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Shirley Resnic

Date of Death: June 17, 2025

Woolley-Boglioli Funeral Home

10 Morrell Street

Long Branch, NJ 07740

Thursday 6/19, 11:00 am - 12:00 pm

Congregation Brothers Of Israel Cemetery

North Linden Avenue

West Long Branch, NJ 07764

Thursday 6/19, 12:00 pm

Shirley (Silver) Resnic, 88, of Tinton Falls, NJ passed peacefully at home on June 17, 2025.

Born and raised in Long Branch, NJ, Shirley graduated valedictorian of her High School class. She lived most of her adult life in Long Branch seeing both her sons also graduate from Long Branch High School. Shirley continued her family’s commitment to their faith and community and was a lifelong member of the synagogue her parents helped to establish, Congregation Brothers of Israel. Shirley graduated from Monmouth College with a degree in English Literature and Russian. She worked for over two decades at Fort Monmouth, NJ. Shirley made friends wherever she went; she was a cherished friend and confidante, and her humor, devotion, and unique perspectives comforted as much as they entertained. She will be missed most profoundly by the love of her life, Burton (Burt). Shirley and Burt spent many seasons in Florida, traveled extensively in the US and internationally, and learned, loved, and laughed with family and friends (new and old.)

In addition to Burt, her beloved husband of 63 years, Shirley is mourned by her sons Alan and his wife Amy; Frederic and his wife Karen, both of Massachusetts. She was dedicated to family and had an unending love for her grandchildren, Stephen, Melissa (and husband Brandon), Rebecca, Jonathan, and Jordan, and recently welcomed her first Great Granddaughter. She would never miss an opportunity to celebrate with family, traveling for all milestones and hosting herself huge Passover Seders for family, friends and neighbors. Shirley was a devoted niece to her aunts and uncles, and she enjoyed exceptionally close relationships with her own nieces (Felise, Debbie, Julie), their families and children. Shirley is predeceased by her parents Fanny and David, her brothers, Louis and Robert (Mickey) Silver, and sister Miriam Luchansky.

Services will be held at Woolley-Boglioli Funeral Home, Long Branch on Thursday, June 19 at 11 AM. Interment at Congregation Brothers of Israel Cemetery, West Long Branch will immediately follow services.

Shiva will be held at Seabrook Village, 3000 Essex Rd, Tinton Falls, NJ on Thursday and Friday as follows:

Thursday, 6/19, from 2pm to 8pm with evening services at 6:30pm to be held in the Town Square Multipurpose Room, on the 1st Floor just off the main lobby entrance.

Friday, 6/20, from 10am to 3pm in the Resnic’s apartment: 421 Heron Point, accessed from the Town Square Building via the 2nd floor connector. Friday evening services will be held at 3:45pm in the Atrium Room.

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Daniel Resnic

Dana Vento

Helen Kapner

Kerry King

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Woolley-Boglioli Funeral Home

10 Morrell Street

Long Branch, NJ 07740

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Thursday 6/19, 11:00 am - 12:00 pm

Congregation Brothers Of Israel Cemetery

North Linden Avenue

West Long Branch, NJ 07764

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Thursday 6/19, 12:00 pm

Shirley (Silver) Resnic, 88, of Tinton Falls, NJ passed peacefully at home on June 17, 2025. Born and raised in Long Branch, NJ, Shirley graduated valedictorian of her High School class. She lived most of her adult life in Long Branch seeing both her sons also graduate from Long Branch High School. Shirley continued her …
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benbullen64@gmail.com, Mrs Resnic, she will always be that to me, always made me feel welcome in the family home. I remember my first time in the home, she heard my name and wanted my full name, so I told her "Michael Benjamin", she said "That is a good name, it lierally means Good Son in Yiddish". That stuck with me to this day. Though not always successful, I tried to be that. You are loved and you will be missed.

