Christian Lee McCarty, 49, of Winter Garden, FL passed away Sunday June 30, 2019. Born in Columbia, SC, Christian graduated from Georgia Southern University then attained his MBA from The University of Georgia. Christian was a computer guru, building his first computer at age 14. He met his wife, Kara, while working for a tech …
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Christian Lee McCarty, 49, of Winter Garden, FL passed away Sunday June 30, 2019.
Born in Columbia, SC, Christian graduated from Georgia Southern University then attained his MBA from The University of Georgia. Christian was a computer guru, building his first computer at age 14. He met his wife, Kara, while working for a tech company. Christian was a loyal and dedicated employee at Apprio, Inc., where he helped grow a small start-up business into a large national organization.
Christian and Kara’s 17 year marriage took them from Georgia to Virginia to Florida. However, the best journey was made in 2008 when Christian and Kara travelled to China to adopt their first child Grace. In 2011 and 2012, God blessed Christian and Kara with two more children, Josh and Caroline. Christian’s greatest pleasure in life was being a dad. He loved giving the kids simple pleasures like games, scavenger hunts and obstacle courses. He was incredibly proud of the kids and loved to support their sports and activities.
Surviving is his wife Kara Marie, his children Grace Elizabeth, Joshua Lee & Caroline Mei; his father Philip McCarty & his wife Colleen, Norristown, PA; his mother JoAnn Landry & her husband Michael, Raleigh, NC; his mother-in-law & father-in-law Frances & Robert Manning; his grandmother Florence Gerrard, Hiawassee, GA, and his siblings Julianna & Michael Spadacino, Kate & Christopher Sgambati, Molly & Ahrash Farhangi and Ned & Rosy Alexander as well as several nieces and nephews whom he adored.
Visitation Sunday July 7th 4:00 – 8:00 pm at the Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 South Holmdel Road, Holmdel. Mass of Christian burial Monday July 8th 10:00 am at the Church of St. Catharine, 108 Middletown Road, Holmdel. Committal service to follow at St. Gabriel’s Mausoleum, Marlboro. In lieu of traditional remembrance, donations may be made in Christian’s memory to the Brain & Behavior Research Foundation. For messages of condolence, please visit Christian’s page of tributes at www.holmdelfuneralhome.com.
Mary and Peter Vlandis
left a message on July 14, 2019:
Jo-Ann, We met you at Brownsville years ago. We are truly sorry to hear of your son, Christian, passing away. Please accept our condolences and prayers.
Pat Schladebeck
left a message on July 8, 2019:
Bob, Fran,Kara,andFamily
I am so sorry to hear of Chris’s passing. I hope to attend the funeral but I am not sure because of my ankle. Just know I hold all of you and the family in my prayers.
Love,
Sr. Pat
Angela and Yasmin
left a message on July 7, 2019:
Although I didn't get to meet Christian in person, I remember well JoAnn telling me about him. He was so loved.
I'm so so sorry to hear this devastating news. Sending my love to you all, particularly JoAnn, Ned and Molly.
May Jesus hide you deep in His love and peace and may you know His ever present help with every day.
Much love and prayers. <3 <3 <3
Kevin and Amanda Burke
left a message on July 6, 2019:
A candle was lit by Kevin and Amanda Burke on 2019/07/06
Tim Crowe
left a message on July 5, 2019:
My heart goes out to Christian's entire family and they will be in my prayers. Some of my favorite memories from my high school and college years were with Christian. He was extremely intelligent and possessed one of the best sense of humors I've ever had the privilege to enjoy. He was always smiling and made everyone around him smile. He will be greatly missed by all that knew him. He was an outstanding individual that I admired deeply. Rest in Peace Christian.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Angelika LaHaise
left a message on July 5, 2019:
My heart and prayers go out to your whole family. Even though I have never met Christopher personally, I know his mom... I can barely imagine the heartache you all are experiencing. May this time of grieving be a time of bringing you as a family into a deeper relationship with one another filled with God’s great comforting presence...
Mary Ann Matey Moore
left a message on July 5, 2019:
May your family and friends surround you with support and love. I pray that God gives you the strength to live the days and weeks to come and be strong for your children. Please do not hesitate to reach out because this will be a difficult time for you and your whole family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Heather DiTaranto
left a message on July 5, 2019:
I’m truly sorry for the loss of such a good man. My condolences and prayers are with his family, especially to Julianna, my sister in spirit. May he be at peace with our Lord and savior, and fond memories be shared with all. God Bless.
Vince and Karen McCarty
left a message on July 5, 2019:
Vince and I were so very sorry to hear about Christian's passing. We pray for you and your family that your grief will give way to wonderful remembrances of your life with him. We have always heard what a wonderful Dad and husband he was. I know he will be dearly missed. God bless your entire family during this very difficult time.
