On Thursday, June 6th Nicholas D. Berlingieri, 54 of Marlboro, New Jersey became an angel and went to be with his Lord after a long battle with brain cancer. He passed away at home surrounded by the love of his family and friends. Nicholas was born February 24th, 1965 in Brooklyn, New York to Nicola …
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On Thursday, June 6th Nicholas D. Berlingieri, 54 of Marlboro, New Jersey became an angel and went to be with his Lord after a long battle with brain cancer. He passed away at home surrounded by the love of his family and friends.
Nicholas was born February 24th, 1965 in Brooklyn, New York to Nicola and Anna Berlingieri. He grew up mainly on Staten Island, New York, along with his two sisters Joanne Berlingieri and Tina Clausen. He graduated Monsignor Farrell High School in 1983 and Saint Johns University in 1987. Nick married Joan, the love of his life, in October of 1999, and in June of 2003 they became the proud parents of their twins, Nicholas Joseph and Gabriella Marie, their beloved children.
Nick was a Senior Vice-President for Aon Risk Services, New York City. Nick spent over 25 years in the insurance industry and was loved and respected by all of his colleagues. While at Aon Nick was responsible for managing some of Aon’s largest relationships. Nick was known around the office for his big smile and boisterous laugh. He was a fierce negotiator and always put his clients first. Nick was also a great mentor to many junior colleagues at Aon and was a true role model. Nick’s legacy will live on at Aon through the colleagues who’s lives he touched.
Nick fought brain cancer for three years, through it all, he was the most kind, compassionate, loving person who had such a determination to live and always took the positive outlook on every situation. He fought so hard and believed he would beat this horrible disease with his great faith in God and his will to live for his wife and children, who he wanted to give the best life to.
Nick and his loving wife Joan went through his illness together, never leaving each other’s side and enjoyed every minute of their time together, building their tremendous love and strength off of each other.
Nick was a great family man and loved spending his time with his wife and children who he adored and would do anything for. He was an amazing father and husband and was loved beyond measure from them. He was a beloved son to his parents, and adored brother to his sisters, and loved by all his nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts, uncles and friends.
Nick loved all sports but especially baseball. Growing up he was an amazing baseball player and received many trophies and awards. He enjoyed attending his son’s baseball, basketball and football games and his daughter’s cheerleading and dance competitions and was so very proud of his children and their many talents and accomplishments. He was their biggest fan and always encouraged them to do their best. Nick also volunteered a lot of his time at Marlboro Little League and coached his son’s baseball team for many years. As the coach Nick encouraged all the kids to enjoy the game, be good sportsmen, respect all, and most of all have fun. His positive spirit was an example for all who knew him. He truly loved watching and encouraging all the boys on his team and wanted them all to succeed. He was an avid fan of the New York Mets, the Jets and the New York Rangers.
Nick was also a very faithful and spiritual man. Nick and Joan believed that God brought them together and that they were always meant to be together. Nick was a parishioner of St. Leo the Great RC Church, Lincroft. He attended church regularly and believed God was always with him on his journey.
Nick was an angel on earth and now he is an angel in heaven watching over his loving wife of 19 years, Joan Marie Berlingieri; their adored children, Nicholas Joseph Berlingieri and Gabriella Marie Berlingieri; his mom and dad, Anna and Nicola Berlingieri; his sisters, Joanne Berlingieri and Tina Clausen; his two godchildren Arianna and Zachary as well as his nieces, nephews, many loving cousins and Aunts and Uncles.
Visitation Wednesday June 12th, 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 pm at the Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 South Holmdel Road, Holmdel, NJ. Mass of Christian burial, Thursday, June 13th, 9:00 am at St. Leo the Great RC Church, Hurleys Lane, Lincroft. Entombment to follow at St. Gabriel’s Mausoleum, Rt. 520, Marlboro. Donations in memory of Nick would be appreciated to the Nick Berlingieri Memorial Fund https://www.gofundme.com/f/nickbmemorialfund To share a favorite memory of Nick or send messages of condolence please visit his page of tributes at www.holmdelfuneralhome.com.
Vivian Duff
left a message on June 13, 2019:
I worked closely with Nick at Aon and am truly saddened by his passing. I retired 4 years ago but have spoken to Nick since he got ill. The world lost a great guy. My deepest sympathy to the whole family. I cannot imagine your grief, but know that Nick was loved and respected by colleagues and clients alike.
Jennifer Hurley
left a message on June 12, 2019:
Nick was caring, loving, encouraging, and most of all selfless. He had a way of brightening up a room. Many basketball games we sat together cheering on our sons as they played. Nick would be famous for yelling out a “way to be” !!!!!!
We would laugh so hard because by the end of the season we were all yelling out “Way to be”.
I will never forget last summer after traveling into NYC for a treatment Nick traveled back home to Marlboro to pick up our sons and travel back into NYC to take them to a Mets game. Although I’m sure he was drained and exhausted his response was I feel great. I can’t wait to go with the boys. To say he was a special person is an understatement. I have said it before and I’ll say it again my family and I are better people for knowing Nick and Joan. Nick we love u and know your in a better place now shining like you always did.
