Edward Gaines, age 63, of Colts Neck, passed away peacefully at home on August 24, 2023. A respected dentist, he graduated from Fairleigh Dickinson University in 1981 and from the University of Medicine and Dentistry in 1985. Ed loved caring for his patients and looked at them and his staff as extended family and friends. …
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Edward Gaines, age 63, of Colts Neck, passed away peacefully at home on August 24, 2023.
A respected dentist, he graduated from Fairleigh Dickinson University in 1981 and from the University of Medicine and Dentistry in 1985. Ed loved caring for his patients and looked at them and his staff as extended family and friends. He had a warm and welcoming personality and enjoyed spending time with those he loved.
An avid sports fan, he was a season ticket holder for the New York Giants and also rooted for the Yankees and the Knicks. Some of his hobbies included sailing, skiing, golfing, gardening, and playing the guitar.
He was the beloved husband of Lori (Lappen) Gaines for 36 years. Besides his wife, he is survived by his children Benjamin, Amanda, and Andrew Gaines of Colts Neck, his parents Edward Donald and Floretta Gaines, his sister Tamra Russo and brother Michael Gaines, brothers-in-law Leonard Russo and Jeffrey Lappen and sisters-in-law Kimberly Gaines and Lisa Gibbons Lappen. He also leaves his nieces Justine Gaines and Gillian Russo and nephew Daniel Gaines.
Visitation will take place on Tuesday, August 29 from 4 – 7pm at Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 S. Holmdel Road. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered on Wednesday, August 30 at 10am at the Parish of St. Mary, 1 Phalanx Road, Colts Neck. Burial will follow at Marlboro Memorial Cemetery, Marlboro.
In lieu of flowers, donations to the National Brain Tumor Society (www.braintumor.org) would be greatly appreciated.
For messages of condolence, or to share a favorite memory of Edward, please visit his tribute page at www.HolmdelFuneralHome.com.
Maiesha Williams
left a message on July 31, 2024:
Dear Gaines Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I was a patient of Dr. Gaines for over fifteen years. I missed his Hawaii shirts and smile. May his memory be a blessing.
Sincerely,
Maiesha Williams
Roxana Mastroianni
left a message on January 9, 2024:
My deepest condolences to Dr Gaines’s Family I was a patient of him and just found out last time I was in the office for a cleaning did not see him and I was told that he was out sick he was an excellent professional and made me smile again his work was just outstanding ART May God bless his soul! 🙏
Miroslawa Iwona Lipka
left a message on October 2, 2023:
My deepest sympathy and prayers 🙏
Raymond Kaczorowski
left a message on September 10, 2023:
Happy Birthday in Heaven Eddie, I woke up this morning knowing it is someone from my childhoods birthday. I wish we could have reconnected here on Earth. I trust we will meet again on the other side. Our days at St. Adalbert's are long gone, but not the memories. I remember when we performed "Light my Fire" on stage in the school play. Catch you on the flip side my friend! Ray Kaczorowski in Savannah , Georgia
William Megna
left a message on September 8, 2023:
I was a patient of Dr. Gaines. As avaid sailors, we would always talk about our boats to the chagrin of hid colleagues who thought we were putting him behind schedule. I will greatly miss our conversations. Ed, I wish you a strong wind and following seas. I miss you in my heart.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Lisa M Cunningham
left a message on August 31, 2023:
Dr G has been such a blessing in our lives. Lawrence Dental will never be the same without him. He was family to all of us and we will never forget all the wonderful memories we shared. Sending all our love to Lori, Ben, Amada and Andrew. We love you, your forever staff at LDA XOXO
Amanda Puppo
left a message on August 30, 2023:
Dr. Gaines was Just. So. Cool.
My staff and I had been going to him for many years and his vibrant personality will be missed.
Andrew Madzin
left a message on August 29, 2023:
With deepest sympat
Joanna Howe
left a message on August 29, 2023:
So incredibly sorry for your loss. Dr. Gaines was always so wonderful and kind to our family. He will be missed by so many.
Maria Colucci and family
left a message on August 29, 2023:
Our sincere and deepest sympathy to Dr. Gaines family.
Having known Dr. Gaines as an employee an patient for almost 35 years I can certainly say that he was an outstanding and kind person.
He treated his staff and patients as family and friends with respect and professionalism. He will be in our memories and hearts forever.
