Joseph passed suddenly Thursday morning at the age of 20. Joseph is a beloved son of Joseph and Roxanne Vitarelli and is loved dearly by his sister, Victoria, and brothers, Frank and Vincent. Joseph was treasured by his uncles and aunts, along with his many cousins. He was predeceased by his maternal grandparents, Frank and …
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Joseph passed suddenly Thursday morning at the age of 20. Joseph is a beloved son of Joseph and Roxanne Vitarelli and is loved dearly by his sister, Victoria, and brothers, Frank and Vincent. Joseph was treasured by his uncles and aunts, along with his many cousins. He was predeceased by his maternal grandparents, Frank and Maria Barbarino. He is survived by his paternal grandparents, Frank and MaeAnn Vitarelli. Joseph was a proud graduate of Colts Neck High School Class of 2013 and was continuing his education at Colts Neck High School while working at the Colts Neck Primary School's preschool program, where he began his education. He was loved by his amazing teachers, aids, and the students who knew him. Joseph enjoyed school, was an avid sports fan, and participated in Challenger Youth Sports, currently, known as RallyCAP Sports. He enjoyed playing softball, basketball, and football, and watching his New York Jets on Sundays. Joseph's smile always lit up a room and he will forever be missed. Everyone who was blessed to know Joseph loved him dearly. At the family's request, in lieu of flowers, please make donations to RallyCAP Sports. Donations can be made online at www.rallycapsports.org. Visitation will be on Sunday from 3 to 7PM at St. Mary's R.C. Church, 1 Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, where a Funeral Mass will be offered on Monday morning at 10:30AM.
JP Powers
left a message on November 3, 2015:
Joey was an amazing, funny, and energetic character. When I was with him during the past five years, I laughed and had fun with Joey. His contagious smile always lit up a room and brighten everyone's day. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Vitarelli family who is deeply sadden for their loss. He will be truly missed. May God be with him. R.I.P. Joey 1994-2014
Nicole Sousa
left a message on October 29, 2015:
Joe was a good friend. I met him freshman year of high school. He loved to dance and sing in science class freshman year when Mr. Hoffman our science teacher at the time put on some music. He always had a smile on his face and was a sweet boy. We will miss you Joe. Rest in peace.
VanHoolandt/Carter Family
left a message on October 28, 2015:
Words cannot express how saddened we are at the loss of your son. May you find comfort in the love you have shown your child and the love that you receive from others. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Kyle McLaughlin
left a message on October 27, 2015:
Joseph was a truly special young man who would brighten your day. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Brianna Binkowski
left a message on October 27, 2015:
Dear Mr and Mrs. Vitarelli, Victoria, Frank and Vincent, Joe was a bright, caring, joyful, young, and kind young man. His smile always lit up the room when he walked into class. He always knew how to keep everyone smiling in the sweetest and funniest way. He was always helpful, caring, and energetic. I was happy that I was able to come today and pay my respects to Joe for you and your family. He will be dearly missed. He will never be forgotten by those who knew and loved him. I know I won't forget him. he was my dearest friend. Joe, you were a great, kind, intelligent and care-giving friend. May the lord be with you Joe. May you Rest In Peace.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
carolyn sabella
left a message on October 26, 2015:
I will miss Joe's smiling face and beautiful eyes. My heart goes out to his family. Carolyn Sabella/CNHS Café.
Dawn Ferro
left a message on October 26, 2015:
Joe's laughter will forever be part of my soul and his smile always in my mind. It was an honor to have Joe in my classroom and the talent show. The impact he had on everyone he encountered is immeasurable. He truly was a ray of sunshine and will continue to be in the lives of all of us.
Justin's Barbershop
left a message on October 26, 2015:
We were all very sad to hear about Joe. We will all miss his smile and great sense of humor in the barbershop. Your friends at Justin's
Liz Dritsas
left a message on October 26, 2015:
I was very saddened to hear of Joseph's untimely passing. He will always be remembered for his piercing blue eyes and his infectious smile...may you find peace in time and keep Gods grace in your family. Liz Paul Alec Zach and Mariel Dritsas.
Andrea and Nancy Biddle
left a message on October 26, 2015:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Joe was one of the first kids that Andrea met Freshman year and I myself having the pleasure of knowing Joe I can truly say that he warmed my heart, he was a great kid. May you find peace during this most difficult time
Bob Jack
left a message on October 26, 2015:
Joe brought sunshine and a smile to everyone that he had touched. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Coach Jack
Geri Bernardini
left a message on October 26, 2015:
My condolences to Joe's family. We all will miss him. Joe and I often spoke about your family trips and what we ate at DeNino's. My prays are with your family.
Devan Conover
left a message on October 26, 2015:
I will miss seeing Joe every morning in the Main office @ CNHS. He used to always tell me how cool it was that I was Mrs. Bozsko's sister. I'm so proud my slogan "Smiles for Joe" is being said by so many. I'm going to miss his smile. My thoughts & prayers are with the entire family.
