Lawrence “Larry” J. Duffy, 60, of Colts Neck, passed away peacefully Friday, May 19th. He was surrounded by family, friends, and music by the Beatles. Born in Brick, Larry was raised in Colts Neck. He attended Colts Neck Grammar School and graduated high school at Christian Brothers Academy and earned his bachelor’s degree from Monmouth …
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Lawrence “Larry” J. Duffy, 60, of Colts Neck, passed away peacefully Friday, May 19th. He was surrounded by family, friends, and music by the Beatles.
Born in Brick, Larry was raised in Colts Neck. He attended Colts Neck Grammar School and graduated high school at Christian Brothers Academy and earned his bachelor’s degree from Monmouth University. For over 30 years he worked for Merrill Lynch, now Bank of America, ending his career as a Project Manager in Retirement Systems.
Community oriented, Larry was a distinguished volunteer and former chair of the Colts Neck Fair Committee and treasurer of the Colts Neck Volunteer Fire Department in 2022.
Larry was an avid photographer. He enjoyed photographing his family (dogs included), special events for friends, and the scenery during family vacations. He and his family traveled three times to Ireland, where Larry liked driving the countryside. He was a member of the bands Bad Neighbors and Ben Barks, often playing at the Colts Neck Inn. Larry created gourmet meals with his family, no recipes, by taste and smell and every night watched Jeopardy.
Larry is predeceased by his father, John in 2012; his brother Michael and sister Susan Duffy Schatzle both in 2015.
Surviving is his wife of 31 years, Karen; his son Christopher; his mother Agnes; his in-laws Charles and Joan Willever; and his brother- and sisters-in-law: Jim Schatzle, MaryAnn Duffy, Anne Ehrhart, and John Ehrhart.
Visitation Wednesday, May 24th 2:00 – 4:00 pm & 7:00-9:00 pm at the Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 South Holmdel Road, Holmdel, NJ 07733. Mass of Christian burial Thursday, May 25 th 10:00 am at St. Mary’s RC Church, 1 Phalanx Road, Colts Neck. In lieu of traditional remembrances, donations may be made in Larry’s memory to Colts Neck Fire Department; cnfd.org. For messages of condolence, please visit Larry’s page of tributes at www.holmdelfuneralhome.com.
Don Romanek
left a message on June 2, 2023:
I am so sorry to hear about Larry. He was a true friend and mentor who I think of often. He will certainly be missed and remembered. God bless.
Leosinda Lebron
left a message on May 30, 2023:
My good friend Larry. Thank you for helping in times when i got stuck at work. You were always willing to help. You will be missed.
Marge Mathies
left a message on May 26, 2023:
My sincerest condolences.
Ramona Larsen
left a message on May 25, 2023:
Karen, so very sorry for yours and the family’s loss. May fond memories help you cope at this sad time.
Gwen Spence
left a message on May 25, 2023:
I was deeply saddened to hear of your recent loss. Please know that I am here for you during this difficult time. Losing someone we love is never easy, but please take comfort in knowing that you are surrounded by people who care about you and want to support you... Gwen
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Giorgio
left a message on May 24, 2023:
Our deepest condolences from all of us at Solo Trattoria. May rest in peace.
Michael and Lisa Baldizzi
left a message on May 24, 2023:
Karen, we are so sorry for your loss.
We remember working with you and Larry at ML many years ago. I remember his love for music, especially drumming, as was evident by some pictures he had in his cube. Such a good guy! I did have the pleasure of running into Larry again a few times years later at ML.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of Larry's family.
Michael (Jack) and Lisa Baldizzi
Kenny
left a message on May 24, 2023:
God bless Larry and keep him in His arms. What a guy: Father, Husband, drummer, comedian, IT Manager, photographer and FRIEND to all of us who worked with him and had the amazing pleasure of sharing his talents outside of the office. I have amazing memories of Larry and he was always a ray of hilarity and good times amongst the pressures of the day. And who can forget the Pumpkin Beer Chili! We are all so lucky to have laughed and learned with him.
Thank You Larry.. God has an awesome soldier to keep your family in His sight.
Rest in Peace Friend
Eduardo Plata
left a message on May 24, 2023:
Karen,
I am so sorry to hear about Larry. I know how difficult is for you and your family. Please know I am here if you need anything. Thinking about you guys.
Eduardo Plata
Sandy Freeman
left a message on May 24, 2023:
I'm so very sorry Karen and Christopher for your loss. Larry was such a wonderful guy. I have so many fond and down right hilarious memories of our CN Fair days...especially once the fair was closed for the night! I have known Larry since he shared a drum pad at Cedar Drive with my brother. He was a class act with a legacy few will surpass. I thank God for allowing me the times I did share with him. Rest in peace good anf faithful servant.
Holly Fritzky
left a message on May 24, 2023:
Larry’s tribute is just beautiful, like Larry, Karen, Christopher, Agnes and all the Duffys and Cassidys. I love you all, God bless you, and as Frankie would say, “ See you later.” Heaven becomes more lovely each day. God is always good 💕
Jeff Grossman- CBA Class 81"
left a message on May 24, 2023:
So sorry for your loss
Sue Dolan
left a message on May 23, 2023:
I was just talking about Larry the other day. When I was in high school, he took Susan and her friends to some fabulous concerts - Robert Plant, the Police, and so many more. Thank you for sharing your love of music with me. My condolences to his family. May he rest in peace.