Eva Scarlata
left a message on August 29, 2023:
Dr. Gaines was more than just a boss to me he was an amazing dentist and a remarkable man. I feel so lucky that I got to work for him for 28 years and that I got to know him. I will miss him. His family is in our thoughts and prayers 💔😢
Dr. James Muglia
left a message on August 29, 2023:
My sincere condolences. Even though I worked with Ed for a short time, I could tell immediately He was such a caring, friend, Employer, and Dentist! There was always a Smile on his face and warmth in his mannerism as Ed delivered the very best in Dental care to all his patients. I know he had the utmost respect among all his staff , many of who, have worked decades for him. Rest in peace my friend! And someday we will get that round of heavenly golf in! With love and utmost respect, Jim Muglia
Maureen Nagelberg
left a message on August 29, 2023:
Dr. Gaines was a blessing in my life. Having had extensive oral surgery and orthodontia as a child, I have always had a lot of anxiety about dentistry. I moved to Princeton 9 years ago and Dr. Gaines was recommended by a colleague. He inspired trust and confidence not only with his knowledge and skill but his patience and kindness. He always put me at ease, was a great conversationalist, and spoke lovingly of his children and their milestones over the years. Dr. Gaines greatly improved the aesthetics of my smile and I will remember him every time I see how much better it looks in photos. I will miss him dearly and share my deepest condolences with his wonderful staff in Lawrenceville as well as the Gaines family.
Rich and Denise Abrahamian
left a message on August 28, 2023:
No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. But take comfort in knowing that Ed is now resting in the arms of our Lord. Our prayers and deepest condolences go out to you and your entire family.
Kory Pickens
left a message on August 28, 2023:
I am very sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.
Aida Gilanchi
left a message on August 28, 2023:
In memory of Dr. Gaines. May you RIP.
Marina Zenkina
left a message on August 28, 2023:
In memory of Edward D. Gaines, DMD, Marina Zenkina lit a candle
Lorraine Lenard
left a message on August 27, 2023:
Ed (and Lori) were always gracious hosts whether it be a backyard pool party, Thanksgiving in Vermont, Christmas in Colts Neck, or an evening sailing on the bay. Many would agree he loved tailgating before the Giants games. We all have great memories and will miss him dearly.
Cynthia Scaperotta
left a message on August 27, 2023:
Worked with Dr Gaines in his Fairfield office several yeaes back. He was a good dentist and man.
So sad to hear this. May he rest in peace and condolences to all of his family. 🙏
Cindy & Frank Breiter
left a message on August 26, 2023:
We are so sorry for your family’s loss. He was a good person, so sad that his life was cut so short. God has a plan for him
Sending prayers for your family ❤️🙏
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Mitch & Karen Kahl
left a message on August 26, 2023:
Ive known Dr Gaines and his wife since college. We will miss him dearly. He was one of the most generous man Ive known. Being friends with him and his family has been a blessing, and his memory will live on. Our love goes out to his family during this heartbreak. He will be forever missed.
Katarzyna and Zdzislaw Leleniewski
left a message on August 26, 2023:
So sorry for your loss.
Benoit Cortet and family
left a message on August 26, 2023:
We are so sorry for your loss. Our family is so saddened by his passing. He was not only our doctor, he also became a friend. Over the past 25 years he saw our three children grow up.
I will miss his sense of humor, his smile but most of all his kindness towards our family. Rest in peace Ed.
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Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Maiesha Williams
left a message on July 31, 2024:
Dear Gaines Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I was a patient of Dr. Gaines for over fifteen years. I missed his Hawaii shirts and smile. May his memory be a blessing.
Sincerely,
Maiesha Williams
Roxana Mastroianni
left a message on January 9, 2024:
My deepest condolences to Dr Gaines’s Family I was a patient of him and just found out last time I was in the office for a cleaning did not see him and I was told that he was out sick he was an excellent professional and made me smile again his work was just outstanding ART May God bless his soul! 🙏
Miroslawa Iwona Lipka
left a message on October 2, 2023:
My deepest sympathy and prayers 🙏
Raymond Kaczorowski
left a message on September 10, 2023:
Happy Birthday in Heaven Eddie, I woke up this morning knowing it is someone from my childhoods birthday. I wish we could have reconnected here on Earth. I trust we will meet again on the other side. Our days at St. Adalbert's are long gone, but not the memories. I remember when we performed "Light my Fire" on stage in the school play. Catch you on the flip side my friend! Ray Kaczorowski in Savannah , Georgia
William Megna
left a message on September 8, 2023:
I was a patient of Dr. Gaines. As avaid sailors, we would always talk about our boats to the chagrin of hid colleagues who thought we were putting him behind schedule. I will greatly miss our conversations. Ed, I wish you a strong wind and following seas. I miss you in my heart.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Lisa M Cunningham
left a message on August 31, 2023:
Dr G has been such a blessing in our lives. Lawrence Dental will never be the same without him. He was family to all of us and we will never forget all the wonderful memories we shared. Sending all our love to Lori, Ben, Amada and Andrew. We love you, your forever staff at LDA XOXO
Amanda Puppo
left a message on August 30, 2023:
Dr. Gaines was Just. So. Cool.
