Michael Thomas Dailey 59, of Holmdel passed away in his sleep on Sunday, June 2, 2013 at home after a courageous battle with heart disease and diabetes. Born on May 21, 1954 at Camp Kilmer, NJ he grew up in New Brunswick before moving to Aberdeen and then Holmdel. Michael attended St. John the Baptist …
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Michael Thomas Dailey 59, of Holmdel passed away in his sleep on Sunday, June 2, 2013 at home after a courageous battle with heart disease and diabetes. Born on May 21, 1954 at Camp Kilmer, NJ he grew up in New Brunswick before moving to Aberdeen and then Holmdel. Michael attended St. John the Baptist Elementary School, St. Joseph High School, Rutgers University, and Rutgers School of Law. He worked in the insurance industry with Lawyers Professional Liability Claims. He delighted in his family, University of Connecticut women’s basketball, history – especially Gettysburg, and coaching his sons, Bobby and Brian, in various sports. He was particularly proud of his baseball coaching record at Toomer Field in the Matawan-Aberdeen Little League. In 2004, Michael traveled to China to bring back his daughter, Stephanie. He will be remembered for his wit, sense of humor, and his love for his family. Michael was predeceased by his father Robert Thomas Dailey and his brother-in-law, Mark West. Surviving are his wife of 27 years, Kelli West Dailey; two sons Robert and Brian; and his daughter Stephanie all at home; his mother Mary; his in-laws Edward and Madeline West, his sisters Christine of Connecticut and Diane Manley of California; his brother and sister-in-law Edward and Sharon of Ohio; two brothers-in-law, Edward West and his wife Joanne, and Stephen West and his wife Suzanne; many beloved nieces and nephews, and his very dear friends, Marianne Murphy, Robert and Jeannine Edelmann, and Dominique Halaby. Visitation will be held Thursday from 3-5 and 7-9PM at the Holmdel Funeral Home 26 South Holmdel Road, Holmdel. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered Friday 10:00AM at St. Catharine’s R.C. Church 108 Middletown Road, Holmdel.
Bert Arwas
left a message on June 11, 2014:
I was saddened to read about the passing of Mike Dailey. I had the pleasure of working with Mike at The Home Insurance Company. Our many conversations covered a wide spectrum of subjects in which he invariably revealed his extensive general knowledge, humor and a great fondness of history. I extend my sincere condolences to Mike's family who will be in my prayers!
Cheryl Chandler
left a message on June 7, 2014:
Kelli, Bobby, Brian and Stephanie, I just learned of Mike's passing last night when it was too late to make it to the visitation. My deepest sympathy to you and the entire family. I did not know that he had been so sick. Lifting you all up in prayer during this very difficult time! Cheryl Chandler
Raymond Carroll
left a message on June 7, 2014:
I worked with Michael at the Home and knew him as a good man with a generous spirit. Although it is years since we met, I often think about Mike and in fact I was thinking about him just the other day, perhaps at the hour of his passing. As we say in the old country, Ar dheis De go raibh a hanam -- May he sit at the right hand of God.
Jim Curwood
left a message on June 7, 2014:
I had the pleasure of working with Mike at The Home Insurance Company. Congeniality was his hallmark, but the word understates his remarkable gifts for human relations. His humor was a delight and his knowledge of history sparkled his conversations. I mourn his loss and pray for his family. Jim Curwood
Jim & Ryan Branagan
left a message on June 7, 2014:
Dear Brian and Family, We just heard about your Dad's passing and am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and family.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jo Lockwood & Family
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Mary and family, We were so sorry to hear of Michael's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless everyone.
Al and Carrie Kroll
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Dear Kelli and Family, We met Mike in China in 2004 where he told us the trepidations he had about meeting his daughter. Al told Mike that once that little girl puts her arms around him and places her head on his shoulder that all of his worries would be gone and this is what had happened. Carrie and I can still picture this big guy walking down the hallways in China carrying his daughter with her hugging him and holding onto her little container of Cheerios, which no one was going to take away from her. We forever talk about the enjoyment we had at the reunions that your family was so gracious to host. Yes, it is true that Mike's human form has passed on, but the spirit and goodness that was Mike's lies within your family and you will pass his spirit onto your children and their children and their children's children. Mike's spirit and goodness will remain with humanity for all eternal time. We are thankful for the precious times we had with this gentle and caring man.
