All my condolences to the family. May God give beautiful patience to to all the family members and friends, you left behind. This indeed a painful moment.

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From one Grateful Dead fan to another, the music never stops. Fly high, brother!

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Raymond and Michelle, I am very sorry to hear of the loss of RJ. I remember meeting him at the office several times. He grew up to be quite a smart and fun loving young man. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you both and all family and friends. May God be with you during this difficult time.

To The Family, You are all in my thoughts and prayers. There are very few words that can take away the pain however I know your memories and love for Raymond will always keep him with you. My sincere condolences, love, and prayers. Mary Veronixa

Ray, you were like a brother to me for many years, a lot of my core memories from being a teenager, and in my early twenties were spent with you, and Leo, and I wouldn't change a thing about it. We spent nearly everyday together getting into all sorts of trouble and adventures and it was a privilege to be as close with you as we were. I'll never forget all of our inside jokes and sayings, or all the shows and games we watched and played together. I will never stop thinking about you. To Ray's wonderful family, I am so sorry for your loss, and I would like to thank all of you for raising Ray to be such a great man, and to thank you for treating me like one of your own all those years that Ray and I spent together as friends, I really felt like I was loved and a part of your family. You guys have always been so kind to me and I'll never forget that. Rest in Peace Ray.

Dear Michelle, Ray, Mary and Family, We are deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your Ray Jr. Having lost a sister at a young age, we can feel your grief. Trust that Ray is enjoying eternal life with his Father in heaven and all his family and friends who have gone before him. You will meet again on the other side of eternity……may God help to bring you peace. Jayne and Sam Ludwig

Michelle and family, There are no words.......We love you!!💚💚💚💚❤️❤️❤️

Dear Ray and Michelle, I wish there were some magic words to bring you peace at this moment. And yet, if the magic were to let you forget RJ, I know you would not accept it. The gift of RJ was his life and love. It was too soon lost, yet infinitely better than never having had him. I wish you and all who loved him peace and,in the fullness of time, to be able to smile when you think of him. I hope you can feel the love around you. Please know that I add my love to it. Bonnie

Dear Michelle , Ray and your extended family, I have never met RJ, but after reading his obituary and seeing his beautiful picture, I feel like I know him. He reminds me so much of my nephews that I love him just as much as I love them. May you all find peace and love, Cindy Lessard

I am so very sorry for the tragic loss of Ray Jr. I will always remember meeting RJ as a young boy when his father brought him to court one day. I asked RJ if he wanted to be a lawyer like his dad, and he answered emphatically, “No!” I remember smiling at how certain he was, even at such a young age. He clearly knew who he was and what he wanted in life. It was such a sweet and memorable moment. Please know that you are all in my thoughts during this unimaginable time. My deepest condolences.

Vickie and I, are deeply saddened by this terrible tragic news. We send out condolences to the families. There are no words to understand the loss of a son at such a young age. It’s heartbreaking. May he RIP🙏🙏🙏✝️💔 Tony Tancredi

To the family of Ray.We are so sorry for your loss. We remember your son/brother as he was one of our Leo's closest friends.May he rest in peace.He was a good friend and a gentleman.Love,the family of Leo Manfredi

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Sincere condolences to the Shebell family and all who loved Ray. Thoughts and prayers go out to you.

I have not seen RJ in a while but i have pictured his incredibly warm and friendly smile throughout the years. Now, I will picture it everyday. R.I.P. RJ With deepest sympathy!! Russell

My deepest and heartfelt condolences to Ray's family and to those his light had touched. Thank you especially for the happiness, love, and the many fond memories and experiences you have given to my sister. I am eternally grateful. May the moon and stars guide you.

