Kim Lukenda, 53, died this past Friday, May 31st, at Robert Wood Johnson Barnabas Health at Rahway after a long battle with breast cancer. Born in Elizabeth, New Jersey, Kim lived in Colts Neck since 1997. A mother of three, Kim was a woman who valued her family, God, education and discipline, and stressed these …
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Kim Lukenda, 53, died this past Friday, May 31st, at Robert Wood Johnson Barnabas Health at Rahway after a long battle with breast cancer.
Born in Elizabeth, New Jersey, Kim lived in Colts Neck since 1997. A mother of three, Kim was a woman who valued her family, God, education and discipline, and stressed these values with her family. She enjoyed time spent with her family and friends, especially during the holidays. Christmas and the Fourth of July were her favorite times of the year.
Kim was a strong hearted, faithful woman who became attached to the Rosary. Her faith and family values carried her through her illness and assisted her in making many difficult decisions.
Kim loved the summer. She enjoyed her time bike riding and walking on the beach in Long Beach Island, as well as her quiet nights watching the sunset with her family in Beach Haven. She enjoyed shopping anywhere and everywhere, particularly shopping to decorate her home, which she took great pride in.
Despite’s Kim’s battles with her illness, she lived life to the fullest and had fun. She loved having a good time, whether that involved dancing with her family at home or spending a night out on the town with her friends. To those who knew Kim, she was a presence and a force. She will be dearly missed by all.
Surviving are her husband, Kevin; her mother Constance Zacharczyk; her three beautiful children Noelle (24), Logan(19) and Eric(13); and her sister Jill Zacharczyk Gassler & her husband Thomas.
Visitation Tuesday June 4th 4-8 pm at the Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 South Holmdel Road, Holmdel. Funeral service Wednesday, June 5th 10:00 am, St. Gabriel’s RC Church, Rt. 79, Marlboro. Entombment services will follow at St. Gabriel’s Mausoleum. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Kim’s memory to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center; giving.mskcc.org. To share a favorite memory or messages of condolence, please visit Kim’s page of tributes at www.holmdelfuneralhome.com.
Kim ambrosio
left a message on June 12, 2019:
It is with a very heavy heart that I wish the Lukenda family my deepest condolences. Kim was a very dear friend to me. She reached out to me with her very kind heart without even knowing who I was many years ago when I lost my husband. We became friends. Then she was the voice of strength and encouragement to me while I fought my own battle 3 years ago. At the time she never even let me know that she was fighting her own battle again. She will forever be in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers and I will miss her dearly.
Trudy Matrunich
left a message on June 6, 2019:
Dear Dr Lukenda and Family
It is with great sadness to hear of your wife's passing. May God be with you and your children. With Deepest Sympathy Trudy Jim and Nick Matrunich
Trudy Matrunich
left a message on June 6, 2019:
A candle was lit by Trudy Matrunich on 2019/06/06
Christopher Hammer
left a message on June 5, 2019:
My condolences to the entire Lukenda family...
Mary Anne De Venezia - RWJBH Rahway Medical records
left a message on June 5, 2019:
A candle was lit by Mary Anne De Venezia - RWJBH Rahway Medical records on 2019/06/05
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
The Parra Family
left a message on June 4, 2019:
Dear Dr. Lukenda,
Our deepest condolences are sent to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy,
The Parra Family(Linden, NJ)
Nick Nolan
left a message on June 4, 2019:
Kim you will be missed dearly. You’re legacy will live on through your beautiful children for sure. God bless
Sari Kramer
left a message on June 4, 2019:
A candle was lit by Sari Kramer on 2019/06/04
McKowne & Cariano Family
left a message on June 4, 2019:
A candle was lit by McKowne & Cariano Family on 2019/06/04
Manel & Mohamed AbdelBarry
left a message on June 3, 2019:
We were blessed to have known Kim since our children Logan and Salma were together in Oakhill. She was a beautiful Soul, full of goodness. She loved her family and friends dearly and never complained about what she was going through. Our deepest condolences to her family, may they find comfort in the fact that she is with God in Heaven now! May she rest in eternal Peace!
Denise Longo
left a message on June 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by Denise Longo on 2019/06/03
Leila Bailey
left a message on June 3, 2019:
My deepest condolences to you and your family, Praying for strength .