Anna Williams
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Kelli & family: Mike will be greatly missed. I had an opportunity to work with him. He was our go to man if you had any legal questions or problems. He never hesitated to help. He was just a kind and wonderful soul on earth. With deepest sympathy, Anna
Hazel and Bob Kelly
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Dear Kelly and family, We were so saddened to read of your loss. Mike sounded like a wonderful husband and father. We will keep you all in our prayers. God bless. Hazel and Bob Kelly
Rich Dalik
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Dear Brian and the Dailey family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Fred and Toni Quattrone
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Kelli and Family, We are so very sorry to hear about Mike and our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Mike was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.
Joan Kaminski Kirbos
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Growing up a house away from Michael was a great joy. He was like a big brother and always had time for Chris, my sisters and me. I remember shooting baskets in the yard and Michael there willing to help us shoot correctly and playing with us. Michael was a great baseball pitcher. I remember him playing Babe Ruth ball for my dad. He had a great arm. My condolences to the whole family You are all in my prayers.
Jimmy Schickley
left a message on June 5, 2014:
Please accept our condolences from the entire Schickley family. Mike was a GREAT guy growing up. He was a mentor to me while I was playing baseball in the village. He taught me a lot and I'm very grateful for all that he did for me. He will truly will be missed. Prayers go out to the family and I ask GOD to give ya'll strength. Peace!
Sheryl Stanley
left a message on June 5, 2014:
Dear Kelli: My deepest sympathies to you and the kids. As you know Mike was a wonderful friend and mentor to me. I loved working with him - his sense of humor, his courage under pressure, his kindness....He is greatly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Sheryl Stanley and family.
Terry DeShong
left a message on June 5, 2014:
Dear Kelli and family, So sorry to hear of your loss. Words cannot lessen the pain you are feeling right now but just know that Michael will always be with you in your heart and in your wonderful memories. My deepest sympathy to all of you.
The McLean Family
left a message on June 4, 2014:
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of Mike. Please accept our deepest sympathy and know that we are thinking of you. Barbara, Mark, Cassie and Andrew
John A. Anderson
left a message on June 4, 2014:
My condolences to the entire Dailey family and all those who knew him. From high school to CYO to basketball to softball to just being around--some great times Mike!
Michelle FitzPatrick Aamland
left a message on June 4, 2014:
I am so saddened to learn of Mike's passing. I have such fond memories of the entire Dailey family and think of y'all often. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Till we meet again, my friend.... RIP. Michelle, Mike, Jenabeth & Emily Aamland
Katie (Sicknick) Bornheimer
left a message on June 4, 2014:
My thoughts and prayers are with the Daley family. So very sorry for your loss.
Dave & Ruby Carter Yacklee
left a message on June 4, 2014:
Dear Dailey Family, We are saddened by the loss of your love one. We have fond memories of Mike at Ed and Sharon's wedding and Caitlin's graduation party. He had a great sense of humor. May Gods comfort and care be with each one of you during this difficult time and the days ahead.Blessings to all.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Bernadette FitzPatrick
left a message on June 4, 2014:
My sincere condolences to Michael's family. I think of you all frequently even though there are many years between us. You will all be in my prayers during this most difficult of times. May your love and memories carry you forward. Love always, Bern
Amy Murray Schmalen
left a message on June 4, 2014:
Our family is just too big to have a close relationship with all the cousins but I have fond memories of you guys visiting Uncle Frank and Aunt Betty when I lived in the apartment upstairs. We are praying for his soul and special graces for Kelli, the kids, and the extended family.