Margie Layne
left a message on July 4, 2019:
So terribly sorry for your loss. Christian loved you so very much.....so happy I was able to meet him.
Tracy & Howard Shallcross
left a message on July 4, 2019:
A candle was lit by Tracy & Howard Shallcross on 2019/07/04
Brittini Carter (Kristin’s mom)
left a message on July 4, 2019:
Kara, There are no words to express my sadness for you. My heart breaks for you and your entire family. I am so sorry and am sending you all my prayers.
Brittini
Josh, I’m so sorry that you loss your father.
XOXO Kristin
April and Bryan Stephenson
left a message on July 4, 2019:
Christian sounds wonderful. We would love to have known him. Today ourNtBQ3 prayers are with you all.
Karena Carlson
left a message on July 3, 2019:
My memory of Christian and his family. We are a military family that had just moved to Burke. Christian stopped by my house numerous times to pick up my son for swim practice. For a military family who moves all the time, we are accustomed to waiting years before receiving support like that. Those rides meant a lot to us and your kindness was not forgotten.
David Murphy
left a message on July 3, 2019:
May our Lord grant Peace and Comfort to Kara and the children now and forever. When someone we love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure… I know that I will certainly treasure my memories of and with Christian.
Elise and Rick Sampson
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Deeply sorry for your loss. We continue to pray for you all.
Dinesh Pai
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Please accept my condolences on your loss. I pray that you and your family will cope and find strength.
Nancy Nylund
left a message on July 3, 2019:
My heart goes out to the whole family of Christian in their great loss but especially to my good friend, JoAnn Landry, Christian’s mother. Words fail us as mothers in expressing the great loss of losing a cherished child. My heart breaks for you, JoAnn. Know that my prayers are surrounding you. Your Heavenly Daddy is pouring out His comfort and peace and love on you and will walk closely with you through these next days. May you feel His constant presence with you. Much love.
john & Grace
left a message on July 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by john & Grace on 2019/07/03
C.Freeman
left a message on July 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by C.Freeman on 2019/07/03
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Debbie & Al Ricciardi
left a message on July 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by Debbie & Al Ricciardi on 2019/07/03
Allen & Linda Dobbs
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Kara,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss and offer our prayers for you and your family and Christian's many friends. We worked closely with Christian for several years and we have the greatest respect for Christian's professionalism, compassion and humour. Always a gentleman and a role model, he will be sorely missed.
Allen & Linda Dobbs
Roger & Donna Simak
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Dear Kara, Fran & Bob,
We were devastated to hear this news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.
All our love,
Roger & Donna
Debbie Houde
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Dear Kara, children, Joann and family, we were so very sorry and saddened to hear of Christian's passing. His loss will be deeply felt by many. We pray for Father's comfort in this time of sorrow. Sending our love and deepest sympathy.
Tim & Debbie Houde
Katreece Williams
left a message on July 3, 2019:
My prayers and thoughts goes out to the family in their great loss. Sending loving and light.
Kathy Piontek
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Kara and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Christian was a really a good person and a family man. I remember his smile as he was playing with the kids. He was so excited to see them swimming and having fun. Love you, Carl and Kathy
Lori/ Steve Crego
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Kara & family,
Our deepest sympathy during this very difficult time. Prayers for you & your family that God will give you strength & guidance.
Blessings, The Crego family
Savitri
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Our Heartfelt condolences to the Wife and Children of Christian, always have positive and bright spirit. We will surely miss him, the family are in continuous prayers
Savitri Brahaspat
Myra Gordon
left a message on July 3, 2019:
It's never easy losing a Spouse or a loved one. My heart and prayers go out to the wife and kids that will have to carry on with all the loving memories that Christian has left for you guys. You have my deepest condolences. May yah continue to bless your family.
Debbie Strange
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Dear friend,
Words escape me right now. John and I are beyond sad for the loss of such a great man. What a blessing to have known him and laughed with him and to have seen him so full of life. We absolutely love you and the kids and are always here for you. Sending many prayers and hugs.
Love, John and Debbie
Joshua
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Kara and family, so sorry for your loss. Praying for you all.
Nicole Lee
left a message on July 3, 2019:
When I started working at ApprioHealth, Christian was such a ray of sunshine, making me feel so welcome to the office. He always had a smile and would ask how I was doing. He was a sweet person and I am grateful to have met him.
My deepest condolences to the family and all that loved and cared for him. May he forever be remembered.
Sincerely,
Nicole Lee
Debbie & Al Ricciardi
left a message on July 3, 2019:
We are deeply sorry to hear about Christian. We have all been praying for your family. We are here for you if you need anything. We will always remember Christian and what a loving father he was.