To Ray’s family and friends, Please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your beloved Raymond. He was and outstanding man and will be missed beyond measure. Ray, May the road rise up to meet you and the wind be always at your back….. You will be remembered for the funny, sweet, honorable, dedicated, steadfast, and family orientated man you were. It was my pleasure to work with you at Eastern Branch and to see your growth over these past 4 years. Though four years doesn’t seem like a long time in the scheme of things I must say Ray you made a lasting loving positive influence on all your colleagues and patrons alike and will be remembered and missed. Always… Ripple in still water When there is no pebble tossed Nor wind to blow… In the arms of the angels may you rest in heavenly peace. Love Val Aumack

My deepest condolences to the family. Raymond was a student in my classes and I will remember him very fondly. Marija Dalbello

Ray, thank you so much for your kindness and our close friendship. You were such a special part of my childhood and you got me through so much during that difficult time period in my life. You truly were the first best friend I ever had. Although we lost touch I would still frequently look back on our friendship fondly. I’ll never forget your Bilbo Baggins impressions and us laughing ourselves silly at Gandalf’s battle with Saruman, no matter how many times we watched it. And always making sure the subtitles were on for me whenever we watched movies and played video games. I am so grateful to have known you, and all the times you would walk me home when it got late at night and giving me a hug goodbye. I will never forget the impact you made on my life or the way your smile lit up a room. I will treasure our smiles and laughter together and I will always cherish those hugs and late night walks. I’ll miss you dearly.

RJ was such a kind, warm soul and a special part of so many of our childhood memories. I will always cherish the times we all spent together in Point Pleasant and Lavalette. Those moments meant so much and will never be forgotten. My heart is with the entire family during this incredibly difficult time. Sending my deepest condolences and love. – Noelle O'Brien

Dear Nicholas and Emily and family. Deepest sympathy on your loss. Wishing much peace, strength and comfort to you all. Sending love and hugs.

Ray, Thank you for your constant generosity and friendship. It was a pleasure to get to know you through our college years, as well as our DND / gaming sessions. Not to mention that hilarious trip to AC with our friends. You will be greatly missed.

Michelle, Raymond and Family, My sincere condolences to you and your family at this tragic time. May your memories sustain you. Belle L. Pretter

Michelle & Ray: Sending my deepest condolences to you and your loved ones during this very difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Merissa & the Shebell family, I’m so sorry for your loss. I met RJ a couple of times when me, Merissa, RJ and our friends went out to Jenks, Shore House & bar hopping for Merissa’s Taylor Swift themed birthday party. He was such a fun, kind person. He brought so much light to the room. He will be missed 😢.

Michelle and Ray. Condolences and prayers during this extremely sad time. Jody

Oh Beautiful Michelle and Shebell Family, My heart hurts for you. You have been on my heart and in my prayers from the moment I learned of this tragedy. As I put my head on the pillow in prayer, it occurred to me, buried from a conversation we had many years ago,  I remembered your Bible verse.  I know it is near to and dear to your heart.  I also know there is nothing in this world like a mother’s love for her son. “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6 How special that he was described as a gentle, kind and curious "old" soul? Dear Michelle, I witnessed your faithful and loving planting of seeds of faith and love in your children. Those seeds are the foundation that never left RJ & remain with him still. This is the greatest gift you could have given your son, the faith and belief in everlasting life. The seed was planted, and the grace was received from the sacraments with the understanding that RJ’s soul is immortal.  Your faithfulness in raising him up in the way of the Lord is a gift that God cherishes and honors. These early lessons of love and sacrifice on your part, as a loving mother, led him Safely Home to his loving Father.  “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, nor have entered into the human heart, The things which God has prepared for those who love Him.” 1 Corinthians 2:9 God is the perfect father. He loves RJ even more than you do, which is incomprehensible but true. For Gods ways are higher than our ways. They are above our human understanding and are perfect, even when we cannot make sense of them.  “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord. “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11 He loves you too and every one of your precious children. The promise that he will not depart, means that nothing, not even death can separate RJ from the love of God that you first  taught him. I watched you raise your children up in the way of the Lord. It is time to entrust him back to God‘s care.I am sorry for you because I know that your heart is broken. “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18.  Our Blessed Mother suffered this anguish also. I hope Our Lady of Sorrows is with you now and during the difficult days that follow. “Mary knows what a breaking heart feels like. She stood beneath the Cross with tears on her face, yet love kept her standing. When your own soul feels pierced, she is the Mother who does not step away.She stays.She listens.She comforts.Mother of Sorrows, stay close to this family's wounds. Lead each of them to your Son  who heals.” May God bless you and those you love and keep you filled with the lessons that you taught. May you and your family stay close to the Father who loves you, Jesus who heals and died to open the gates of heaven for RJ and all who were raised in the light of the Lord and the Holy Spirit, who brings wisdom and comfort to those who mourn. May the Blessed Mother, model for  all mothers, help you to recover and heal.  I love you and I am here for you. My prayer is that you remain steady and faithful during this season of pain. My children and I promise to keep you, RJ and your precious family in our hearts and in our prayers. May the Light of Jesus be with you, provide warm & light to console you and fill your heart with hope and peace. With love, Ria Ruane