Cathy Kaminski
left a message on June 4, 2014:
Growing up, Mike was just Chris� big brother who we teased about his girlfriend and who chauffeured us to and from practice. But as young adults, Mike became my friend engaging in conversations about history, current events, books and life in general. He had a great perspective on things and was smart, witty and always kind. Although years and miles made it tough to stay in touch, I was fortunate to occasionally see him in the neighborhood and blessed to have met Kelli and the kids. He will be greatly missed. I know right now I have a whole in my heart. My thoughts, love and prayers go out to the entire family and all those who loved him. Rest in peace, friend.
Ruth Schaeffer Bellan
left a message on June 4, 2014:
I am deeply sorrowed to learn of Mike's passing. May the grace of God comfort you all.
The Edelmann Family
left a message on June 3, 2014:
There are no words to express our deep sadness and loss. Mike was our brother. We truly loved him. A second (often better) father to our children who lived with true humility, an unshakable faith in God, a sharp and hilarious sense of humor, and a man who would do anything to help others. Kelli Bobby Brian and Stephanie have our deepest sympathy and please know we are always here for you. We promise to keep his memory alive. We will attempt to live life successfully by his example.
Brian Velloso
left a message on June 3, 2014:
Dear Chris, I am so, so sorry about your brother Mike .He was a sweet heart of a man. when i first joined the CYO he was the only one who was nice to me. He gave my nick name ( Smith)he would always say smith you crack me up. He said one day on the court smith are you on any medication? I said not that I know of Mike and we both laughed.Just remember Chris there are no good byes in life there is only love, for as long as you love Mike in your Heart and Soul, he will always be with you. When your coaching , driving down to New Brunswick or when your by your self with your thoughts.Well take care, and always be good to your self girl. Warmest regards, Brian R velloso
Dick Taintor
left a message on June 3, 2014:
Mike will be missed. I hope there is a Sweet Lou's available in heaven so that we can meet for lunch.
Joan Shea
left a message on June 3, 2014:
Mike was a favorite "cousin" to all of us in the West family. He was thoughtful and kind; truly interested in you and your life, so easy to talk to. He carried on his life without needing to be the in spotlight or receive praise; and handled his burdens in a similar fashion. At family gatherings, he would recount a story about someone in the family that passed, bringing fond memories to mind and making us all feel good about the love we felt for that person. We will try to do the same for you dear Mike, for we will miss you greatly. He and Kelli raised three wonderful children with integrity, common sense, faith, and humor. Our prayers are with you all as we mourn with you, celebrate his life and feel so blessed to have had him as a part of our life. I am certain there was a crowd waiting at the gates of heaven for him and know he will watch over us always.
Holly and Jim Walter
left a message on June 3, 2014:
We are so saddened by the news of Mike's passing. He was always one of the kind and gracious ones. He will be missed. We are so sorry for your loss.
Denise Gorman
left a message on June 3, 2014:
Kelly and family...I am so very sorry for your loss. Mike was such a wonderful person..Words cannot express how sorry I am. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. With Deepest sympathy, Denise, Michael and Jennifer
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Bert Arwas
left a message on June 11, 2014:
I was saddened to read about the passing of Mike Dailey. I had the pleasure of working with Mike at The Home Insurance Company. Our many conversations covered a wide spectrum of subjects in which he invariably revealed his extensive general knowledge, humor and a great fondness of history. I extend my sincere condolences to Mike's family who will be in my prayers!
Cheryl Chandler
left a message on June 7, 2014:
Kelli, Bobby, Brian and Stephanie, I just learned of Mike's passing last night when it was too late to make it to the visitation. My deepest sympathy to you and the entire family. I did not know that he had been so sick. Lifting you all up in prayer during this very difficult time! Cheryl Chandler
Raymond Carroll
left a message on June 7, 2014:
I worked with Michael at the Home and knew him as a good man with a generous spirit. Although it is years since we met, I often think about Mike and in fact I was thinking about him just the other day, perhaps at the hour of his passing. As we say in the old country, Ar dheis De go raibh a hanam -- May he sit at the right hand of God.