Megan Boszko
left a message on October 25, 2015:
My heart is broken. Joe lit up my classroom and my life with his contagious smile, vibrant laugh and piercing blue eyes. CNHS was truly blessed to have Joe as an integral part of our family. My sincere sympathies to Mr. & Mrs. Vitarelli and the entire Vitarelli family. "SMILES FOR JOE!"
Daniel D. Simon, Sr.
left a message on October 25, 2015:
Joe lit up a room everywhere he went with his infectious smile and positive attitude. He was the biggest fan of the Cougars there ever was and his spirit will live on through the students and staff who were blessed to have known him. I will miss his fist bumps and his contagious energy, but his memory will live on. "Smiles for Joe" will always serve as a reminder that true happiness is found when we seek to put the needs of others before our own. God rest your soul Joe. We will miss you, but we will see you again someday.
Margie and Rob Wold
left a message on October 25, 2015:
Our deepest condolences to the Vitarellii family. Joe was a sweet, caring, beautiful young man. May his memory be a blessing.
The Tsakiiris Family
left a message on October 25, 2015:
Sorry for your loss. Joe was such a joy to know. Ryan really enjoyed being his friend. He will be greatly missed.
Barbara Anderson
left a message on October 25, 2015:
My heart broke when I got the news about Joe. He was such a sweet boy and grew into such a handsome young man. I had Joe on my school bus with his sister and two brothers and grew very fond of Joe. His smile would just make my day and his beautiful blue eyes could calm just about anyone. My sympathy is with his entire family. I will keep them in my thoughts and prayers as they go through this very difficult time. May Joe rest in peace in God's arms now. He will never be forgotten.
greg lancelot
left a message on October 25, 2015:
hey joe sorry that you died in your sleep hows it joeing. well i will remember you buddy
The Glennon Family
left a message on October 25, 2015:
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our deepest condolences go out to you. We will always remember how much Joe enjoyed performing at the talent shows. His infectious smile and enthusiasm for performing always brought a smile to our faces and made him a remarkable performer. God bless Joe and your entire family.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
greg lancelot
left a message on October 25, 2015:
Joe was also a good friend of ours and he always tell Mr.Z, Ryan and my self "hows it joeing." so rest in peice to our friends and give him hi fives and special handshakes.
JP Powers
left a message on October 23, 2015:
One year ago today, we lost a beautiful angel from Colts Neck High School. Joey, I wanted to tell you that you were enthusiastic and nice young man. I also wanted to tell you that your New York Mets are in the World Series! If you were alive, you would have been really excited to watch them play there. I miss you so much and I have been thinking about you every single day. Rest easy buddy! Your friend, JP LET'S GO METS!!!!
Jackie Clarke
left a message on April 17, 2014:
Joey, I know you have been with me lately. I am so happy you came to visit me in my dream the other night. I think about you often and I know you're watching over me, along with your family, and the many, many other people that love you. You have a huge part of my heart. I'm lucky to call you a friend. I will see you again. Love, Jackie
Judy Fischer
left a message on February 8, 2014:
Never a day goes by that I don't miss you Joseph. You will always have a special place in my heart and my love for you will never waiver. Your family means the world to me and I will always think of your beautiful face and your amazing humor and quick wit. I know you were one of the very first to know of my move to Florida and you and I spoke about it before I left. You are in my heart, my mind and I will always keep your spirit with me. Always Ms. Jude
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Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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JP Powers
left a message on November 3, 2015:
Joey was an amazing, funny, and energetic character. When I was with him during the past five years, I laughed and had fun with Joey. His contagious smile always lit up a room and brighten everyone's day. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Vitarelli family who is deeply sadden for their loss. He will be truly missed. May God be with him. R.I.P. Joey 1994-2014
Nicole Sousa
left a message on October 29, 2015:
Joe was a good friend. I met him freshman year of high school. He loved to dance and sing in science class freshman year when Mr. Hoffman our science teacher at the time put on some music. He always had a smile on his face and was a sweet boy. We will miss you Joe. Rest in peace.
VanHoolandt/Carter Family
left a message on October 28, 2015:
Words cannot express how saddened we are at the loss of your son. May you find comfort in the love you have shown your child and the love that you receive from others. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Kyle McLaughlin
left a message on October 27, 2015:
Joseph was a truly special young man who would brighten your day. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Brianna Binkowski
left a message on October 27, 2015:
Dear Mr and Mrs. Vitarelli, Victoria, Frank and Vincent, Joe was a bright, caring, joyful, young, and kind young man. His smile always lit up the room when he walked into class. He always knew how to keep everyone smiling in the sweetest and funniest way. He was always helpful, caring, and energetic. I was happy that I was able to come today and pay my respects to Joe for you and your family. He will be dearly missed. He will never be forgotten by those who knew and loved him. I know I won't forget him. he was my dearest friend. Joe, you were a great, kind, intelligent and care-giving friend. May the lord be with you Joe. May you Rest In Peace.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
carolyn sabella
left a message on October 26, 2015:
I will miss Joe's smiling face and beautiful eyes. My heart goes out to his family. Carolyn Sabella/CNHS Café.