Leila Bailey and Family
Manel & Mohamed AbdelBarry
left a message on June 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by Manel & Mohamed AbdelBarry on 2019/06/03
Jay and Nina Premselaar
left a message on June 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by Jay and Nina Premselaar on 2019/06/03
Jeanine penn patrick
left a message on June 3, 2019:
sorry to hear of the loss of your wife prayers to u and your family May she rip
Jeanine Cistrelli
left a message on June 3, 2019:
I am so sorry to hear. You are in my thoughts and prayers
John, Lisa and Morgan Francen
left a message on June 2, 2019:
A candle was lit by John, Lisa and Morgan Francen on 2019/06/02
Camille Matlosz Theys
left a message on June 2, 2019:
Kevin and family: I am so sorry for the loss of your young wife and mother, Kim. You will be in my prayers.
Michelle Lukenda
left a message on June 2, 2019:
A candle was lit by Michelle Lukenda on 2019/06/02
John, Lisa and Morgan Francen
left a message on June 2, 2019:
We were so shocked and so saddened to hear the news of Kim’s passing. We knew she was fighting this for some time but just always thought she would somehow beat this. We are just so very very sorry for you all. Words just cannot express how sorry we are. Our thoughts and prayers to you all.
With deepest and sincerest sypmpathy,
John , Lisa and Morgan
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Terry Kowalski
left a message on June 2, 2019:
My sincere condolences at this great loss of Kim, the core of your family. It is said that God never gives us more than we can bear, but when a loss such as this occurs, it has us asking God how do you go on without her. I pray that God gives you and your family the strength, love & guidance to carry on. Kim's endless and boundless love for her family will always be carried in your hearts.
Terry Kowalski
Allison Kusner-Sot
left a message on June 1, 2019:
I am truly in shock to hear of Kim’s passing. As a friend since HS , we experienced so many fun and happy times together! She was one in a million! My prayers and thoughts are with you all today and always.
Xo
Marilyn Piperno
left a message on June 1, 2019:
It’s hard to say what catches your eye first when you see Kim. Her gorgeous piercing blue eyes, perfect smile or overall presence.
Regardless of what you notice first, it’s her heart and kindness that draws you in and keeps you there.
Always a lady, the most perfect mixology of grace, charisma, sass and spunk.
She lights up every space - her attendance always made the occasion, season, weather, game, time fly by with smiles and good company.
Gods blessings and peace now and always as Angel Kim watches over us all.
Bobbie and Vic
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Our hearts are broken upon hearing of your tremendous loss. Kim’s life was inspiration to all who knew her .........
She embraced life and added life to all who knew her..............
Mark Hampton
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Condolences from the Hamptons.
Carol kowalik
left a message on June 1, 2019:
A candle was lit by Carol kowalik on 2019/06/01
Laurie Stanicki
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Kim was a shining star and an amazing role model to everyone she came in contact with.
Sending strength and love to Kevin and Kim's beautiful family.
Always here for you
Bob and Laurie Stanicki
Bubba
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Kim you are always going to be a shining light with a beautiful singing voice and a great personality. You were the glue that kept all the friends together over the years, no matter if in Colts Neck or LBI. You adored your Family very much , you loved your friends and your smile and laugh lit up the room you were in. Love you very much and I will always have you in my heart till the day we meet again.
Phyllis Renna Iannarone
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Kevin and Family, so very sorry for your loss. May Kim's memory live in your hearts forever and may she rest in eternal peace.
Phyllis & Ron Iannarone
Naples. FL
(Sal Renna's sister)
Evelyn & Vincent Watkins
left a message on June 1, 2019:
My dearest Dr. Lukenda and family. I was shocked and heartbroken to see Kim's obituary on FB. I didn't even know she was ill. Though I never had the pleasure of meeting her personally she was kind enough to accept me as a friend through FB and I was able to keep in touch. Words cannot express our deepest sympathy at this time.
"DEATH LEAVES A HEARTACHE NO ONE CAN HEAL BUT LOVE LEAVES US MEMORIES NO ONE CAN STEAL"
Sending HUGS and prayers.