Jim Curwood
left a message on June 7, 2014:
I had the pleasure of working with Mike at The Home Insurance Company. Congeniality was his hallmark, but the word understates his remarkable gifts for human relations. His humor was a delight and his knowledge of history sparkled his conversations. I mourn his loss and pray for his family. Jim Curwood
Jim & Ryan Branagan
left a message on June 7, 2014:
Dear Brian and Family, We just heard about your Dad's passing and am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and family.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jo Lockwood & Family
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Mary and family, We were so sorry to hear of Michael's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless everyone.
Al and Carrie Kroll
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Dear Kelli and Family, We met Mike in China in 2004 where he told us the trepidations he had about meeting his daughter. Al told Mike that once that little girl puts her arms around him and places her head on his shoulder that all of his worries would be gone and this is what had happened. Carrie and I can still picture this big guy walking down the hallways in China carrying his daughter with her hugging him and holding onto her little container of Cheerios, which no one was going to take away from her. We forever talk about the enjoyment we had at the reunions that your family was so gracious to host. Yes, it is true that Mike's human form has passed on, but the spirit and goodness that was Mike's lies within your family and you will pass his spirit onto your children and their children and their children's children. Mike's spirit and goodness will remain with humanity for all eternal time. We are thankful for the precious times we had with this gentle and caring man.
Anna Williams
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Kelli & family: Mike will be greatly missed. I had an opportunity to work with him. He was our go to man if you had any legal questions or problems. He never hesitated to help. He was just a kind and wonderful soul on earth. With deepest sympathy, Anna
Hazel and Bob Kelly
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Dear Kelly and family, We were so saddened to read of your loss. Mike sounded like a wonderful husband and father. We will keep you all in our prayers. God bless. Hazel and Bob Kelly
Rich Dalik
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Dear Brian and the Dailey family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Fred and Toni Quattrone
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Kelli and Family, We are so very sorry to hear about Mike and our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Mike was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.
Joan Kaminski Kirbos
left a message on June 6, 2014:
Growing up a house away from Michael was a great joy. He was like a big brother and always had time for Chris, my sisters and me. I remember shooting baskets in the yard and Michael there willing to help us shoot correctly and playing with us. Michael was a great baseball pitcher. I remember him playing Babe Ruth ball for my dad. He had a great arm. My condolences to the whole family You are all in my prayers.
Jimmy Schickley
left a message on June 5, 2014:
Please accept our condolences from the entire Schickley family. Mike was a GREAT guy growing up. He was a mentor to me while I was playing baseball in the village. He taught me a lot and I'm very grateful for all that he did for me. He will truly will be missed. Prayers go out to the family and I ask GOD to give ya'll strength. Peace!
Sheryl Stanley
left a message on June 5, 2014:
Dear Kelli: My deepest sympathies to you and the kids. As you know Mike was a wonderful friend and mentor to me. I loved working with him - his sense of humor, his courage under pressure, his kindness....He is greatly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Sheryl Stanley and family.
Terry DeShong
left a message on June 5, 2014:
Dear Kelli and family, So sorry to hear of your loss. Words cannot lessen the pain you are feeling right now but just know that Michael will always be with you in your heart and in your wonderful memories. My deepest sympathy to all of you.
The McLean Family
left a message on June 4, 2014:
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of Mike. Please accept our deepest sympathy and know that we are thinking of you. Barbara, Mark, Cassie and Andrew
John A. Anderson
left a message on June 4, 2014:
My condolences to the entire Dailey family and all those who knew him. From high school to CYO to basketball to softball to just being around--some great times Mike!
Michelle FitzPatrick Aamland
left a message on June 4, 2014:
I am so saddened to learn of Mike's passing. I have such fond memories of the entire Dailey family and think of y'all often. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Till we meet again, my friend.... RIP. Michelle, Mike, Jenabeth & Emily Aamland
Katie (Sicknick) Bornheimer
left a message on June 4, 2014:
My thoughts and prayers are with the Daley family. So very sorry for your loss.
