LILLIAN W. SALERNO, 67, of HOLMDEL, passed away at home on Saturday, February 7th. Mrs. Salerno was the co-owner of Winsale School Bus Transportation Company in Jersey City, N.J. She was an avid golfer, and a member of Foursgate Country Club. Born in Bridgewater, N.J., she lived in Nutley prior to moving to Holmdel in …
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LILLIAN W. SALERNO, 67, of HOLMDEL, passed away at home on Saturday, February 7th. Mrs. Salerno was the co-owner of Winsale School Bus Transportation Company in Jersey City, N.J. She was an avid golfer, and a member of Foursgate Country Club. Born in Bridgewater, N.J., she lived in Nutley prior to moving to Holmdel in 1987. She is survived by her husband James, three sons Thomas and his wife Gina Rucci, Daniel Rucci. John and his wife Kate Rucci, three daughters Lillian and her husband Kevin Lucash, Christine Rucci and her fiancée Stephen, Michelle and her husband Matthew Gallagher, a step son James and his wife Laura Salerno, two step daughters Mary Salerno, Carolyn and her husband Allen Taskier, five sisters Dorothy, Geraldine, Gloria, Shirley, and Lorraine, and seventeen grandchildren. Visitation will be at the Holmdel Funeral Home 26 South Holmdel Road, Holmdel NJ on Monday evening from 7 to 9 PM and on Tuesday from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 PM. Funeral Mass Wednesday at 10:00 AM at St. Catharines RC Church, Holmdel. Entombment will then follow at the Holmdel Cemetery Mausoleum.
Glenn Johnson
left a message on July 11, 2010:
Jim, Chris Rucci, and all of the Salerno and Rucci Family, I am very sorry for your loss and hope you can fill your hearts with the grace and beauty Lil brought to the world. She was truly one of the kindest and most sincere gems I have ever known. Glenn
Jordan DiGeronimo
left a message on May 20, 2010:
Lillian IS my grandmother. I will never forget you and the wonderful memories in life that we had. I could talk to you, learn from you, and feel the kind of love that only you could give to a grandson. I miss you everyday, and I will see you again someday. I love you.
PJH
left a message on March 20, 2010:
Lillian was the most wonderful mother, Grandmother and wife I have ever known. I am so sorry to hear such a loving person has pass. I believe in reincarnation and mom you are born again. I Love you Mom!
Christine A, Rucci
left a message on March 14, 2010:
Mommy, I pray and talk to you every morning going to work. I pray for you to make me strong and get me through the day. You will live in my heart and soul forever and ever until we meet again. I am also carrying out your wishes for me to go back to the church. Still having problem with belief, however, I promise you I will get there. All I can say is I will continue to make you proud and that I am and will look after Dad(that is Jim for anyone reading this that do not know). You were the best mother in the world and I am glad I had all the time we did to let you know that. We have been through a lot of shit together and I will never ever forget our secrets and how wonderful a mother you were. No Regrets, Love you every day, Chrissy Cat
Linda & Peter DiMichele
left a message on February 11, 2010:
Dear John, Kate & family, Lil had the strength and courage so many of us wish we had. May you find peace in your hearts with all the beautiful memories you have of her. Love you all. We are here for you always!
