Harry J. Boudreau, 55, of Lincroft passed away Monday morning, March, 16, 2020 surrounded by his loving family. Harry was born in Staten Island to Harry Sr. and Barbara Sindle Boudreau. He attended McGee high school where he discovered his passion for electrical work. Harry was an electrician and proud member of IBEW Local 3. …
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Harry J. Boudreau, 55, of Lincroft passed away Monday morning, March, 16, 2020 surrounded by his loving family.
Harry was born in Staten Island to Harry Sr. and Barbara Sindle Boudreau. He attended McGee high school where he discovered his passion for electrical work.
Harry was an electrician and proud member of IBEW Local 3. Harry loved woodworking and it was evident throughout his home. He loved slot cars and many family trips to Disney World. Harry was a proud volunteer for the hurricane Sandy recovery effort and the Snug Harbor September 11th Memorial site in Staten Island. He was a member of St. Leo the Great R.C. Church in Lincroft.
Harry is survived by his loving wife, Gloria Valderrama-Boudreau; daughter, Gillian Rose; parents, Harry Sr and Barbara; brother, Mark and wife, Toniann Boudreau; sister, Marcel and husband, John Sanders; in-laws, Ronald Valderrama and Catherine Hornlein; beloved brother-in-law to Christine & Peter Nardozi and Linda & Ray Evarts; loving nieces and nephews; his adoring aunts, uncles and cousins as well as best friends; the Palfinis, Moores, Perrellas, Mastroiannis and all of his electrical brothers.
The family would like to recognize the care and compassion from Dr. Raghu Kunamneni, palliative care oncologist; staff at Memorial Sloan Kettering oncology department; IBEW Local 3 business agent, Joseph Santigate of IBEW Local 3 and the Staten Island Club. A special thank you to Wendy Negron, Jeff Moore and Jackie Douglas for their care and support throughout Harry’s illness.
A visitation will be held on Friday, March 20th from 12:00 to 2:00 PM and 5:00 to 7:00 PM at the Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 South Holmdel Road, Holmdel. The funeral service and entombment will be private. A Memorial Mass will be offered at a later date once the current pandemic condition has ceased.
In lieu of sending traditional remembrances, please consider a donation in his memory to “Gillian’s college fund” https://www.gofundme.com/f/harry039s-heroic-battle-with-adenocarcinoma
Linda Valderrama
left a message on March 16, 2023:
Today marks 3 years since you left us . We think of you love you and miss you . Not a day goes by without your name being brought up . You are always in our thoughts and prayers love you and miss you brother in law
Linda valderrama
left a message on March 21, 2020:
Harry you came into our lives almost 28 years ago as my sisters boyfriend and since then have become so much more . You’re my brother and this void in our family can never be filled. Our family chain has been broken but one day will be reassembled and stronger when we can be with you again .
You will forever be in our hearts , thoughts and prayers. We love you
Linda Valderrama
Alfie
left a message on March 20, 2020:
Hon I’m so sorry for your loss you and your family will forever be in my prayers. There are no other words to ease your pain if you need a shoulder you can always count on me
Tricia Phulchand
left a message on March 20, 2020:
A candle was lit by Tricia Phulchand on 2020/03/20
Cindy Oliveri
left a message on March 20, 2020:
Dear Gloria,
My deepest sympathies, prayers and love go out to you and Gillian - I have no words that can ease the pain of losing a part of yourselves, but whatever I can do to help or comfort I am here for both of you. All my love.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Tricia Phulchand
left a message on March 20, 2020:
Dear Gloria and Gillian
My heart breaks for you and all that you are going through at this time. May the warm and happy memories that you share console you over the next days, weeks and months.
Tricia
Middletown High School South
left a message on March 20, 2020:
Please know even though we can not support you in person during this time, you are in our thoughts. Praying for your strength during this time of sadness.
Deepest Sympathy,
Middletown South Staff
Joe Mc Spedon
left a message on March 20, 2020:
My condolences to the Boudreau Family . Harry was a respected and revered member of our Union . His work ethic and likeable personality were a joy to behold ! Virginia and I will always remember your Family and Harry in our prayers . Respectfully, Joe and Virginia Mc Spedon
James Conway
left a message on March 19, 2020:
Dear Gloria. My deepest sympathies on your loss. Jim
Melinda
left a message on March 19, 2020:
Gloria, I’m so so sorry for your loss! As part of your work family, I am keeping you in my thoughts and Gillian, as well.
Vincent Valinotti
left a message on March 19, 2020:
Harry was a great co-worker and friend. You could always rely on him for support and a laugh. I will miss carpooling and working alongside him. He was a professional and most of all a great friend. He will be missed.