My heartfelt condolences and prayers go out to Raymond, Michelle and the entire Shebell family. I am deeply saddened to learn of Raymond, Junior's passing. I pray that God will shine his light upon you and comfort you in your time of need.

Our condolences to the Shebell Family. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you at this difficult time. Mark Arizmendi/Cleve Sproule Huntington Harbour, California

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My utmost condolences to everyone touched by RJ. I'm completely devastated and my heart goes out to you.

Our deepest condolences. We are heartbroken for your family.

May the winds carry you home, Ray. Your Eastern Branch family will miss you terribly.

Oh Ray. It was great getting to know you at Eastern Branch. You were always cracking me up during our circ desk shifts and I liked your Grateful Dead live album recommendations. Rest Easy, Friend.

Ray, I will miss you. I will never forget the times when we played war with rubber bands and how you loved to scare me with bugs. I will miss you. May you rest in peace. Amen

I had the honor of meeting Ray while working at the Eastern Branch Library. Ray brought SO MUCH joy to the staff at Eastern Branch while he was there before going to the Howell Library. I remember when he also wore the best Burger King costume that I had ever seen. My heart goes out to his family and loved ones, and everyone at the Eastern Branch Library feels the same.

Ray and Michelle - my deepest condolences to you and your family amid this unimaginable loss. May his memory forever be a blessing to all

I worked with Ray , he always made me laugh. I always thought he was a genuine good kid/man

Michelle and Ray, My deepest sympathy, support and prayers for you and your family. Dana

Ray: Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time. Please accept my deepest condolences for this unimaginable loss. Ed Ahearn

I had the pleasure of working with Ray at Eastern Branch Library. Condolences to his family on this terrible loss. Rest with the Angels Ray

We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

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RJ is in my thoughts and prayers, he will be greatly missed.

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My condolences to the Shebell family. It was truly such an honor to be able to be invited into your lives and share many memories with you all. Ray will forever be missed.

My solemn condolences to Raymond’s family and friends. I wish for strength and unity for you all during this difficult time.

Dear Michelle and Raymond, Deepest sympathy for your loss. May the Lord give you strength , may time bring you peace and may the memories bring you comfort. Pamela Johnson

Dear Michelle and Ray, Deepest sympathy for your loss. May the Lord give you strength , may time bring you peace and may the memories bring you comfort. Pamela Johnson

Father, have mercy on RJ; bring him to the vision of your eternal glory.

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Ray was always such a wonderful friend and so very kind. I cherish every memory I have with him. My condolences to the Shebell family, he will be dearly missed.

Dear Ray, The memories we shared together would fill up a novel. The time we spent together was filled with love, laughter, and light. You were so wise and taught me so much. Thank you for being one of the best friends I will ever have. I love you forever. Love, Sam

Dearest Ray & Michelle, No words are adequate here. Just please know you & RJ are and will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.

Ray, Words cannot fully express how very sorry I am for your loss. May all your memories of RJ bring you some peace and comfort. With deepest condolences, Lois

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.