Thinking of all of you,
Debbie & Al
Christina T Sturrock
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Words can't express how saddened we are to hear of your loss. Christian was a dedicated father, husband, and GodFather to our child. He will be sorely missed. Wishing you peace to bring you comfort, the courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. God Bless your family! Loch and Tina
John & Grace Stefanelli
left a message on July 2, 2019:
A true tragedy for Christian’ family
Three lovely children a faithful loving wife.
Rest In Peace
Angela White Hollander
left a message on July 2, 2019:
Christian and I were friends in college and dated most of my Senior year. I treasure my memories and the very philosophical talks he liked to have. He had a great smile and was one of the kindest people I've ever met.
Aaron Mitchell
left a message on July 2, 2019:
I remember meeting and sitting next to Christian in RaleighWood cinema. I was instantly drawn to his quiet and reserved nature. He had a meek manner like his mom and also a contagious smile. He came across to me as a real salt of the earth man, down to earth and what you see is what you get. Christian you left an impression on my life that will always stay me.
Eric Decker
left a message on July 2, 2019:
My heart aches for the loss of my best friend! Christian and I became close instantly early in college and shared many special times together during and throughout our careers. We were there for one another through some of life's most challenging times and exciting milestones. I miss him dearly and will cherish our special bond forever! Until we meet again my brother.
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Mary and Peter Vlandis
left a message on July 14, 2019:
Jo-Ann, We met you at Brownsville years ago. We are truly sorry to hear of your son, Christian, passing away. Please accept our condolences and prayers.
Pat Schladebeck
left a message on July 8, 2019:
Bob, Fran,Kara,andFamily
I am so sorry to hear of Chris’s passing. I hope to attend the funeral but I am not sure because of my ankle. Just know I hold all of you and the family in my prayers.
Love,
Sr. Pat
Angela and Yasmin
left a message on July 7, 2019:
Although I didn't get to meet Christian in person, I remember well JoAnn telling me about him. He was so loved.
I'm so so sorry to hear this devastating news. Sending my love to you all, particularly JoAnn, Ned and Molly.
May Jesus hide you deep in His love and peace and may you know His ever present help with every day.
Much love and prayers. <3 <3 <3
Kevin and Amanda Burke
left a message on July 6, 2019:
A candle was lit by Kevin and Amanda Burke on 2019/07/06
Tim Crowe
left a message on July 5, 2019:
My heart goes out to Christian's entire family and they will be in my prayers. Some of my favorite memories from my high school and college years were with Christian. He was extremely intelligent and possessed one of the best sense of humors I've ever had the privilege to enjoy. He was always smiling and made everyone around him smile. He will be greatly missed by all that knew him. He was an outstanding individual that I admired deeply. Rest in Peace Christian.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Angelika LaHaise
left a message on July 5, 2019:
My heart and prayers go out to your whole family. Even though I have never met Christopher personally, I know his mom... I can barely imagine the heartache you all are experiencing. May this time of grieving be a time of bringing you as a family into a deeper relationship with one another filled with God’s great comforting presence...
Mary Ann Matey Moore
left a message on July 5, 2019:
May your family and friends surround you with support and love. I pray that God gives you the strength to live the days and weeks to come and be strong for your children. Please do not hesitate to reach out because this will be a difficult time for you and your whole family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Heather DiTaranto
left a message on July 5, 2019:
I’m truly sorry for the loss of such a good man. My condolences and prayers are with his family, especially to Julianna, my sister in spirit. May he be at peace with our Lord and savior, and fond memories be shared with all. God Bless.
Vince and Karen McCarty
left a message on July 5, 2019:
Vince and I were so very sorry to hear about Christian's passing. We pray for you and your family that your grief will give way to wonderful remembrances of your life with him. We have always heard what a wonderful Dad and husband he was. I know he will be dearly missed. God bless your entire family during this very difficult time.
Margie Layne
left a message on July 4, 2019:
So terribly sorry for your loss. Christian loved you so very much.....so happy I was able to meet him.
Tracy & Howard Shallcross
left a message on July 4, 2019:
A candle was lit by Tracy & Howard Shallcross on 2019/07/04
Brittini Carter (Kristin’s mom)
left a message on July 4, 2019:
Kara, There are no words to express my sadness for you. My heart breaks for you and your entire family. I am so sorry and am sending you all my prayers.
Brittini
Josh, I’m so sorry that you loss your father.
XOXO Kristin
April and Bryan Stephenson
left a message on July 4, 2019:
Christian sounds wonderful. We would love to have known him. Today ourNtBQ3 prayers are with you all.
Karena Carlson
left a message on July 3, 2019:
My memory of Christian and his family. We are a military family that had just moved to Burke. Christian stopped by my house numerous times to pick up my son for swim practice. For a military family who moves all the time, we are accustomed to waiting years before receiving support like that. Those rides meant a lot to us and your kindness was not forgotten.
David Murphy
left a message on July 3, 2019:
May our Lord grant Peace and Comfort to Kara and the children now and forever. When someone we love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure… I know that I will certainly treasure my memories of and with Christian.