Phyllis & Ken Hirsh
left a message on May 23, 2023:
We are so sorry to hear of Larry's passing. Although it's been many years since we've been together we remember him fondly. Condolences to the entire family.
Jen and Gerard Angolia
left a message on May 23, 2023:
So very sorry to hear of Larry’s passing. So many fun memories I have. He will be missed by many.
Sending you and your family our deepest condolences.
Jen and Gerard
KATHLEEN FULHAM
left a message on May 23, 2023:
We were so very sorry to hear the sad news of Larry's passing. Our condolences to Karen, Christopher, Anne, Mr. and Mrs. Willever, and all of the family and friends. Larry was always so nice and full of fun when we had the pleasure to be in his company. May he rest in peace. Modjy, Kathy, and Chase Agheli and the Fulham family.
Dee
left a message on May 23, 2023:
With deepest sympathy for your loss.
Jenni
left a message on May 23, 2023:
You will be truly missed ... Rest In Peace, Larry
Carolyn Kane
left a message on May 22, 2023:
I was so extremely sad to hear the news on Friday. My deepest condolences to Karen and Christopher at this very sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with you
Kathy and Bud Thatcher
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Our deepest sympathy to the family for your loss. My heart hurts for you Karen, I remember seeing you both out walking your beautiful greyhounds on Ernest Way , always together in step. The block parties where Larry took such beautiful pictures. He captured such a great picture of our dog Snugger that we framed it. Larry was always personable and kind. You and Christopher are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you.
Kathy and Bud
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Dan Douglas '81
left a message on May 22, 2023:
My deepest condolences for your loss.
Frank & Lisa Gargione
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Larry was one-of-a-kind. Warm, funny, talented, always welcoming and generous. He will truly be missed. Deepest condolences to Karen, Chris, family & friends.
Lisa and Brent Holup
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Karen and Family, We are so sorry to hear of Larry's passing. We have such fond memories of us being neighbors, then friends, and seeing him play in the band. My fondest memory is of Larry preparing the appetizers for our Ladies Nights. Our deepest condolences.
Anita Dedalis
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Your life was far too short, but it made a big impact on the world. My fondest memory is you as my Co-chair of the CN Fair, you playing the drums before anyone was on the grounds, you and Chris' entries in the Apple Pie contest, the way you celebrated the end of a successful fair with cocktails and a cigar. Here's to you friend, sweet travels.
Brian Deeds
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Lighting a candle in your memory - may you rest in eternal peace.
Joanne Conrad
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Lighting a candle in your memory.
Yelena lerman
left a message on May 22, 2023:
In memory of Lawrence "Larry" J. Duffy, Yelena lerman lit a candle
Abbey Lyn Feiler
left a message on May 21, 2023:
In memory of Lawrence "Larry" J. Duffy, Abbey Lyn Feiler lit a candle
Karen Breitman
left a message on May 21, 2023:
So sorry for the loss of Larry, I will miss him, especially when we are at the CNI for a rock n roll night, 🥲, may God bless his soul and Give his family strength at this time RIP Lar 💔🙏🥁
Eric & Joyce Bradbury
left a message on May 21, 2023:
In memory of Lawrence "Larry" J. Duffy, Eric & Joyce Bradbury lit a candle
Catherine Love & Bob Endlicher
left a message on May 21, 2023:
Shine brightly my friend.
Raymond Shebell
left a message on May 21, 2023:
Rest in peace my brother
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Don Romanek
left a message on June 2, 2023:
I am so sorry to hear about Larry. He was a true friend and mentor who I think of often. He will certainly be missed and remembered. God bless.
Leosinda Lebron
left a message on May 30, 2023:
My good friend Larry. Thank you for helping in times when i got stuck at work. You were always willing to help. You will be missed.
Marge Mathies
left a message on May 26, 2023:
My sincerest condolences.
Ramona Larsen
left a message on May 25, 2023:
Karen, so very sorry for yours and the family’s loss. May fond memories help you cope at this sad time.
Gwen Spence
left a message on May 25, 2023:
I was deeply saddened to hear of your recent loss. Please know that I am here for you during this difficult time. Losing someone we love is never easy, but please take comfort in knowing that you are surrounded by people who care about you and want to support you... Gwen
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Giorgio
left a message on May 24, 2023:
Our deepest condolences from all of us at Solo Trattoria. May rest in peace.
Michael and Lisa Baldizzi
left a message on May 24, 2023:
Karen, we are so sorry for your loss.
We remember working with you and Larry at ML many years ago. I remember his love for music, especially drumming, as was evident by some pictures he had in his cube. Such a good guy! I did have the pleasure of running into Larry again a few times years later at ML.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of Larry's family.