Sincerely, Evelyn and Vincent Watkins
Elaine Lukenda
left a message on June 1, 2019:
A candle was lit by Elaine Lukenda on 2019/06/01
Carol kowalik
left a message on June 1, 2019:
My thoughts and prayers are with Dr Lukenda and family
Melissa Mallios
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Our hearts go out to the Lukenda family. Kim surely was a prescence of grace, class, & strength. Always a smile on her face & her pride in her family was very clear. We were only blessed to know Kim a short time & her passing has been such a heart break. May her memory be eternal & her traditions she worked so hard to create continue. I will never forget how beautifully she decorated for Christmas, even when she wasnt feeling her best. Rest in Peace Kim forever more. ♡
Tracey Madar
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Hi Kevin. I am so very sorry for your loss. My parents Frank & Mary are shocked and very sad to hear about Kim. We are all thinking about you and your family. Hang in there !! We will pray for you.
Debbie Vitale
left a message on May 31, 2019:
Dear Kevin and family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful wife and mother. Love is eternal and Kim will live in your hearts forever. Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Love,
Carl & Debbie Vitale
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Kim ambrosio
left a message on June 12, 2019:
It is with a very heavy heart that I wish the Lukenda family my deepest condolences. Kim was a very dear friend to me. She reached out to me with her very kind heart without even knowing who I was many years ago when I lost my husband. We became friends. Then she was the voice of strength and encouragement to me while I fought my own battle 3 years ago. At the time she never even let me know that she was fighting her own battle again. She will forever be in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers and I will miss her dearly.
Trudy Matrunich
left a message on June 6, 2019:
Dear Dr Lukenda and Family
It is with great sadness to hear of your wife's passing. May God be with you and your children. With Deepest Sympathy Trudy Jim and Nick Matrunich
Trudy Matrunich
left a message on June 6, 2019:
A candle was lit by Trudy Matrunich on 2019/06/06
Christopher Hammer
left a message on June 5, 2019:
My condolences to the entire Lukenda family...
Mary Anne De Venezia - RWJBH Rahway Medical records
left a message on June 5, 2019:
A candle was lit by Mary Anne De Venezia - RWJBH Rahway Medical records on 2019/06/05
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
The Parra Family
left a message on June 4, 2019:
Dear Dr. Lukenda,
Our deepest condolences are sent to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy,
The Parra Family(Linden, NJ)
Nick Nolan
left a message on June 4, 2019:
Kim you will be missed dearly. You’re legacy will live on through your beautiful children for sure. God bless
Sari Kramer
left a message on June 4, 2019:
A candle was lit by Sari Kramer on 2019/06/04
McKowne & Cariano Family
left a message on June 4, 2019:
A candle was lit by McKowne & Cariano Family on 2019/06/04
Manel & Mohamed AbdelBarry
left a message on June 3, 2019:
We were blessed to have known Kim since our children Logan and Salma were together in Oakhill. She was a beautiful Soul, full of goodness. She loved her family and friends dearly and never complained about what she was going through. Our deepest condolences to her family, may they find comfort in the fact that she is with God in Heaven now! May she rest in eternal Peace!
Denise Longo
left a message on June 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by Denise Longo on 2019/06/03
Leila Bailey
left a message on June 3, 2019:
My deepest condolences to you and your family, Praying for strength .
Leila Bailey and Family
Manel & Mohamed AbdelBarry
left a message on June 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by Manel & Mohamed AbdelBarry on 2019/06/03
Jay and Nina Premselaar
left a message on June 3, 2019:
A candle was lit by Jay and Nina Premselaar on 2019/06/03
Jeanine penn patrick
left a message on June 3, 2019:
sorry to hear of the loss of your wife prayers to u and your family May she rip
Jeanine Cistrelli
left a message on June 3, 2019:
I am so sorry to hear. You are in my thoughts and prayers
John, Lisa and Morgan Francen
left a message on June 2, 2019:
A candle was lit by John, Lisa and Morgan Francen on 2019/06/02
Camille Matlosz Theys
left a message on June 2, 2019:
Kevin and family: I am so sorry for the loss of your young wife and mother, Kim. You will be in my prayers.