Julie Tkachenko
left a message on March 19, 2020:
Dear Gloria and your family,
Our deepest condolences and love during these tough times...
Harry will be missed...
stephanie stith
left a message on March 18, 2020:
When i met Gloria she invited me into her home to meet Harry and Jillian they made me feel like family. Harry would joke and treat me like he knew me for years instead of months. He was a special man and my heart weeps for his girls as he would say. So if you need anything please feek free to call me. Love and my deepest sympathy to you and your families
Teresa Rampulla
left a message on March 18, 2020:
Harry was a wonderful man, and a proud husband and father. He always looked out for his family as well as the well being of his family's friends. He will be truly missed. Our prayers go out to you and Gillian at this time.
Love Teresa, David and Isobel Rose
Ed Konczynski
left a message on March 18, 2020:
Harry,
Although I have not know you a lifetime I have known you enough to share some good times, good laughs and good Belgium beer. It is sad that you have been taken from us so young. Your memory will not be forgotten and hopefully we will meet again. Rest In Peace
Thomas Acri
left a message on March 18, 2020:
Very sorry , Harry will be missed.
Rina Rabinowitz
left a message on March 18, 2020:
A candle was lit by Rina Rabinowitz on 2020/03/18
Chantal Mastroianni
left a message on March 18, 2020:
A candle was lit by Chantal Mastroianni on 2020/03/18
Keith intagliata
left a message on March 17, 2020:
You were a great man Harry. I’m gonna miss you. You were a great friend, a great worker and an all around amazing person.
I could see the love you had for your family and in the conversations I’ve heard you have with you daughter. The world is a little less bright without you in it. It’s just unfair that you were taken so soon.
I hope to see you again someday my friend. Rest In Peace now.
LAWRENCE M PALFINI
left a message on March 17, 2020:
To my best friend Harry:
We have known each other since birth and shared a lifetime of great experiences and cherished memories.
You were an incredible person who I could always count on when I needed help!
We were each other's best men at our weddings and both have been fortunate to marry the loves of our lives and live out our dreams with loving families.
You were a wonderful husband to Gloria and great father to Jillian.
My heart broke as I saw you so valiantly battle this horrible cancer, you were incredibly brave, strong and ever so optimistic.
I will miss you my dear friend and you will be forever in my thoughts and always near to my heart!
Your dear friend - Larry
The dynamic duo forever!
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Gabrielle Pinzon Perrella
left a message on March 17, 2020:
Gillian and Gloria,
I will always remember meeting Harry for the first time at a Pump It Up party that you, Gillian, and my girls were invited to attend. I remember him saying that you, Gloria, had told him you had met me at the SLG. Harry was a great person. His dry sense of humor really made me laugh and you could tell he loved it when his jokes went over really well. Harry was so kind and helpful to us. I’ll never forget him helping us while we were building our house, walking through the walls and inspecting all the electrical work. Every time I look at our kitchen lights or the chandelier, I will remember seeing him working on them, scolding Stephen for getting an outside guy to do the work instead of calling him. Harry was so good to us. He always looked out for Victoria and Genevieve. And he always had a special way with little Stephen. He was a great friend to Stephen, who so thoroughly enjoyed his company and conversations over a favorite new beer. We’ve shared so many good memories together - at family gatherings & holidays, special outings like the Renaissance fair, and even just going out for simple meals. I will always cherish every one of these moments. May he Rest In God’s Eternal Peace. And please know he will live on in all our hearts.
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Linda Valderrama
left a message on March 16, 2023:
Today marks 3 years since you left us . We think of you love you and miss you . Not a day goes by without your name being brought up . You are always in our thoughts and prayers love you and miss you brother in law
Linda valderrama
left a message on March 21, 2020:
Harry you came into our lives almost 28 years ago as my sisters boyfriend and since then have become so much more . You’re my brother and this void in our family can never be filled. Our family chain has been broken but one day will be reassembled and stronger when we can be with you again .
You will forever be in our hearts , thoughts and prayers. We love you
Linda Valderrama
Alfie
left a message on March 20, 2020:
Hon I’m so sorry for your loss you and your family will forever be in my prayers. There are no other words to ease your pain if you need a shoulder you can always count on me
Tricia Phulchand
left a message on March 20, 2020:
A candle was lit by Tricia Phulchand on 2020/03/20
Cindy Oliveri
left a message on March 20, 2020:
Dear Gloria,
My deepest sympathies, prayers and love go out to you and Gillian - I have no words that can ease the pain of losing a part of yourselves, but whatever I can do to help or comfort I am here for both of you. All my love.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Tricia Phulchand
left a message on March 20, 2020:
Dear Gloria and Gillian
My heart breaks for you and all that you are going through at this time. May the warm and happy memories that you share console you over the next days, weeks and months.
