Robert M. Shirvanian, 90, Monmouth Beach, passed away Sunday, November 19th at home. Mr. Shirvanian was a graduate of Barringer High School, Newark, NJ, where he was the salutatorian. He graduated Seton Hall University with a BS in Human Resources and Psychology. He joined the US Navy during WWII and was QM3/c on the USS …
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Robert M. Shirvanian, 90, Monmouth Beach, passed away Sunday, November 19th at home.
Mr. Shirvanian was a graduate of Barringer High School, Newark, NJ, where he was the salutatorian. He graduated Seton Hall University with a BS in Human Resources and Psychology.
He joined the US Navy during WWII and was QM3/c on the USS Mindoro aircraft carrier. He was the National Sales Manager at Parmelee Industries where he managed the US and Canada area before moving to Monmouth Beach. Bob left his legacy in West Long Branch where he and his family lived for almost 40 years. During that time, he served on the Boro Council for 16 years and 7 years as president. He was responsible with Mayor Henry Shaheen for acquiring the majority of open space in the town.
He was founder and coach of the Pop Warner Football team, founder of the West Long Branch Sports Association, the 1st President of the West Long Branch Recreation Commission, President & Toastmaster for the Shore Regional Blue Devils Booster Association and Little League baseball coach.
During his time in WLB, he also coordinated the 1st Senior Citizen Bus Program from Peter Cooper Village, he was the Chairman of the Ways & Means Committee for the WLB Community Center, the chairman of the WLB 60th Anniversary celebration and the chairman with Jim Ronan of the 1st WLB 4th of July parade and fireworks celebration.
Because of his many accomplishments in WLB, Ronan/Shirvanian Park was dedicated in 2006. One of Bob’s greatest joys was being the player/manager of Ronan’s softball team which won 6 championships.
Early on in his life he founded the Jay Vets which was comprised of his brother Vahan and his best friends from Newark, NJ. He was founder/coach/player of the North Newark Bears Essex
County football league. He was the sports editor of the North Newark Sun newspaper. In his later years, he was president of the Glenwood Cemetery, WLB and President of the Board of Trustees of the Admiralty Condo Association.
Bob was predeceased by his mother and father, his beloved wife of 65 years, Mary Lou Rocco; his sister Virginia and brother Vahan.
Surviving are his children, Robert Jr., Richard and Barbara, Mary Lou’s brother Ralph Rocco and sister Agnes Gangemi and grandchildren Lauren, Paige, Alexandra, Erik, Michael and Danny.
Friends and family are invited for visitation Tuesday, November 21st from 6:00 – 9:00 PM at the Woolley-Boglioli Funeral Home, 10 Morrell Street, Long Branch. A funeral mass will be celebrated Wednesday, November 22nd at 12:30 pm at St. Michael’s RC Church, 800 Ocean Avenue, Long Branch. Burial will follow in Glenwood Cemetery, West Long Branch. Donations may be made in Bob’s memory to Wounded Warrior Foundation, 4899 Belfort Road, Suite 300, Jacksonville, FL 32256 or Monmouth Beach First Aid, PO Box 237, Monmouth Beach, NJ 07750. To share a favorite memory of Bob or leave a message of condolence, please visit Bob’s Page of Tributes at www.woolleyboglioli.com.
Joseph Ferentino
left a message on February 4, 2025:
I came upon this notice of Mr Shirvanian's death merely by chance. I never really knew him first hand. I am friends with his children Bob, Rich and Barbara. To say that Mr. Shirvanian’s obituary is impressive, would be a huge understatement. All I can say first hand, is that with regard to his children, the apple does not fall far from the tree. R.I.P Mr Shirvanian. Joe Ferentino
Judy Green
left a message on November 24, 2018:
Goodbye to a wonderful man. You and Aunt Mary Lou were like second parents to the Gangemi children helping us grow. I was always impressed at how close the Gangemis,Roccos, and Shirvanians were; it was like one family not three. The bond between you and my Father was like brothers I loved to hear of the stories about the two of you when you were young. My hope is that my Father was there to greet you when you passed over, as well as everyone who was waiting to see you again. As you always said, " At's all ".