Way to be Nick! We love you.
The Hurleys
Raymond Jaeger
left a message on June 12, 2019:
I will always remember the travel games between Nick’s Marlboro Mustangs & the Old Bridge Lightning .
The games were always close and exciting till the very end but I remember most is how much I admired Nick for his calm demeanor and friendly smile & voice to not only to the boys he coached but to the opposing team and coaches .
Every year we planned a scrimmage prior to the season including our 2 regular season games and most often playoff games , I look forward to every one of them cause my friend was in the opposing dugout and if either of us advances we would root for the other in the following rounds . He was truly al man of great character & one of the finest human beings I was able to get to know . I will miss & pray for him though I know he will be in heaven looking upon his family because that was his true passion in life & loved by all that were fortunate to know him .
God Bless you Nick and thankful for our friendship. Ray Jaeger
Dana Walsh
left a message on June 12, 2019:
Every memory we have of Nick is him being a wonderful father, husband, and friend. We will forever remember Nick in so many positive ways... with a big smile, an offer of support, and a great sense of humor. Nick was such strong man who fought so bravely over these past three years. He will never truly be gone, for Nick has left such a loving presence in the hearts of Joanie, Gabriella and Nicholas, as well as all of his extended family and friend’s hearts. Please accept our deepest condolences. Nick was truly an incredible person, and his loss is felt deeply. Love The Walsh Family
Jackie Zachmann
left a message on June 12, 2019:
We met Nick at our children’s engagement and again at their wedding. We feel blessed to have known him and his wonderful family. He was so loved and admired by
Keri and Dom.... Dom was always so fond of him and both enjoyed spending time with all of them at their home.
It brings us such sadness knowing this incredible person is no longer with us, but we do know he will always live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.
Dom and Keri have been touched by you, Nick, and we know they will forever miss
you ...... and a part of your family they forever will be.
Jackie and Larry Zachmann
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Rose Colabelli
left a message on June 11, 2019:
Nick was The MOST generous, kindest, positive, genuine man you could ever meet. We were so fortunate to meet him & Joanie fourteen years ago. He was the person you always wanted to be around. Even during his hardest days he always asked how everyone else was. He stayed positive throughout his fight. We are going to miss his laugh, our dinners together, family celebrations but most of all his presence. He will forever live in our hearts. Forever friends.
Rest easy Nick We love you, Rose & Vinnie
Pam Nowicki
left a message on June 11, 2019:
My memories of Nick date back to the 80's Farrell victory parties. Nick was always a soft spoken, kind, perfect gentleman. Many years passed before our paths crossed again at Willis where Nick welcomed me to the team with his warm smile & we continued to work together, after moving to Aon, for 21 years. Nick was not only just colleague, he was a true friend to the end & a family member to all of us. Nick worked very hard & was loved by all his clients & everyone who met him. What Nick loved most was his family & he couldn't have been prouder of his children & more devoted to his wife. He & Joanie clearly loved each other like no other! Over the past few years, Nick & I would get together for lunch every few months to catch up. We talked about work but most of all, we shared stories about our children &'reminisced about the past. Our lunches were truly enjoyable & I will miss them tremendously!
Nick, Rest In Peace my friend. Until we meet again...xo
Pastor Lee Marshall & Evangelist Berneti Gillard-Marshall
left a message on June 11, 2019:
There is so much to say about this remarkable Humble man that I don't even know where to start. We fell in love with him, his beautiful wife and the kids the first day we met them. Our hearts are so heavy at this time. But God did not want our brother to suffer any longer so he brought him home. Nick is at peace now no more pain. I know we will see you one day, May you rest in peace.
Andrea Bianco
left a message on June 11, 2019:
Our hearts are so very heavy over the loss of Nick Berlingieri. We had the pleasure of meeting Nick through our son Dominick who began his career at AON right out of college. My son was lucky enough to work directly with Nick and be a part of his team. Nick took him under his wing and shared all his skills of being a great negotiator, to be determined, and never take No for an answer. He learned from the best. Dominick was blessed to have Nick in his life , not only as a great mentor, but as a most wonderful friend. What a roll model! We are forever greatful to Nick for all his love, kindness and expertise he showed our son. Meeting Nick in person along with his beautiful wife and children confirmed what a wonderful and charismatic person he truly was. Rest in peace Nick. You will never be forgotten. Our deepest sympathy to his family. Andrea and Don Bianco
Mimi & Mike
left a message on June 10, 2019:
Where can we start, we met Nick when our children were only 3 months old. We have been close friends ever since, Our most memorable times were back yard bbqs that literally lasted all night. Long talks and laughs for hours and hours. Walks around the development and watching our kids graduate, nursery school, kindergarten and 8th grade together. He was our first Jersey friend, and will remain in our hearts forever. We love you and miss you already
Mike & Mimi
Sophia Galiano
left a message on June 10, 2019:
A candle was lit by Sophia Galiano on 2019/06/10
Vinny Bamundo
left a message on June 10, 2019:
I first met Nick on the little league fields when we were coaching our boys. Each day I knew him he proved himself to be a kind, loving, giving family man. He battled his disease bravely and deserves eternal happiness at the right hand of the Lord. I will always remember his kind smiling face when I think of him.
