless!
Dave & Karen Flood
left a message on November 22, 2020:
Francine and family- Sending love and a hug from Utah. We join you in sadness, while grateful to reflect on so many smile-worthy memories. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Janet Piscatelli
left a message on November 21, 2020:
Deepest sympathy to you Francine and your entire family. So many memories over so many years. Rest in Peace Ron.
Janet and Andy Piscatelli
Marielaina LaRosa & Michael Gallo
left a message on November 21, 2020:
May his wonderful memory and Legacy live on in is Sons and beautiful grandchildren!! My condolences to Francine and your family.
David Stout
left a message on November 21, 2020:
Acquaviva family, the Brookdale Community College family and Brookdale Foundation are heartbroken upon hearing the news about Ron’s passing. We are forever grateful to have known him. We know that the loving arms of your family and friends will help lift you up and bring you some comfort. Please know we are always here for you.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
William McCormick
left a message on November 21, 2020:
In memory of Ronald Acquaviva, William McCormick lit a candle
Peter and Grace Kalac
left a message on November 21, 2020:
We were deeply saddened by the news of Ron's death. He will be in our prayers. Peter & Grace Kalac
Heidi and Jim Maggs
left a message on November 21, 2020:
What a beautiful life and a beautiful family! Our heartfelt condolences to you all!
Pam Piscatelli
left a message on November 21, 2020:
So sorry Francine, boys, and families, to learn of Ron’s passing. Wrapping you all in love and light during this very sad time.
Fátima Cristina ZAGURSKI
left a message on November 21, 2020:
Dear Francine,
Do you remember how much Mr.Acquaviva
loved the song:"Singing in the Rain"?
Go with GOD.
❤️❤️??NEVER WILL FORGET.
Debbie Coker
left a message on November 20, 2020:
You will be missed be doing many but you are in a much better place
Camilly Silva
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Dear Francine, I am very sorry for your loss. Ever since I met Ron, he was very kind. He would make jokes that would brighten my day. I hope that he will be remembered as the kind man he was in his life. Ron was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed.
Karen and Glenn Cashion
left a message on November 20, 2020:
We offer our heartfelt condolences to the entire Acquaviva family. Our prayers are with you. Karen and Glenn Cashion
Margie Rafter
left a message on November 20, 2020:
My thoughts and prayers go out to Ron’s family. I will always remember him from 217 Madison St., in Hoboken
Dr. Anthony and Vicki DeNoia
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Our thoughts and prayers to the family of such an amazing, kind and unforgettable friend.
Our lives have been blessed to have shared many fond memories together.
We will miss him dearly.
Samantha Sodon
left a message on November 20, 2020:
My deepest apologies for your loss. May he Rest In Peace in heaven .
The Mattera Family
left a message on November 20, 2020:
May the love of friends and family soften your sorrow and sadness. Hoping your cherished memories bring your family moments of comfort. Rest In Peace
Nikki Alfano
left a message on November 20, 2020:
My thoughts and prayers with the Aquaviva family. May his light shine on forever. Rest In Peace
Peter Ferraro and AJ Altes
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Sending our deepest condolences to the Acquaviva family. May he rest in peace.
Theresa Vitiello
left a message on November 20, 2020:
My deepest sympathy for the loss of my cousin Ron. He had such a HUGE personality! He was so jovial and always made people laugh. I will miss him dearly. All of my cousins are in my heart and prayers during this difficult time. My love to all of the family.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Louise Mancione
left a message on November 20, 2020:
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers with the family.
Anthony cozzetta
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Sincere condolence to Fran and the family.
Ron was a wonderful man, good friend and Great neighbor.
Anthony & Christine Cozzetta
Valerie Niess
left a message on November 20, 2020:
GOD BLESS
BEST TO THE FAMILY
Tom and Jane Metz
left a message on November 20, 2020:
We cannot imagine a world without Ron. This great man was 100 percent goodness and kindness, and a loyal friend to us for many years. All that is good and fine in Ron has been passed on to his sons and grandchildren. We are so proud and grateful for his and Francine's friendship, and their wonderful family. May Ron live on in the Acquavivas and may he Rest In Peace.
Hult family
left a message on November 20, 2020:
I worked for Mr.A as the chef at Remington Cafe in Holmdel, he was a really good boss and friend ,I really liked him.
Nick Messere
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Our thoughts & prayers are with you all.
May Ron rest in peace. ?
Rose & Nick Messere
Joseph and Gail Lagomarsino
left a message on November 20, 2020:
With our deepest love and condolences to your entire family.
Ronnie, you will truly be missed by everyone who loved you and had the pleasure to know you.
Thank you??
Gina Murrello Ursino
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Prayers and love for the entire Acquaviva Family !
Bayaan Oluyadi
left a message on November 20, 2020:
In memory of Ronald Acquaviva, Bayaan Oluyadi lit a candle
Katia menezes
left a message on November 20, 2020:
God Bless you Ron
Katia menezes
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Dear Francine and family members,
Im am truly sorry for your loss. Your husband was a kind men and we had some fun times together. Always with a smile and telling me to go home during snow storms... i will never forget his sweet face.
May God be with you and yours giving you the strength to keep going and the understanding that his time has come, but he will live forever in your hearts.