Elise and Rick Sampson
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Deeply sorry for your loss. We continue to pray for you all.
Dinesh Pai
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Please accept my condolences on your loss. I pray that you and your family will cope and find strength.
Nancy Nylund
left a message on July 3, 2019:
My heart goes out to the whole family of Christian in their great loss but especially to my good friend, JoAnn Landry, Christian’s mother. Words fail us as mothers in expressing the great loss of losing a cherished child. My heart breaks for you, JoAnn. Know that my prayers are surrounding you. Your Heavenly Daddy is pouring out His comfort and peace and love on you and will walk closely with you through these next days. May you feel His constant presence with you. Much love.
john & Grace
left a message on July 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by john & Grace on 2019/07/03
C.Freeman
left a message on July 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by C.Freeman on 2019/07/03
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Debbie & Al Ricciardi
left a message on July 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by Debbie & Al Ricciardi on 2019/07/03
Allen & Linda Dobbs
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Kara,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss and offer our prayers for you and your family and Christian's many friends. We worked closely with Christian for several years and we have the greatest respect for Christian's professionalism, compassion and humour. Always a gentleman and a role model, he will be sorely missed.
Allen & Linda Dobbs
Roger & Donna Simak
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Dear Kara, Fran & Bob,
We were devastated to hear this news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.
All our love,
Roger & Donna
Debbie Houde
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Dear Kara, children, Joann and family, we were so very sorry and saddened to hear of Christian's passing. His loss will be deeply felt by many. We pray for Father's comfort in this time of sorrow. Sending our love and deepest sympathy.
Tim & Debbie Houde
Katreece Williams
left a message on July 3, 2019:
My prayers and thoughts goes out to the family in their great loss. Sending loving and light.
Kathy Piontek
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Kara and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Christian was a really a good person and a family man. I remember his smile as he was playing with the kids. He was so excited to see them swimming and having fun. Love you, Carl and Kathy
Lori/ Steve Crego
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Kara & family,
Our deepest sympathy during this very difficult time. Prayers for you & your family that God will give you strength & guidance.
Blessings, The Crego family
Savitri
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Our Heartfelt condolences to the Wife and Children of Christian, always have positive and bright spirit. We will surely miss him, the family are in continuous prayers
Savitri Brahaspat
Myra Gordon
left a message on July 3, 2019:
It's never easy losing a Spouse or a loved one. My heart and prayers go out to the wife and kids that will have to carry on with all the loving memories that Christian has left for you guys. You have my deepest condolences. May yah continue to bless your family.
Debbie Strange
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Dear friend,
Words escape me right now. John and I are beyond sad for the loss of such a great man. What a blessing to have known him and laughed with him and to have seen him so full of life. We absolutely love you and the kids and are always here for you. Sending many prayers and hugs.
Love, John and Debbie
Joshua
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Kara and family, so sorry for your loss. Praying for you all.
Nicole Lee
left a message on July 3, 2019:
When I started working at ApprioHealth, Christian was such a ray of sunshine, making me feel so welcome to the office. He always had a smile and would ask how I was doing. He was a sweet person and I am grateful to have met him.
My deepest condolences to the family and all that loved and cared for him. May he forever be remembered.
Sincerely,
Nicole Lee
Debbie & Al Ricciardi
left a message on July 3, 2019:
We are deeply sorry to hear about Christian. We have all been praying for your family. We are here for you if you need anything. We will always remember Christian and what a loving father he was.
Thinking of all of you,
Debbie & Al
Christina T Sturrock
left a message on July 3, 2019:
Words can't express how saddened we are to hear of your loss. Christian was a dedicated father, husband, and GodFather to our child. He will be sorely missed. Wishing you peace to bring you comfort, the courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. God Bless your family! Loch and Tina
John & Grace Stefanelli
left a message on July 2, 2019:
A true tragedy for Christian’ family
Three lovely children a faithful loving wife.
Rest In Peace
Angela White Hollander
left a message on July 2, 2019:
Christian and I were friends in college and dated most of my Senior year. I treasure my memories and the very philosophical talks he liked to have. He had a great smile and was one of the kindest people I've ever met.
Aaron Mitchell
left a message on July 2, 2019:
I remember meeting and sitting next to Christian in RaleighWood cinema. I was instantly drawn to his quiet and reserved nature. He had a meek manner like his mom and also a contagious smile. He came across to me as a real salt of the earth man, down to earth and what you see is what you get. Christian you left an impression on my life that will always stay me.
Eric Decker
left a message on July 2, 2019:
My heart aches for the loss of my best friend! Christian and I became close instantly early in college and shared many special times together during and throughout our careers. We were there for one another through some of life's most challenging times and exciting milestones. I miss him dearly and will cherish our special bond forever! Until we meet again my brother.
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