Dawn Ferro
left a message on October 26, 2015:
Joe's laughter will forever be part of my soul and his smile always in my mind. It was an honor to have Joe in my classroom and the talent show. The impact he had on everyone he encountered is immeasurable. He truly was a ray of sunshine and will continue to be in the lives of all of us.
Justin's Barbershop
left a message on October 26, 2015:
We were all very sad to hear about Joe. We will all miss his smile and great sense of humor in the barbershop. Your friends at Justin's
Liz Dritsas
left a message on October 26, 2015:
I was very saddened to hear of Joseph's untimely passing. He will always be remembered for his piercing blue eyes and his infectious smile...may you find peace in time and keep Gods grace in your family. Liz Paul Alec Zach and Mariel Dritsas.
Andrea and Nancy Biddle
left a message on October 26, 2015:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Joe was one of the first kids that Andrea met Freshman year and I myself having the pleasure of knowing Joe I can truly say that he warmed my heart, he was a great kid. May you find peace during this most difficult time
Bob Jack
left a message on October 26, 2015:
Joe brought sunshine and a smile to everyone that he had touched. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Coach Jack
Geri Bernardini
left a message on October 26, 2015:
My condolences to Joe's family. We all will miss him. Joe and I often spoke about your family trips and what we ate at DeNino's. My prays are with your family.
Devan Conover
left a message on October 26, 2015:
I will miss seeing Joe every morning in the Main office @ CNHS. He used to always tell me how cool it was that I was Mrs. Bozsko's sister. I'm so proud my slogan "Smiles for Joe" is being said by so many. I'm going to miss his smile. My thoughts & prayers are with the entire family.
Megan Boszko
left a message on October 25, 2015:
My heart is broken. Joe lit up my classroom and my life with his contagious smile, vibrant laugh and piercing blue eyes. CNHS was truly blessed to have Joe as an integral part of our family. My sincere sympathies to Mr. & Mrs. Vitarelli and the entire Vitarelli family. "SMILES FOR JOE!"
Daniel D. Simon, Sr.
left a message on October 25, 2015:
Joe lit up a room everywhere he went with his infectious smile and positive attitude. He was the biggest fan of the Cougars there ever was and his spirit will live on through the students and staff who were blessed to have known him. I will miss his fist bumps and his contagious energy, but his memory will live on. "Smiles for Joe" will always serve as a reminder that true happiness is found when we seek to put the needs of others before our own. God rest your soul Joe. We will miss you, but we will see you again someday.
Margie and Rob Wold
left a message on October 25, 2015:
Our deepest condolences to the Vitarellii family. Joe was a sweet, caring, beautiful young man. May his memory be a blessing.
The Tsakiiris Family
left a message on October 25, 2015:
Sorry for your loss. Joe was such a joy to know. Ryan really enjoyed being his friend. He will be greatly missed.
Barbara Anderson
left a message on October 25, 2015:
My heart broke when I got the news about Joe. He was such a sweet boy and grew into such a handsome young man. I had Joe on my school bus with his sister and two brothers and grew very fond of Joe. His smile would just make my day and his beautiful blue eyes could calm just about anyone. My sympathy is with his entire family. I will keep them in my thoughts and prayers as they go through this very difficult time. May Joe rest in peace in God's arms now. He will never be forgotten.
greg lancelot
left a message on October 25, 2015:
hey joe sorry that you died in your sleep hows it joeing. well i will remember you buddy
The Glennon Family
left a message on October 25, 2015:
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our deepest condolences go out to you. We will always remember how much Joe enjoyed performing at the talent shows. His infectious smile and enthusiasm for performing always brought a smile to our faces and made him a remarkable performer. God bless Joe and your entire family.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
greg lancelot
left a message on October 25, 2015:
Joe was also a good friend of ours and he always tell Mr.Z, Ryan and my self "hows it joeing." so rest in peice to our friends and give him hi fives and special handshakes.
JP Powers
left a message on October 23, 2015:
One year ago today, we lost a beautiful angel from Colts Neck High School. Joey, I wanted to tell you that you were enthusiastic and nice young man. I also wanted to tell you that your New York Mets are in the World Series! If you were alive, you would have been really excited to watch them play there. I miss you so much and I have been thinking about you every single day. Rest easy buddy! Your friend, JP LET'S GO METS!!!!
Jackie Clarke
left a message on April 17, 2014:
Joey, I know you have been with me lately. I am so happy you came to visit me in my dream the other night. I think about you often and I know you're watching over me, along with your family, and the many, many other people that love you. You have a huge part of my heart. I'm lucky to call you a friend. I will see you again. Love, Jackie
Judy Fischer
left a message on February 8, 2014:
Never a day goes by that I don't miss you Joseph. You will always have a special place in my heart and my love for you will never waiver. Your family means the world to me and I will always think of your beautiful face and your amazing humor and quick wit. I know you were one of the very first to know of my move to Florida and you and I spoke about it before I left. You are in my heart, my mind and I will always keep your spirit with me. Always Ms. Jude
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Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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