My condolences, katia Menezes
Katia menezes
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Dear Francine and family members,
Im am truly sorry for your loss. Your husband was a kind men and we had some fun times together. Always with a smile and telling me to go home during snow storms... i will never forget his sweet face.
May God be with you and yours giving you the strength to keep going and the understanding that his time has come, but he will live forever in your hearts.
My condolences, katia Menezes
Judy Werble Weiss
left a message on November 20, 2020:
Dearest Fran & Family,
I am so very sad to hear the news of cousin Ron’s passing. In my childhood i always remember the fun times we had when my Aunt Edna and Ron would visit. And i never forget his generosity when i was at Aunt Edna’s funeral service in a huge rainstorm, i had no way to return home and he had his driver bring me all the way back to Manhattan. From all your posts Fran, over the years, I’ve learned what and amazing, kind and special person my cousin continued to be throughout his life. He’s now your Angel in Heaven watching over you and also with my sister Carole, who passed in 2013. I will always remember him fondly with his endearing smile ?
With much love and warm hugs, cousin Judy
Diane baxter
left a message on November 19, 2020:
May you find peace and comfort
Nicolas Janine Giannotte
left a message on November 19, 2020:
In memory of Ronald Acquaviva, Nicolas Janine Giannotte lit a candle
Yousuf
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Rest in peace
Sean & Flanagan Family
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Mr.A helped hundreds and judged none...with a sparkle in his eyes. He will always be with us in our head and our hearts. Big love, thoughts and prayers to Mrs.A and entire Acquaviva family.
The Fatone Family
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Words fail to express our sorrow for your loss. Ron has made a difference in so many lives. He was an exceptionally kind, warm, and loving person. We will always remember our time, though brief, that we were able to share with Ron, his stories, laughter, and smile. Ron left a lasting impression on anyone he crossed paths with. Our deepest condolences to the Acquaviva Family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tom McCloskey
left a message on November 19, 2020:
I'm crushed by the tragic loss of one of the most decent men, loving husbands, father and grandfather I have ever known in my life. Ron was like a second/third father to me before and after the loss of my own father and father-in-law. Not to mention a loyal and trusted client for 20+ years of my legal career while in private practice. I am so, so sorry to hear this. I have been praying for him every day since first learning of his illness. I have a HEAVY, HEAVY heart - for him, Fran, Chris, Greg, Gerard, Jeff and all in the family. Hits home and hard for me. He was a good and decent man with such a big heart who helped so many - especially me. May God give you all comfort and peace in this difficult time of such deep personal loss. Love you Ron and all. - Tom McCloskey & Family ❤️?
Jane Denton
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Our heart is with you all. He was a wonderful man and grandfather. I can’t imagine the loss you are experiencing at this time. Sending love
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
William Serratore
left a message on November 19, 2020:
In loving memory
Michelle & Howard Broughton
left a message on November 19, 2020:
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Karen and Marc Buonomo
left a message on November 19, 2020:
We are saddened to hear of your loss. May our Lord give you strength during this difficult time.
Karen and Marc Buonomo
left a message on November 19, 2020:
We are saddened to hear of your loss. May our Lord give you strength during this difficult time.
CHRISTOPHER & MARSHA ACQUAVIVA
left a message on November 19, 2020:
There are no words that a son can ever say about his father. All he can do is take the lessons he learned from him and share them with his family and in this case just hope he does half the job this father did and he will be a success. Some men were blessed with the ability to raise their family while some men are blessed to raise families. My father was one of those men, for he has touched the lives of many families and helped them somewhere along their journey. As these next few days unfold that will become more and more evident. Hopefully we can all just take a little piece of him and share it with someone else. If we do, the world will be a better place.
Fátima Cristina ZAGURSKI
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Dear family,
So sorry for your lost.
Jesus sair to her:"I am the resurrection and the life.He who believes in me Will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me Will never die.
Do you believe this?"
RIP MR.ACQUAVIVA.?❤️
Debbie Coker
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Will always remember your hospitality when we would come to visit and that joyful smile. You will be missed❤️
Debra Hratko
left a message on November 19, 2020:
My sincerest condolences to all of the family during this very difficult time. I had the pleasure of working with Ron and his sons in the building industry for many years. A truly wonderful man and family. May god bless you all.
Lu and Frank Scarpulla
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Frank and I send our sincere condolences to your whole family
Rosemary Smith
left a message on November 19, 2020:
My sincere sympathy in the loss of your best friend and spouse. I truly feel your pain. Rosemary
Jeffrey
left a message on November 19, 2020:
In memory of Ronald Acquaviva, Jeffrey lit a candle
Mike Braun
left a message on November 19, 2020:
My sincere condolences go out to your family at this time.
Patty Gaines
left a message on November 19, 2020:
Dear Francine and Family, I am saddened to learn of Ron’s passing. May he Rest In Peace. We all will have fond memories to carry us forward. Love, Patty Gaines
Drew Piscatelli
left a message on November 18, 2020:
Not enough space on this page to recall even a fraction of the fond memories I have of Ron. I will miss him greatly. My condolences to the entire family.
Alma
left a message on November 18, 2020:
I’m so sorry for your terrible loss. My condolences to the family. He was truly a great man. May his soul Rest In Peace.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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