Dr. Philip Joseph Brendel, 70, of Holmdel, NJ died unexpectedly at home on March 21, 2010. He was born (August 11, 1939) and raised in Astoria, Queens by his parents, Philip Brendel and Mary Ana Brendel (Devera). He graduated from Manhattan College in 1961 with a Bachelors of Electrical Engineering and pursued multiple post-graduate degrees …
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Dr. Philip Joseph Brendel, 70, of Holmdel, NJ died unexpectedly at home on March 21, 2010. He was born (August 11, 1939) and raised in Astoria, Queens by his parents, Philip Brendel and Mary Ana Brendel (Devera). He graduated from Manhattan College in 1961 with a Bachelors of Electrical Engineering and pursued multiple post-graduate degrees as a National Science Foundation Fellow. He earned S.M. (E.E.) and E.E. degrees from M. I. T. and his doctorate (Eng.Sc.D) from Columbia University. Dr. Brendel retired in 1996 as a Distinguished Member of Technical Staff after a 30 year telecommunications career at AT&T Bell Laboratories where he was recognized around the world as an expert in international network operations. Prior to Bell Labs, he proudly served his country as an officer in the US Air Force from October, 1963 to April, 1966. Away from work, Philip’s passion and joy was spending time with his beloved wife, Joanne and his three children, Philip, Eric, and Kirsten. Whether coaching his boys in t-ball or watching his daughter star in collegiate basketball, his dedication to his family was limitless. His big heart, gentle soul, and remarkable thoughtfulness will be sorely missed by all close to him. He is survived by his wife of 45 years, Joanne Margaret Brendel (Mungo) of Holmdel, NJ, his three children and their spouses, Philip Joseph Brendel, Jr and his wife Nancy Munyak of Cranbury, NJ, Eric John Brendel and his wife Tina Brendel of Fair Haven, NJ, and Kirsten Marie Dineen and her husband Sean Dineen of New York, NY, his brother, John Jacob Brendel of Astoria, NY, and his sister, Constance Barbara Myers of Jersey City, NJ. He is also survived by his seven beloved grandchildren, MaryRose Brendel, Philip Joseph Brendel III, and Theodore John Brendel of Cranbury, NJ; Ana Louise Brendel, Geoffrey Eric Brendel, and Catherine Louise Brendel of Fair Haven, NJ; Thomas Philip Dineen of New York, NY.
Sy Shtab
left a message on May 7, 2020:
Phil and I both worked on similar projects at Bell Labs and shared an office in Redhill NJ.He was a fabulous coworker.We shared many enjoyable stories about our families.He was very proud of each and everyone .He will be missed by all he touched.May you all be healthy and safe.
Fondly,
Sy and Anne Shtab
Stephen F. Imms
left a message on July 20, 2011:
Sorry to hear about your loss, John. From Steve your classmate from OLMC
Harry & Louise Hiler
left a message on April 15, 2011:
Tina & Eric, You have our deepest sympathy on the death of Eric's Dad. Tina, We are all missing your Dad and our Brother Paul. All our love, Aunt Louise & Uncle Harry
Mary Notaris
left a message on March 26, 2011:
Dear Joanne, Philip, Eric and Kirsten: So sorry to hear of Philip's death--and what a surprise. He was such a sweet gentle giant, and I will never forget him. Please know that I am thinking of all of you and wish you nothing but the best during this sad time. Mary Notaris.
Susan Kelly
left a message on March 24, 2011:
Dear Joanne and children, Please accept our sincere condolences on the death of Phil. He was a man of great talents and accomplishments but most important he was at the center of a wonderful family. Phil was a role model to us for he achieved that elusive balance between family and work. Bob and I admired him very much. Although we cannot imagine how difficult life is for you right now we know that your sorrow will be mitigated over time by your many happy memories of shared experiences, by your close family bonds, and by the love and support of your many friends. You are in our prayers. Susan and Bob Kelly
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Dave Kirkpatrick
left a message on March 23, 2011:
Eric, In your time of anquish and pain know that there are many people out here who are sad for your loss. I didn't know your dad personally, but if he was anything like you he lived his life with class and dignity and will be sorely missed. If there is anything we can do, let your friends on the Brothers basketball team know how we can help.