Michelle Lukenda
left a message on June 2, 2019:
A candle was lit by Michelle Lukenda on 2019/06/02
John, Lisa and Morgan Francen
left a message on June 2, 2019:
We were so shocked and so saddened to hear the news of Kim’s passing. We knew she was fighting this for some time but just always thought she would somehow beat this. We are just so very very sorry for you all. Words just cannot express how sorry we are. Our thoughts and prayers to you all.
With deepest and sincerest sypmpathy,
John , Lisa and Morgan
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Terry Kowalski
left a message on June 2, 2019:
My sincere condolences at this great loss of Kim, the core of your family. It is said that God never gives us more than we can bear, but when a loss such as this occurs, it has us asking God how do you go on without her. I pray that God gives you and your family the strength, love & guidance to carry on. Kim's endless and boundless love for her family will always be carried in your hearts.
Terry Kowalski
Allison Kusner-Sot
left a message on June 1, 2019:
I am truly in shock to hear of Kim’s passing. As a friend since HS , we experienced so many fun and happy times together! She was one in a million! My prayers and thoughts are with you all today and always.
Xo
Marilyn Piperno
left a message on June 1, 2019:
It’s hard to say what catches your eye first when you see Kim. Her gorgeous piercing blue eyes, perfect smile or overall presence.
Regardless of what you notice first, it’s her heart and kindness that draws you in and keeps you there.
Always a lady, the most perfect mixology of grace, charisma, sass and spunk.
She lights up every space - her attendance always made the occasion, season, weather, game, time fly by with smiles and good company.
Gods blessings and peace now and always as Angel Kim watches over us all.
Bobbie and Vic
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Our hearts are broken upon hearing of your tremendous loss. Kim’s life was inspiration to all who knew her .........
She embraced life and added life to all who knew her..............
Mark Hampton
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Condolences from the Hamptons.
Carol kowalik
left a message on June 1, 2019:
A candle was lit by Carol kowalik on 2019/06/01
Laurie Stanicki
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Kim was a shining star and an amazing role model to everyone she came in contact with.
Sending strength and love to Kevin and Kim's beautiful family.
Always here for you
Bob and Laurie Stanicki
Bubba
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Kim you are always going to be a shining light with a beautiful singing voice and a great personality. You were the glue that kept all the friends together over the years, no matter if in Colts Neck or LBI. You adored your Family very much , you loved your friends and your smile and laugh lit up the room you were in. Love you very much and I will always have you in my heart till the day we meet again.
Phyllis Renna Iannarone
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Kevin and Family, so very sorry for your loss. May Kim's memory live in your hearts forever and may she rest in eternal peace.
Phyllis & Ron Iannarone
Naples. FL
(Sal Renna's sister)
Evelyn & Vincent Watkins
left a message on June 1, 2019:
My dearest Dr. Lukenda and family. I was shocked and heartbroken to see Kim's obituary on FB. I didn't even know she was ill. Though I never had the pleasure of meeting her personally she was kind enough to accept me as a friend through FB and I was able to keep in touch. Words cannot express our deepest sympathy at this time.
"DEATH LEAVES A HEARTACHE NO ONE CAN HEAL BUT LOVE LEAVES US MEMORIES NO ONE CAN STEAL"
Sending HUGS and prayers.
Sincerely, Evelyn and Vincent Watkins
Elaine Lukenda
left a message on June 1, 2019:
A candle was lit by Elaine Lukenda on 2019/06/01
Carol kowalik
left a message on June 1, 2019:
My thoughts and prayers are with Dr Lukenda and family
Melissa Mallios
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Our hearts go out to the Lukenda family. Kim surely was a prescence of grace, class, & strength. Always a smile on her face & her pride in her family was very clear. We were only blessed to know Kim a short time & her passing has been such a heart break. May her memory be eternal & her traditions she worked so hard to create continue. I will never forget how beautifully she decorated for Christmas, even when she wasnt feeling her best. Rest in Peace Kim forever more. ♡
Tracey Madar
left a message on June 1, 2019:
Hi Kevin. I am so very sorry for your loss. My parents Frank & Mary are shocked and very sad to hear about Kim. We are all thinking about you and your family. Hang in there !! We will pray for you.
Debbie Vitale
left a message on May 31, 2019:
Dear Kevin and family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful wife and mother. Love is eternal and Kim will live in your hearts forever. Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Love,
Carl & Debbie Vitale
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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