Nancy Shirvanian
left a message on November 23, 2018:
Remembering Uncle Bob and a life well-lived What will I miss most about Uncle Bob? I will mostly miss everything. Poignant memories fill my mind and always will. Memories of spending time with my aunt and uncle and cousins, celebrating holidays and playing at the beach. Lingering after one of Aunt Mary Lou's scrumptious meals, listening to amazing family stories, sometimes (often) trying to outwit one another! All the while a richly woven tapestry was being formed - Uncle Bob made sure everyone felt included and had a voice. He relished every moment he spent with his children - he truly adored Bobby, Richard and Barbara. Uncle Bob was larger than life to me. He seamlessly walked down the path that was in front of him. He made me feel special and appreciated. He listened to me and was a confidant. He cared about me. He took the time to know me. Uncle Bob, along with my father, Vahan Shirvanian, Jr. were my heroes. I admired them for their courage and willingness to stand up for their beliefs, even if noone agreed with them. They could be selfless for the greater good, and they could be persistent to prove their point. They were comrades in brotherhood and each other's best friend. They were there for each other like bookends standing upright and firmly together. We were so lucky to have been their family and share in the love that they so easily gave. I know the road was getting rough Uncle Bob, and the hills were hard to climb. So close your weary eyes and surround yourself in peace, as God has lifted you to rest because he always takes the best. It breaks our hearts to lose you but you haven't gone alone - a part of us went with you, and a part of you is in our souls. Fare thee well, my lovely Uncle Bob. With love, always, Nan
David Wygal
left a message on November 21, 2018:
Dear Bob & family--we are saddened by the loss of your father. The essence of your father lives on, within you, your siblings & your children. May the Lord grant eternal rest with your beloved father, & we pray the love of God enfolds you during your journey through grief. Much love, David Wygal & Ave Latte
Le'Spencer Walker
left a message on November 21, 2018:
Dear Grandpa, Thank you!...the grandfather of wisdom and a man of honor. I remember coming to meet you and grandma, nervous because this was the time I knew I needed to make a good impression. It resembled a scene from a great movie, one of many things you and I have in common. Movies are the bond that will forever bring joy to my heart when I think of you. We talked about everything under the sun. Sports, Giants vs Cowboys, how much you love your grand children, politics, the future of technology, and life lessons. This was the first of many memorable conversions that will last forever. Your guidance, advice, love, and humor will live an eternity on this earth. Our children will know of the amazing stories you told, your touching holiday toasts, and the great legacy you leave. May your spirit smile down as we celebrate your life. I will always make sure to keep Lauren safe, continue to charge towards our bright future ahead, and thank you for welcoming me into your amazing family. Here’s looking at you kid! Love you Grandpa Shirvanian Le’Spencer
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Rene Stone
left a message on November 21, 2018:
I first met Robert Shirvanian was I was a young aspiring mortgage representative not much older then 25 (Circa 1988). He asked to meet with me and his two sons, Richard and Bob, to discuss some strategic financing options. When I entered the meeting I realized I was in over my head, so did Robert, but he never let me think that. The men peppered me with questions and scenarios and each time Robert reminded them to give me a chance to answer and that he was sure I could handle the task. He made me feel smarter then I was and gave me all the confidence I needed to succeed. As time went by his family and I did many transactions and whenever Robert was involved it was a learning moment. It wasn't just creativity he taught me, but how to develop relationships and deal with difficult clients. Years went by and our paths did not cross for quite sometime. I did get the opportunity to reconnect with him and his family about 10 years ago and stayed in contact this time. Every year when several of us would get together for barbecues or holiday dinners my favorite part was getting to spend time with Robert. He always asked about my life and my business and sales numbers. He would still make me feel like I could solve the world's problems. I always left his presence wishing I could stay and talk with him longer. Thank you Robert for your guiding voice and bright spirit at a time in a girl's life when she needed it most. Rest In Peace - we will miss you. Xoxoxo Rene' Stone