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
cathleen m devlin
left a message on February 11, 2010:
Dear Uncle Jim,I am sorry for your lost.You were always great to me.Love to you and the family.Love Cathy
Jerry Collins
left a message on February 11, 2010:
Jimmy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you today. Lil has been an example to us on and off the golf course as she steps up to the tee to give every swing her all. A lovely lady wedded to a gracious man. Jerry and Mary Ann Collins
Christine Mills
left a message on February 11, 2010:
John, Kate, Kids, and Family... We are sorry to hear about the loss of John's mother. We pray you all are finding the peace that surpasses all of our human understanding.... You will remain in our thoughts and prayers, Joe, Chris, and Family (Mills)
Bobbie DeBaldo
left a message on February 10, 2010:
Dear Jim, I was sorry to hear of the death of Lil. She was a remarkable woman… she handled what life brought her with great grace and courage. She was beautiful, smart and fun. As soon as I found out today, I called my son Jim who is working in Mahwah to ask him to drive down to bring my condolences. Tonight when I finally figured out where you all might be I called the funeral home. I realized that we were a little too late. I really wanted to be with you or have someone from me there. Jim, know that I am with you in spirit at this sad time. Love Bobbie DeBaldo
Al & Jeanne Devln
left a message on February 10, 2010:
We Share your Loss, Al & Jeanne Devln
Valerie
left a message on February 10, 2010:
Jimmy and Family, Lil was a very special lady with alot of class and a great sense of humor. She has helped me more than anyone will ever know. My mom will miss her terribly as will the rest of our family. My thoughts and prays are with you always. Love Valerie
Marianne & Jerry Caci
left a message on February 10, 2010:
We would like to send our sincere sympathy, and prayers to all of you.You are in our thoughts and prayers. She will be missed! Marianne & Jerry Caci
Fred & Elaine Corbalis
left a message on February 10, 2010:
Jim, We are so very sorry for your loss. I met Lillian only once during our 50th reunion when you and Lillian graciously welcomed our class into your home, and I instantly knew what a lucky guy you are to have her in your life. She was truly a lovely lady....beautiful inside and out. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. We are sorry we can not be there with you.....time and distance. Warmest regards and sympathy, Fred and Elaine Corbalis
LORRAINE JAKUBIK
left a message on February 10, 2010:
Lilly, To Sister-in-law #1. From Sister-in-law #3... Rest in peace... Lorraine Rucci Jakubik Rochelle Park, N.J. 07662
Krissy Gray
left a message on February 10, 2010:
John, Kate and the Rucci clan... You are all in my thoughts and prayers!
Cayley & Aspyn Freeman
left a message on February 10, 2010:
Dear Uncle Jimmy, We are so sorry for your loss. Aunt Lillian was a great lady. We are sorry that we cannot be there but send all our love. Cayley and Aspyn
Greg & Shauna Dobek
left a message on February 9, 2010:
John, Kate & Family, You are all in our thoughts & prayers. Lil has been called safely home. May you continue to be comforted by your Faith and loved ones through this difficult time. DeColores! Greg & Shauna
Meredith & Rob Laughlin
left a message on February 9, 2010:
John, Kate, Lily, Anna, Bella, and Johnny, We are so sorry for the loss of your mother and grandmother. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers. Meredith and Rob
Tina & Mike Cafaro
left a message on February 9, 2010:
John, Kate & Family, We wish there was something we could say to take away the sadness. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tracy & Mike Martin
left a message on February 9, 2010:
Dear John & Kate and Family, May you find comfort in knowing that your mom is now at peace. We are here for you if you need anything now and always. All of love and prayers to your entire family, Love Tracy & Mike & the Girls.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Claudia Acerra
left a message on February 9, 2010:
Dear Jim, My deepest sympathy. Lil will be so missed. I loved her so much.I looked up to her and she was like my own mother to me. She will be always in my thoughts,memories and heart. With Love Claudia and Tony
Thomas S Rucci
left a message on February 9, 2010:
Lil, ALL MY LOVE FOREVER!!! tOM
Mary Plumaker Jordan
left a message on February 9, 2010:
To the Rucci's: I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Please know that you are all in my prayers. Mary Cath
Marty and Lisa O'Shea
left a message on February 9, 2010:
Dear John, Kate, Lily, Anna, Bella and Johnny, We were very sorry to hear about your mother/grandmother. We are thinking about all of you and praying for you and your entire family. Love Marty and Lisa
Vinny Browne
left a message on February 8, 2010:
A candle was lit by Vinny Browne on 2010/02/08
Janet ( Redmond) Patullo and Family
left a message on February 8, 2010:
Dear Tommy, Danny, Lilly, Chrissy, John and Michelle- sending you our condolences on the passing of your mom. May you find comfort in knowing that she is at peace . We will keep each of you in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless!