Tricia
Middletown High School South
left a message on March 20, 2020:
Please know even though we can not support you in person during this time, you are in our thoughts. Praying for your strength during this time of sadness.
Deepest Sympathy,
Middletown South Staff
Joe Mc Spedon
left a message on March 20, 2020:
My condolences to the Boudreau Family . Harry was a respected and revered member of our Union . His work ethic and likeable personality were a joy to behold ! Virginia and I will always remember your Family and Harry in our prayers . Respectfully, Joe and Virginia Mc Spedon
James Conway
left a message on March 19, 2020:
Dear Gloria. My deepest sympathies on your loss. Jim
Melinda
left a message on March 19, 2020:
Gloria, I’m so so sorry for your loss! As part of your work family, I am keeping you in my thoughts and Gillian, as well.
Vincent Valinotti
left a message on March 19, 2020:
Harry was a great co-worker and friend. You could always rely on him for support and a laugh. I will miss carpooling and working alongside him. He was a professional and most of all a great friend. He will be missed.
Julie Tkachenko
left a message on March 19, 2020:
Dear Gloria and your family,
Our deepest condolences and love during these tough times...
Harry will be missed...
stephanie stith
left a message on March 18, 2020:
When i met Gloria she invited me into her home to meet Harry and Jillian they made me feel like family. Harry would joke and treat me like he knew me for years instead of months. He was a special man and my heart weeps for his girls as he would say. So if you need anything please feek free to call me. Love and my deepest sympathy to you and your families
Teresa Rampulla
left a message on March 18, 2020:
Harry was a wonderful man, and a proud husband and father. He always looked out for his family as well as the well being of his family's friends. He will be truly missed. Our prayers go out to you and Gillian at this time.
Love Teresa, David and Isobel Rose
Ed Konczynski
left a message on March 18, 2020:
Harry,
Although I have not know you a lifetime I have known you enough to share some good times, good laughs and good Belgium beer. It is sad that you have been taken from us so young. Your memory will not be forgotten and hopefully we will meet again. Rest In Peace
Thomas Acri
left a message on March 18, 2020:
Very sorry , Harry will be missed.
Rina Rabinowitz
left a message on March 18, 2020:
A candle was lit by Rina Rabinowitz on 2020/03/18
Chantal Mastroianni
left a message on March 18, 2020:
A candle was lit by Chantal Mastroianni on 2020/03/18
Keith intagliata
left a message on March 17, 2020:
You were a great man Harry. I’m gonna miss you. You were a great friend, a great worker and an all around amazing person.
I could see the love you had for your family and in the conversations I’ve heard you have with you daughter. The world is a little less bright without you in it. It’s just unfair that you were taken so soon.
I hope to see you again someday my friend. Rest In Peace now.
LAWRENCE M PALFINI
left a message on March 17, 2020:
To my best friend Harry:
We have known each other since birth and shared a lifetime of great experiences and cherished memories.
You were an incredible person who I could always count on when I needed help!
We were each other's best men at our weddings and both have been fortunate to marry the loves of our lives and live out our dreams with loving families.
You were a wonderful husband to Gloria and great father to Jillian.
My heart broke as I saw you so valiantly battle this horrible cancer, you were incredibly brave, strong and ever so optimistic.
I will miss you my dear friend and you will be forever in my thoughts and always near to my heart!
Your dear friend - Larry
The dynamic duo forever!
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Gabrielle Pinzon Perrella
left a message on March 17, 2020:
Gillian and Gloria,
I will always remember meeting Harry for the first time at a Pump It Up party that you, Gillian, and my girls were invited to attend. I remember him saying that you, Gloria, had told him you had met me at the SLG. Harry was a great person. His dry sense of humor really made me laugh and you could tell he loved it when his jokes went over really well. Harry was so kind and helpful to us. I’ll never forget him helping us while we were building our house, walking through the walls and inspecting all the electrical work. Every time I look at our kitchen lights or the chandelier, I will remember seeing him working on them, scolding Stephen for getting an outside guy to do the work instead of calling him. Harry was so good to us. He always looked out for Victoria and Genevieve. And he always had a special way with little Stephen. He was a great friend to Stephen, who so thoroughly enjoyed his company and conversations over a favorite new beer. We’ve shared so many good memories together - at family gatherings & holidays, special outings like the Renaissance fair, and even just going out for simple meals. I will always cherish every one of these moments. May he Rest In God’s Eternal Peace. And please know he will live on in all our hearts.
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