Eloise Anderson
left a message on November 21, 2018:
A candle was lit by Eloise Anderson on 2018/11/21
Karen Leslie
left a message on November 20, 2018:
Bob, Richard and Barbara, I was saddened to hear of your Dad's passing and as I read his obituary I could not help but reflect on our many years together as kids. Your Dad was very special to me and helped me through some really difficult times- I am just sad that I remember them now and did not ever have the chance to thank him for what he did for me, my brothers and sisters. So, the best I can do now is let you know that despite the many years that have passed, I am so grateful. My thoughts and prayers are with you. With love, Karen Leslie
Michael & Suzanne Woodie
left a message on November 20, 2018:
Bob, Rich & Barb, please accept our sincerest condolences. Even though your Dad’s passing may have been anticipated that never makes it any easier. He was a fantastic guy that was very well liked by all. Suzanne and I both truly enjoyed the conversations that we shared with him whenever we were in his company. He really looked forward to a good discussion or debate on just about any topic. Whether it was sports, politics or even food, he always had an informed opinion - but more importantly he wanted to hear yours too. And you had better bring your “A-game” because he was sharp! We always saw a man who was genuinely interested in what was going on in the lives of his children and grand-children and loved to hear about their latest adventures. He was always so full of energy and exuberance. He was a guy that just really loved life and he will be missed. Our thoughts are with you all, Michael & Suzanne Woodie.
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Joseph Ferentino
left a message on February 4, 2025:
I came upon this notice of Mr Shirvanian's death merely by chance. I never really knew him first hand. I am friends with his children Bob, Rich and Barbara. To say that Mr. Shirvanian’s obituary is impressive, would be a huge understatement. All I can say first hand, is that with regard to his children, the apple does not fall far from the tree. R.I.P Mr Shirvanian. Joe Ferentino
Judy Green
left a message on November 24, 2018:
Goodbye to a wonderful man. You and Aunt Mary Lou were like second parents to the Gangemi children helping us grow. I was always impressed at how close the Gangemis,Roccos, and Shirvanians were; it was like one family not three. The bond between you and my Father was like brothers I loved to hear of the stories about the two of you when you were young. My hope is that my Father was there to greet you when you passed over, as well as everyone who was waiting to see you again. As you always said, " At's all ".
Nancy Shirvanian
left a message on November 23, 2018:
Remembering Uncle Bob and a life well-lived What will I miss most about Uncle Bob? I will mostly miss everything. Poignant memories fill my mind and always will. Memories of spending time with my aunt and uncle and cousins, celebrating holidays and playing at the beach. Lingering after one of Aunt Mary Lou's scrumptious meals, listening to amazing family stories, sometimes (often) trying to outwit one another! All the while a richly woven tapestry was being formed - Uncle Bob made sure everyone felt included and had a voice. He relished every moment he spent with his children - he truly adored Bobby, Richard and Barbara. Uncle Bob was larger than life to me. He seamlessly walked down the path that was in front of him. He made me feel special and appreciated. He listened to me and was a confidant. He cared about me. He took the time to know me. Uncle Bob, along with my father, Vahan Shirvanian, Jr. were my heroes. I admired them for their courage and willingness to stand up for their beliefs, even if noone agreed with them. They could be selfless for the greater good, and they could be persistent to prove their point. They were comrades in brotherhood and each other's best friend. They were there for each other like bookends standing upright and firmly together. We were so lucky to have been their family and share in the love that they so easily gave. I know the road was getting rough Uncle Bob, and the hills were hard to climb. So close your weary eyes and surround yourself in peace, as God has lifted you to rest because he always takes the best. It breaks our hearts to lose you but you haven't gone alone - a part of us went with you, and a part of you is in our souls. Fare thee well, my lovely Uncle Bob. With love, always, Nan
David Wygal
left a message on November 21, 2018:
Dear Bob & family--we are saddened by the loss of your father. The essence of your father lives on, within you, your siblings & your children. May the Lord grant eternal rest with your beloved father, & we pray the love of God enfolds you during your journey through grief. Much love, David Wygal & Ave Latte
Le'Spencer Walker
left a message on November 21, 2018:
Dear Grandpa, Thank you!...the grandfather of wisdom and a man of honor. I remember coming to meet you and grandma, nervous because this was the time I knew I needed to make a good impression. It resembled a scene from a great movie, one of many things you and I have in common. Movies are the bond that will forever bring joy to my heart when I think of you. We talked about everything under the sun. Sports, Giants vs Cowboys, how much you love your grand children, politics, the future of technology, and life lessons. This was the first of many memorable conversions that will last forever. Your guidance, advice, love, and humor will live an eternity on this earth. Our children will know of the amazing stories you told, your touching holiday toasts, and the great legacy you leave. May your spirit smile down as we celebrate your life. I will always make sure to keep Lauren safe, continue to charge towards our bright future ahead, and thank you for welcoming me into your amazing family. Here’s looking at you kid! Love you Grandpa Shirvanian Le’Spencer
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Rene Stone
left a message on November 21, 2018:
I first met Robert Shirvanian was I was a young aspiring mortgage representative not much older then 25 (Circa 1988). He asked to meet with me and his two sons, Richard and Bob, to discuss some strategic financing options. When I entered the meeting I realized I was in over my head, so did Robert, but he never let me think that. The men peppered me with questions and scenarios and each time Robert reminded them to give me a chance to answer and that he was sure I could handle the task. He made me feel smarter then I was and gave me all the confidence I needed to succeed. As time went by his family and I did many transactions and whenever Robert was involved it was a learning moment. It wasn't just creativity he taught me, but how to develop relationships and deal with difficult clients. Years went by and our paths did not cross for quite sometime. I did get the opportunity to reconnect with him and his family about 10 years ago and stayed in contact this time. Every year when several of us would get together for barbecues or holiday dinners my favorite part was getting to spend time with Robert. He always asked about my life and my business and sales numbers. He would still make me feel like I could solve the world's problems. I always left his presence wishing I could stay and talk with him longer. Thank you Robert for your guiding voice and bright spirit at a time in a girl's life when she needed it most. Rest In Peace - we will miss you. Xoxoxo Rene' Stone
Eloise Anderson
left a message on November 21, 2018:
A candle was lit by Eloise Anderson on 2018/11/21
Karen Leslie
left a message on November 20, 2018:
Bob, Richard and Barbara, I was saddened to hear of your Dad's passing and as I read his obituary I could not help but reflect on our many years together as kids. Your Dad was very special to me and helped me through some really difficult times- I am just sad that I remember them now and did not ever have the chance to thank him for what he did for me, my brothers and sisters. So, the best I can do now is let you know that despite the many years that have passed, I am so grateful. My thoughts and prayers are with you. With love, Karen Leslie
Michael & Suzanne Woodie
left a message on November 20, 2018:
Bob, Rich & Barb, please accept our sincerest condolences. Even though your Dad’s passing may have been anticipated that never makes it any easier. He was a fantastic guy that was very well liked by all. Suzanne and I both truly enjoyed the conversations that we shared with him whenever we were in his company. He really looked forward to a good discussion or debate on just about any topic. Whether it was sports, politics or even food, he always had an informed opinion - but more importantly he wanted to hear yours too. And you had better bring your “A-game” because he was sharp! We always saw a man who was genuinely interested in what was going on in the lives of his children and grand-children and loved to hear about their latest adventures. He was always so full of energy and exuberance. He was a guy that just really loved life and he will be missed. Our thoughts are with you all, Michael & Suzanne Woodie.
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