Dave & Ruby Carter Yacklee
left a message on June 4, 2014:
Dear Dailey Family, We are saddened by the loss of your love one. We have fond memories of Mike at Ed and Sharon's wedding and Caitlin's graduation party. He had a great sense of humor. May Gods comfort and care be with each one of you during this difficult time and the days ahead.Blessings to all.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Bernadette FitzPatrick
left a message on June 4, 2014:
My sincere condolences to Michael's family. I think of you all frequently even though there are many years between us. You will all be in my prayers during this most difficult of times. May your love and memories carry you forward. Love always, Bern
Amy Murray Schmalen
left a message on June 4, 2014:
Our family is just too big to have a close relationship with all the cousins but I have fond memories of you guys visiting Uncle Frank and Aunt Betty when I lived in the apartment upstairs. We are praying for his soul and special graces for Kelli, the kids, and the extended family.
Cathy Kaminski
left a message on June 4, 2014:
Growing up, Mike was just Chris� big brother who we teased about his girlfriend and who chauffeured us to and from practice. But as young adults, Mike became my friend engaging in conversations about history, current events, books and life in general. He had a great perspective on things and was smart, witty and always kind. Although years and miles made it tough to stay in touch, I was fortunate to occasionally see him in the neighborhood and blessed to have met Kelli and the kids. He will be greatly missed. I know right now I have a whole in my heart. My thoughts, love and prayers go out to the entire family and all those who loved him. Rest in peace, friend.
Ruth Schaeffer Bellan
left a message on June 4, 2014:
I am deeply sorrowed to learn of Mike's passing. May the grace of God comfort you all.
The Edelmann Family
left a message on June 3, 2014:
There are no words to express our deep sadness and loss. Mike was our brother. We truly loved him. A second (often better) father to our children who lived with true humility, an unshakable faith in God, a sharp and hilarious sense of humor, and a man who would do anything to help others. Kelli Bobby Brian and Stephanie have our deepest sympathy and please know we are always here for you. We promise to keep his memory alive. We will attempt to live life successfully by his example.
Brian Velloso
left a message on June 3, 2014:
Dear Chris, I am so, so sorry about your brother Mike .He was a sweet heart of a man. when i first joined the CYO he was the only one who was nice to me. He gave my nick name ( Smith)he would always say smith you crack me up. He said one day on the court smith are you on any medication? I said not that I know of Mike and we both laughed.Just remember Chris there are no good byes in life there is only love, for as long as you love Mike in your Heart and Soul, he will always be with you. When your coaching , driving down to New Brunswick or when your by your self with your thoughts.Well take care, and always be good to your self girl. Warmest regards, Brian R velloso
Dick Taintor
left a message on June 3, 2014:
Mike will be missed. I hope there is a Sweet Lou's available in heaven so that we can meet for lunch.
Joan Shea
left a message on June 3, 2014:
Mike was a favorite "cousin" to all of us in the West family. He was thoughtful and kind; truly interested in you and your life, so easy to talk to. He carried on his life without needing to be the in spotlight or receive praise; and handled his burdens in a similar fashion. At family gatherings, he would recount a story about someone in the family that passed, bringing fond memories to mind and making us all feel good about the love we felt for that person. We will try to do the same for you dear Mike, for we will miss you greatly. He and Kelli raised three wonderful children with integrity, common sense, faith, and humor. Our prayers are with you all as we mourn with you, celebrate his life and feel so blessed to have had him as a part of our life. I am certain there was a crowd waiting at the gates of heaven for him and know he will watch over us always.
Holly and Jim Walter
left a message on June 3, 2014:
We are so saddened by the news of Mike's passing. He was always one of the kind and gracious ones. He will be missed. We are so sorry for your loss.
Denise Gorman
left a message on June 3, 2014:
Kelly and family...I am so very sorry for your loss. Mike was such a wonderful person..Words cannot express how sorry I am. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. With Deepest sympathy, Denise, Michael and Jennifer
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