Sara and Scott Emmens
left a message on February 8, 2010:
We are so sad about Lil, but are happy that she is at peace now. She was a beautiful woman both inside and out. Scott still remembers how she used to have him make his bed at sleepovers when him and John were younger. Thinking and praying for you. Love, The Emmens Family
Angela Oliver
left a message on February 8, 2010:
Dear John and Kate, We are so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. We hope it brings you some comfort to know that she is at peace now. You are in our thoughts and prayers. With love and friendship, Angela and Ernie
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Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Glenn Johnson
left a message on July 11, 2010:
Jim, Chris Rucci, and all of the Salerno and Rucci Family, I am very sorry for your loss and hope you can fill your hearts with the grace and beauty Lil brought to the world. She was truly one of the kindest and most sincere gems I have ever known. Glenn
Jordan DiGeronimo
left a message on May 20, 2010:
Lillian IS my grandmother. I will never forget you and the wonderful memories in life that we had. I could talk to you, learn from you, and feel the kind of love that only you could give to a grandson. I miss you everyday, and I will see you again someday. I love you.
PJH
left a message on March 20, 2010:
Lillian was the most wonderful mother, Grandmother and wife I have ever known. I am so sorry to hear such a loving person has pass. I believe in reincarnation and mom you are born again. I Love you Mom!
Christine A, Rucci
left a message on March 14, 2010:
Mommy, I pray and talk to you every morning going to work. I pray for you to make me strong and get me through the day. You will live in my heart and soul forever and ever until we meet again. I am also carrying out your wishes for me to go back to the church. Still having problem with belief, however, I promise you I will get there. All I can say is I will continue to make you proud and that I am and will look after Dad(that is Jim for anyone reading this that do not know). You were the best mother in the world and I am glad I had all the time we did to let you know that. We have been through a lot of shit together and I will never ever forget our secrets and how wonderful a mother you were. No Regrets, Love you every day, Chrissy Cat
Linda & Peter DiMichele
left a message on February 11, 2010:
Dear John, Kate & family, Lil had the strength and courage so many of us wish we had. May you find peace in your hearts with all the beautiful memories you have of her. Love you all. We are here for you always!
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
cathleen m devlin
left a message on February 11, 2010:
Dear Uncle Jim,I am sorry for your lost.You were always great to me.Love to you and the family.Love Cathy
Jerry Collins
left a message on February 11, 2010:
Jimmy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you today. Lil has been an example to us on and off the golf course as she steps up to the tee to give every swing her all. A lovely lady wedded to a gracious man. Jerry and Mary Ann Collins
Christine Mills
left a message on February 11, 2010:
John, Kate, Kids, and Family... We are sorry to hear about the loss of John's mother. We pray you all are finding the peace that surpasses all of our human understanding.... You will remain in our thoughts and prayers, Joe, Chris, and Family (Mills)
Bobbie DeBaldo
left a message on February 10, 2010:
Dear Jim, I was sorry to hear of the death of Lil. She was a remarkable woman… she handled what life brought her with great grace and courage. She was beautiful, smart and fun. As soon as I found out today, I called my son Jim who is working in Mahwah to ask him to drive down to bring my condolences. Tonight when I finally figured out where you all might be I called the funeral home. I realized that we were a little too late. I really wanted to be with you or have someone from me there. Jim, know that I am with you in spirit at this sad time. Love Bobbie DeBaldo
Al & Jeanne Devln
left a message on February 10, 2010:
We Share your Loss, Al & Jeanne Devln
Valerie
left a message on February 10, 2010:
Jimmy and Family, Lil was a very special lady with alot of class and a great sense of humor. She has helped me more than anyone will ever know. My mom will miss her terribly as will the rest of our family. My thoughts and prays are with you always. Love Valerie
Marianne & Jerry Caci
left a message on February 10, 2010:
We would like to send our sincere sympathy, and prayers to all of you.You are in our thoughts and prayers. She will be missed! Marianne & Jerry Caci
Fred & Elaine Corbalis
left a message on February 10, 2010:
Jim, We are so very sorry for your loss. I met Lillian only once during our 50th reunion when you and Lillian graciously welcomed our class into your home, and I instantly knew what a lucky guy you are to have her in your life. She was truly a lovely lady....beautiful inside and out. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. We are sorry we can not be there with you.....time and distance. Warmest regards and sympathy, Fred and Elaine Corbalis
LORRAINE JAKUBIK
left a message on February 10, 2010:
Lilly, To Sister-in-law #1. From Sister-in-law #3... Rest in peace... Lorraine Rucci Jakubik Rochelle Park, N.J. 07662
Krissy Gray
left a message on February 10, 2010:
John, Kate and the Rucci clan... You are all in my thoughts and prayers!