Betty & Rich Mistler
left a message on March 23, 2011:
A candle was lit by Betty & Rich Mistler on 2011/03/23
Betty & Rich Mistler
left a message on March 23, 2011:
Phil was a giant in stature and in character. We know Phil meant so much to all of you, the family, and you shared him with the rest of us. His gentle, kind and generous nature will live forever in your hearts and ours. Peace be with him. Our sincere sympathy to the Brendel family, in particular, his wife of 45 years, Joanne.
Richard Brendel
left a message on March 23, 2011:
Liebe Joanne, Kirsten, Eric und Philip, in tiefer Verbundenheit nehmen wir Anteil an Eurer Trauer. Wir haben Philip als gastfreundlichen, ruhigen und sehr warmherzigen Menschen kennengelernt. So wird er auch in unserer Erinnering weiterleben. Richard, Monika, Ivonne, Christian und Katharina
Chris & Dawn Dennis
left a message on March 23, 2011:
To the Brendel Family, We are sorry for your loss and are thinking of you during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Chris & Dawn Dennis
mary and pauline lalama
left a message on March 23, 2011:
ERIC AND FAMILY 0UR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Terry and Russell
left a message on March 23, 2011:
Eric, Tina and the Brendel family, So sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
John Kibler
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Condolences to the entire Brendel family. Mr. Brendel was a kind and generous man, who's presence will be greatly missed.
Nancy L. Knallay
left a message on March 22, 2011:
To Eric, Tina & children and the Brendel Family, you all have our deepest sympathy. May God carry you through this difficult time. Nancy, Scott, Raymond & Stephen
Annrica Radziewicz
left a message on March 22, 2011:
We send our deepest sympathy for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Brendel Family.....Annrica & Devin
Brendel, Johann
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Liebe Joanna, liebe Kirsten, lieber Philip, lieber John, ich m�chte Euch auf diesem Weg mein herzlichstes Beileid und meine Anteilnahme aussprechen. Wenn das Leid auch oft �berraschend kommt, so bleibt der Trost, dass niemand zur�ckbleiben darf. Legt meinem Cousin bitte f�r eine Minute noch einmal eine Hand auf.
Emily (Perkins) Jones
left a message on March 22, 2011:
I wish to send to the entire family my deepest sympathy for your loss. Kirsten and I went to school together and I can still picture her smile. I know you are all crying now, but your smiles will return when you think of your loving Dad. Good luck and God Bless you all.
Matt Mandracchia - JJ Camara
left a message on March 22, 2011:
We are in mourning for the loss of your special husband, father and grandfather.
Anthony Cooper
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Eric, my sincere condolences to you and your family at this difficult time.
Colleen Wade
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Dear Phil, Sincere sympathy to you and your family. May fond memories of happy times guide you through these trying moments. It was cool to read some of your dad's highlights, as it explains the foundation for which good colleagues like you are built upon! Surely he is so proud of you, and all his family, as his smile shines upon you all, from Heaven. Kind regards, Colleen
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
James A Kennedy
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Kirsten, My sincere condolences to you and your entire family.I knew your Dad way back to the HYAA days. He was always there to help. I am sorry for your loss. Please extend my condolences to all. I cannot attend the service as I will be out-of-State. Jim Kennedy
Joseph D. Lalama
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Eric you and your entire family have our deepest sympathy. We send our love and prayers.
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Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Sy Shtab
left a message on May 7, 2020:
Phil and I both worked on similar projects at Bell Labs and shared an office in Redhill NJ.He was a fabulous coworker.We shared many enjoyable stories about our families.He was very proud of each and everyone .He will be missed by all he touched.May you all be healthy and safe.
Fondly,
Sy and Anne Shtab
Stephen F. Imms
left a message on July 20, 2011:
Sorry to hear about your loss, John. From Steve your classmate from OLMC
Harry & Louise Hiler
left a message on April 15, 2011:
Tina & Eric, You have our deepest sympathy on the death of Eric's Dad. Tina, We are all missing your Dad and our Brother Paul. All our love, Aunt Louise & Uncle Harry
Mary Notaris
left a message on March 26, 2011:
Dear Joanne, Philip, Eric and Kirsten: So sorry to hear of Philip's death--and what a surprise. He was such a sweet gentle giant, and I will never forget him. Please know that I am thinking of all of you and wish you nothing but the best during this sad time. Mary Notaris.