My staff and I had been going to him for many years and his vibrant personality will be missed.
Andrew Madzin
left a message on August 29, 2023:
With deepest sympat
Joanna Howe
left a message on August 29, 2023:
So incredibly sorry for your loss. Dr. Gaines was always so wonderful and kind to our family. He will be missed by so many.
Maria Colucci and family
left a message on August 29, 2023:
Our sincere and deepest sympathy to Dr. Gaines family.
Having known Dr. Gaines as an employee an patient for almost 35 years I can certainly say that he was an outstanding and kind person.
He treated his staff and patients as family and friends with respect and professionalism. He will be in our memories and hearts forever.
Eva Scarlata
left a message on August 29, 2023:
Dr. Gaines was more than just a boss to me he was an amazing dentist and a remarkable man. I feel so lucky that I got to work for him for 28 years and that I got to know him. I will miss him. His family is in our thoughts and prayers 💔😢
Dr. James Muglia
left a message on August 29, 2023:
My sincere condolences. Even though I worked with Ed for a short time, I could tell immediately He was such a caring, friend, Employer, and Dentist! There was always a Smile on his face and warmth in his mannerism as Ed delivered the very best in Dental care to all his patients. I know he had the utmost respect among all his staff , many of who, have worked decades for him. Rest in peace my friend! And someday we will get that round of heavenly golf in! With love and utmost respect, Jim Muglia
Maureen Nagelberg
left a message on August 29, 2023:
Dr. Gaines was a blessing in my life. Having had extensive oral surgery and orthodontia as a child, I have always had a lot of anxiety about dentistry. I moved to Princeton 9 years ago and Dr. Gaines was recommended by a colleague. He inspired trust and confidence not only with his knowledge and skill but his patience and kindness. He always put me at ease, was a great conversationalist, and spoke lovingly of his children and their milestones over the years. Dr. Gaines greatly improved the aesthetics of my smile and I will remember him every time I see how much better it looks in photos. I will miss him dearly and share my deepest condolences with his wonderful staff in Lawrenceville as well as the Gaines family.
Rich and Denise Abrahamian
left a message on August 28, 2023:
No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. But take comfort in knowing that Ed is now resting in the arms of our Lord. Our prayers and deepest condolences go out to you and your entire family.
Kory Pickens
left a message on August 28, 2023:
I am very sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.
Aida Gilanchi
left a message on August 28, 2023:
In memory of Dr. Gaines. May you RIP.
Marina Zenkina
left a message on August 28, 2023:
In memory of Edward D. Gaines, DMD, Marina Zenkina lit a candle
Lorraine Lenard
left a message on August 27, 2023:
Ed (and Lori) were always gracious hosts whether it be a backyard pool party, Thanksgiving in Vermont, Christmas in Colts Neck, or an evening sailing on the bay. Many would agree he loved tailgating before the Giants games. We all have great memories and will miss him dearly.
Cynthia Scaperotta
left a message on August 27, 2023:
Worked with Dr Gaines in his Fairfield office several yeaes back. He was a good dentist and man.
So sad to hear this. May he rest in peace and condolences to all of his family. 🙏
Cindy & Frank Breiter
left a message on August 26, 2023:
We are so sorry for your family’s loss. He was a good person, so sad that his life was cut so short. God has a plan for him
Sending prayers for your family ❤️🙏
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Mitch & Karen Kahl
left a message on August 26, 2023:
Ive known Dr Gaines and his wife since college. We will miss him dearly. He was one of the most generous man Ive known. Being friends with him and his family has been a blessing, and his memory will live on. Our love goes out to his family during this heartbreak. He will be forever missed.
Katarzyna and Zdzislaw Leleniewski
left a message on August 26, 2023:
So sorry for your loss.
Benoit Cortet and family
left a message on August 26, 2023:
We are so sorry for your loss. Our family is so saddened by his passing. He was not only our doctor, he also became a friend. Over the past 25 years he saw our three children grow up.
I will miss his sense of humor, his smile but most of all his kindness towards our family. Rest in peace Ed.
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