Cayley & Aspyn Freeman
left a message on February 10, 2010:
Dear Uncle Jimmy, We are so sorry for your loss. Aunt Lillian was a great lady. We are sorry that we cannot be there but send all our love. Cayley and Aspyn
Greg & Shauna Dobek
left a message on February 9, 2010:
John, Kate & Family, You are all in our thoughts & prayers. Lil has been called safely home. May you continue to be comforted by your Faith and loved ones through this difficult time. DeColores! Greg & Shauna
Meredith & Rob Laughlin
left a message on February 9, 2010:
John, Kate, Lily, Anna, Bella, and Johnny, We are so sorry for the loss of your mother and grandmother. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers. Meredith and Rob
Tina & Mike Cafaro
left a message on February 9, 2010:
John, Kate & Family, We wish there was something we could say to take away the sadness. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tracy & Mike Martin
left a message on February 9, 2010:
Dear John & Kate and Family, May you find comfort in knowing that your mom is now at peace. We are here for you if you need anything now and always. All of love and prayers to your entire family, Love Tracy & Mike & the Girls.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Claudia Acerra
left a message on February 9, 2010:
Dear Jim, My deepest sympathy. Lil will be so missed. I loved her so much.I looked up to her and she was like my own mother to me. She will be always in my thoughts,memories and heart. With Love Claudia and Tony
Thomas S Rucci
left a message on February 9, 2010:
Lil, ALL MY LOVE FOREVER!!! tOM
Mary Plumaker Jordan
left a message on February 9, 2010:
To the Rucci's: I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Please know that you are all in my prayers. Mary Cath
Marty and Lisa O'Shea
left a message on February 9, 2010:
Dear John, Kate, Lily, Anna, Bella and Johnny, We were very sorry to hear about your mother/grandmother. We are thinking about all of you and praying for you and your entire family. Love Marty and Lisa
Vinny Browne
left a message on February 8, 2010:
A candle was lit by Vinny Browne on 2010/02/08
Janet ( Redmond) Patullo and Family
left a message on February 8, 2010:
Dear Tommy, Danny, Lilly, Chrissy, John and Michelle- sending you our condolences on the passing of your mom. May you find comfort in knowing that she is at peace . We will keep each of you in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless!
Sara and Scott Emmens
left a message on February 8, 2010:
We are so sad about Lil, but are happy that she is at peace now. She was a beautiful woman both inside and out. Scott still remembers how she used to have him make his bed at sleepovers when him and John were younger. Thinking and praying for you. Love, The Emmens Family
Angela Oliver
left a message on February 8, 2010:
Dear John and Kate, We are so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. We hope it brings you some comfort to know that she is at peace now. You are in our thoughts and prayers. With love and friendship, Angela and Ernie
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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