Michael (Jack) and Lisa Baldizzi
Kenny
left a message on May 24, 2023:
God bless Larry and keep him in His arms. What a guy: Father, Husband, drummer, comedian, IT Manager, photographer and FRIEND to all of us who worked with him and had the amazing pleasure of sharing his talents outside of the office. I have amazing memories of Larry and he was always a ray of hilarity and good times amongst the pressures of the day. And who can forget the Pumpkin Beer Chili! We are all so lucky to have laughed and learned with him.
Thank You Larry.. God has an awesome soldier to keep your family in His sight.
Rest in Peace Friend
Eduardo Plata
left a message on May 24, 2023:
Karen,
I am so sorry to hear about Larry. I know how difficult is for you and your family. Please know I am here if you need anything. Thinking about you guys.
Eduardo Plata
Sandy Freeman
left a message on May 24, 2023:
I'm so very sorry Karen and Christopher for your loss. Larry was such a wonderful guy. I have so many fond and down right hilarious memories of our CN Fair days...especially once the fair was closed for the night! I have known Larry since he shared a drum pad at Cedar Drive with my brother. He was a class act with a legacy few will surpass. I thank God for allowing me the times I did share with him. Rest in peace good anf faithful servant.
Holly Fritzky
left a message on May 24, 2023:
Larry’s tribute is just beautiful, like Larry, Karen, Christopher, Agnes and all the Duffys and Cassidys. I love you all, God bless you, and as Frankie would say, “ See you later.” Heaven becomes more lovely each day. God is always good 💕
Jeff Grossman- CBA Class 81"
left a message on May 24, 2023:
So sorry for your loss
Sue Dolan
left a message on May 23, 2023:
I was just talking about Larry the other day. When I was in high school, he took Susan and her friends to some fabulous concerts - Robert Plant, the Police, and so many more. Thank you for sharing your love of music with me. My condolences to his family. May he rest in peace.
Phyllis & Ken Hirsh
left a message on May 23, 2023:
We are so sorry to hear of Larry's passing. Although it's been many years since we've been together we remember him fondly. Condolences to the entire family.
Jen and Gerard Angolia
left a message on May 23, 2023:
So very sorry to hear of Larry’s passing. So many fun memories I have. He will be missed by many.
Sending you and your family our deepest condolences.
Jen and Gerard
KATHLEEN FULHAM
left a message on May 23, 2023:
We were so very sorry to hear the sad news of Larry's passing. Our condolences to Karen, Christopher, Anne, Mr. and Mrs. Willever, and all of the family and friends. Larry was always so nice and full of fun when we had the pleasure to be in his company. May he rest in peace. Modjy, Kathy, and Chase Agheli and the Fulham family.
Dee
left a message on May 23, 2023:
With deepest sympathy for your loss.
Jenni
left a message on May 23, 2023:
You will be truly missed ... Rest In Peace, Larry
Carolyn Kane
left a message on May 22, 2023:
I was so extremely sad to hear the news on Friday. My deepest condolences to Karen and Christopher at this very sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with you
Kathy and Bud Thatcher
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Our deepest sympathy to the family for your loss. My heart hurts for you Karen, I remember seeing you both out walking your beautiful greyhounds on Ernest Way , always together in step. The block parties where Larry took such beautiful pictures. He captured such a great picture of our dog Snugger that we framed it. Larry was always personable and kind. You and Christopher are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you.
Kathy and Bud
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Dan Douglas '81
left a message on May 22, 2023:
My deepest condolences for your loss.
Frank & Lisa Gargione
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Larry was one-of-a-kind. Warm, funny, talented, always welcoming and generous. He will truly be missed. Deepest condolences to Karen, Chris, family & friends.
Lisa and Brent Holup
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Karen and Family, We are so sorry to hear of Larry's passing. We have such fond memories of us being neighbors, then friends, and seeing him play in the band. My fondest memory is of Larry preparing the appetizers for our Ladies Nights. Our deepest condolences.
Anita Dedalis
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Your life was far too short, but it made a big impact on the world. My fondest memory is you as my Co-chair of the CN Fair, you playing the drums before anyone was on the grounds, you and Chris' entries in the Apple Pie contest, the way you celebrated the end of a successful fair with cocktails and a cigar. Here's to you friend, sweet travels.
Brian Deeds
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Lighting a candle in your memory - may you rest in eternal peace.
Joanne Conrad
left a message on May 22, 2023:
Lighting a candle in your memory.
Yelena lerman
left a message on May 22, 2023:
In memory of Lawrence "Larry" J. Duffy, Yelena lerman lit a candle
Abbey Lyn Feiler
left a message on May 21, 2023:
In memory of Lawrence "Larry" J. Duffy, Abbey Lyn Feiler lit a candle
Karen Breitman
left a message on May 21, 2023:
So sorry for the loss of Larry, I will miss him, especially when we are at the CNI for a rock n roll night, 🥲, may God bless his soul and Give his family strength at this time RIP Lar 💔🙏🥁
Eric & Joyce Bradbury
left a message on May 21, 2023:
In memory of Lawrence "Larry" J. Duffy, Eric & Joyce Bradbury lit a candle
Catherine Love & Bob Endlicher
left a message on May 21, 2023:
Shine brightly my friend.
Raymond Shebell
left a message on May 21, 2023:
Rest in peace my brother
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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