Susan Kelly
left a message on March 24, 2011:
Dear Joanne and children, Please accept our sincere condolences on the death of Phil. He was a man of great talents and accomplishments but most important he was at the center of a wonderful family. Phil was a role model to us for he achieved that elusive balance between family and work. Bob and I admired him very much. Although we cannot imagine how difficult life is for you right now we know that your sorrow will be mitigated over time by your many happy memories of shared experiences, by your close family bonds, and by the love and support of your many friends. You are in our prayers. Susan and Bob Kelly
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Dave Kirkpatrick
left a message on March 23, 2011:
Eric, In your time of anquish and pain know that there are many people out here who are sad for your loss. I didn't know your dad personally, but if he was anything like you he lived his life with class and dignity and will be sorely missed. If there is anything we can do, let your friends on the Brothers basketball team know how we can help.
Betty & Rich Mistler
left a message on March 23, 2011:
A candle was lit by Betty & Rich Mistler on 2011/03/23
Betty & Rich Mistler
left a message on March 23, 2011:
Phil was a giant in stature and in character. We know Phil meant so much to all of you, the family, and you shared him with the rest of us. His gentle, kind and generous nature will live forever in your hearts and ours. Peace be with him. Our sincere sympathy to the Brendel family, in particular, his wife of 45 years, Joanne.
Richard Brendel
left a message on March 23, 2011:
Liebe Joanne, Kirsten, Eric und Philip, in tiefer Verbundenheit nehmen wir Anteil an Eurer Trauer. Wir haben Philip als gastfreundlichen, ruhigen und sehr warmherzigen Menschen kennengelernt. So wird er auch in unserer Erinnering weiterleben. Richard, Monika, Ivonne, Christian und Katharina
Chris & Dawn Dennis
left a message on March 23, 2011:
To the Brendel Family, We are sorry for your loss and are thinking of you during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Chris & Dawn Dennis
mary and pauline lalama
left a message on March 23, 2011:
ERIC AND FAMILY 0UR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Terry and Russell
left a message on March 23, 2011:
Eric, Tina and the Brendel family, So sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
John Kibler
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Condolences to the entire Brendel family. Mr. Brendel was a kind and generous man, who's presence will be greatly missed.
Nancy L. Knallay
left a message on March 22, 2011:
To Eric, Tina & children and the Brendel Family, you all have our deepest sympathy. May God carry you through this difficult time. Nancy, Scott, Raymond & Stephen
Annrica Radziewicz
left a message on March 22, 2011:
We send our deepest sympathy for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Brendel Family.....Annrica & Devin
Brendel, Johann
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Liebe Joanna, liebe Kirsten, lieber Philip, lieber John, ich m�chte Euch auf diesem Weg mein herzlichstes Beileid und meine Anteilnahme aussprechen. Wenn das Leid auch oft �berraschend kommt, so bleibt der Trost, dass niemand zur�ckbleiben darf. Legt meinem Cousin bitte f�r eine Minute noch einmal eine Hand auf.
Emily (Perkins) Jones
left a message on March 22, 2011:
I wish to send to the entire family my deepest sympathy for your loss. Kirsten and I went to school together and I can still picture her smile. I know you are all crying now, but your smiles will return when you think of your loving Dad. Good luck and God Bless you all.
Matt Mandracchia - JJ Camara
left a message on March 22, 2011:
We are in mourning for the loss of your special husband, father and grandfather.
Anthony Cooper
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Eric, my sincere condolences to you and your family at this difficult time.
Colleen Wade
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Dear Phil, Sincere sympathy to you and your family. May fond memories of happy times guide you through these trying moments. It was cool to read some of your dad's highlights, as it explains the foundation for which good colleagues like you are built upon! Surely he is so proud of you, and all his family, as his smile shines upon you all, from Heaven. Kind regards, Colleen
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
James A Kennedy
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Kirsten, My sincere condolences to you and your entire family.I knew your Dad way back to the HYAA days. He was always there to help. I am sorry for your loss. Please extend my condolences to all. I cannot attend the service as I will be out-of-State. Jim Kennedy
Joseph D. Lalama
left a message on March 22, 2011:
Eric you and your entire family have our deepest sympathy. We send our love and prayers.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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