Burt-I was on this site due to loss of a long term friend and saw the obituary for your wife. I extend my deepest condolences. You were kind enough to send a lovely tribute when my beloved husband Joe Schwartz passed in 2023. I thank you for remembering Joe. He was special and I miss him every day. I remember Joe speaking so well of you and your wife and life at Fort Monmouth. I am sorry for the loss of your loving partner. May we all find peace and a hope for another time together. My best to you-Diane Brady Schwartz

Art and I were sorrowed to learn of Shirley’s death. I’ve known and admired her since Junior High School when we first met, and was very favorably impressed by her deep faith. Art worked with Burt and knew Shirley from Fort Monmouth. We’ve said the Mourner’s Kaddish in her sweet memory. Peggy Moran Ballato, LBHS Class of 1955. Pinehurst, NC

Shirley you're such a beautiful person, you'll be missed by many. Rest in eternal peace

While I grew up with the occasional meeting with Shirley and Burt on our summer trips to Long Branch—a churn of NJ relatives—I didn’t really get to know Shirley until around 2018, when Helene (Neuman) Petito was ill. My family, Francine, Norman, Zach and I, converged on Tinton Falls and spent time with them. I really loved Shirley’s energy, and we talked about her book club. I saw them again at a Milecofsky family event back in 2021 or so, and was glad to see them and talk with Shirley for a bit. She struck me as a very vivacious soul: intelligent, friendly, and spirited. I am sorry we didn’t get a chance to spend more time together. May her memory be for a blessing.

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I was so sorry to hear of Shirley's passing. I have such fond memories of her growing up. Like Fred mentioned, I too remember vividly, the Seders at the old house near the Shul. I remember her asking my mom what Leonard and David would eat! She was such a wonderful and caring individual who, like Burt, was so good to my parents when they were getting on in years. My parents could not have asked for better friends which I will never forget. I'm so sorry I could not be there for this ceremony but our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you Burt, Alan, Fred and the rest of your wonderful family at this most difficult time. All our love...Leonard, David, Lori, Sammi and Carli.

Dear Burt, Alan, Fred and family, I am so sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing. Both of your speeches were beautiful and the love evident. May all the memories you have and the legacy she passed on to you bring you comfort. With deep condolences to all , Shirah

May the Light guide your soul back to Source or wherever your travels bring you next. You will be missed by many. Thank you for being you.

If there is a path ahead beyond the bounds of Earth let there be this light for you Shirley. Bring joy to the universe. Danny Resnic

My Heartfelt Condolences Dear Burt, Alan, Amy, Fred and Family, I was heartbroken to hear about Shirley's passing. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. As I reflect on the memories we shared, I can’t help but think back to when you and Shirley were newlyweds, Burt. I fondly remember our visit to New Jersey shortly after Fred was born. We all ventured to the World’s Fair in New York together. I can only imagine the challenges of managing two infants while graciously hosting four overnight guests—it felt like a scene straight out of a reality show, showcasing Shirley’s ambitious spirit and warm hospitality. Burt, I know how incredibly special your partnership with Shirley was. You two created a beautiful life together, and it’s a testament to the love and commitment you shared. At Alan and Amy’s wedding, I sat next to Rabbi and Mrs. Zaitcheck. I’ll never forget when Nell turned to me and said, “Danny, it’s so important to be with someone in life. Don’t be alone.” Her words were intentional and struck a chord, as I was navigating life as a single gay man. Despite my own journey, I have always admired the love between you and Shirley. Life can be a rocky road, and it is surprisingly short. Witnessing the ups and downs of relationships here in Hollywood makes the authenticity of your bond even more remarkable and authentic. Shirley will be deeply missed—not just as a wife and mother, but as a cherished grandmother and an influential presence in the lives of everyone who knew her. Please keep me posted about any memorial service plans. I would love to honor her memory alongside all of you. Sending you all my love and heartfelt thoughts during this difficult time. Warmly, Danny Resnic 310-592-2720 dan.resnic2@gmail.com

So sorry Debbie and family. Sending love.

Shirley was a constant presence in our lives growing up and a dear friend to our parents. I remember her joyous smile, her love for her family and friends, her laugh and her goodness. She was a blessing to us and may her memory continue to be a blessing. RIP you are missed.

In memory of Shirley Resnic, Helen Kapner lit a candle

My memories of Mrs. Resnic go back to when I was in nursery school. She was such a joyful person and shared a great friendship with my Mom, Maureen. I'm sure they will meet up in heaven for a long awaited Majjohng game. Condolences to all. She will be greatly missed.

In fond remembrance, and with our deepest sympathy, from your friends and classmates Long Branch High School, Class of 1955.

Shirley Will be missed Profoundly she never leave my memories . Our Relationship was of45years We Laughed,cried,and disagree But we still love one another She was like Family to me.I had the opportunity to Celebrate many Passover's with her and her Family. Rest in Peace My Dear Friend Love your Hairdresser. Rosalie

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