The Bamundo Family.
Eileen
left a message on June 10, 2019:
My heart is heavy that such a great man is gone too soon. Nick was truly a great person to work with at both Willis & Aon. I enjoyed hearing about his family who he was so proud of and loved so much! You will be missed. Eileen
Patrice Regan
left a message on June 10, 2019:
I had the honor of working with Nick for a very short time at AON but in this short time Nick was such a professional-- such a gentleman and truly a man in love with Joan!!! My prayers are with his family at this very dad time.
Jerome & Sandra Ferullo
left a message on June 10, 2019:
We met Joanie & Nick about 14 years ago. Spent time together with our children and friends.
I will always remember our time in Hershey Park celebrating New Years. I remember Nick would always say hello to my daughter, Presley by giving her a high-five and saying “hello Press”. She loved it. It made her feel special.
Nick was always kind and had the well being of others first & foremost. He was always fair & just. He left a positive mark on everyone’s life he touched. He will always be with us through Joanie, Nicholas and Gabriella. God bless & protect xoxoxo
Michael Cohen
left a message on June 10, 2019:
Loved sharing a good laugh with Nick who
will be so missed!! Our industry brings
friendship & none was more special.
Our deepest condolences & prayers.
Rest well my friend...you will be fondly
remembered.
All our love
Mike & Rosanna
Paul Smith
left a message on June 9, 2019:
Such a wonderful friend, always the consummate gentleman and optimist. You will be missed. Love you.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Vivian Duff
left a message on June 13, 2019:
I worked closely with Nick at Aon and am truly saddened by his passing. I retired 4 years ago but have spoken to Nick since he got ill. The world lost a great guy. My deepest sympathy to the whole family. I cannot imagine your grief, but know that Nick was loved and respected by colleagues and clients alike.
Jennifer Hurley
left a message on June 12, 2019:
Nick was caring, loving, encouraging, and most of all selfless. He had a way of brightening up a room. Many basketball games we sat together cheering on our sons as they played. Nick would be famous for yelling out a “way to be” !!!!!!
We would laugh so hard because by the end of the season we were all yelling out “Way to be”.
I will never forget last summer after traveling into NYC for a treatment Nick traveled back home to Marlboro to pick up our sons and travel back into NYC to take them to a Mets game. Although I’m sure he was drained and exhausted his response was I feel great. I can’t wait to go with the boys. To say he was a special person is an understatement. I have said it before and I’ll say it again my family and I are better people for knowing Nick and Joan. Nick we love u and know your in a better place now shining like you always did.
Way to be Nick! We love you.
The Hurleys
Raymond Jaeger
left a message on June 12, 2019:
I will always remember the travel games between Nick’s Marlboro Mustangs & the Old Bridge Lightning .
The games were always close and exciting till the very end but I remember most is how much I admired Nick for his calm demeanor and friendly smile & voice to not only to the boys he coached but to the opposing team and coaches .
Every year we planned a scrimmage prior to the season including our 2 regular season games and most often playoff games , I look forward to every one of them cause my friend was in the opposing dugout and if either of us advances we would root for the other in the following rounds . He was truly al man of great character & one of the finest human beings I was able to get to know . I will miss & pray for him though I know he will be in heaven looking upon his family because that was his true passion in life & loved by all that were fortunate to know him .
God Bless you Nick and thankful for our friendship. Ray Jaeger
Dana Walsh
left a message on June 12, 2019:
Every memory we have of Nick is him being a wonderful father, husband, and friend. We will forever remember Nick in so many positive ways... with a big smile, an offer of support, and a great sense of humor. Nick was such strong man who fought so bravely over these past three years. He will never truly be gone, for Nick has left such a loving presence in the hearts of Joanie, Gabriella and Nicholas, as well as all of his extended family and friend’s hearts. Please accept our deepest condolences. Nick was truly an incredible person, and his loss is felt deeply. Love The Walsh Family
Jackie Zachmann
left a message on June 12, 2019:
We met Nick at our children’s engagement and again at their wedding. We feel blessed to have known him and his wonderful family. He was so loved and admired by
Keri and Dom.... Dom was always so fond of him and both enjoyed spending time with all of them at their home.
It brings us such sadness knowing this incredible person is no longer with us, but we do know he will always live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.
Dom and Keri have been touched by you, Nick, and we know they will forever miss
you ...... and a part of your family they forever will be.
Jackie and Larry Zachmann
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Rose Colabelli
left a message on June 11, 2019:
Nick was The MOST generous, kindest, positive, genuine man you could ever meet. We were so fortunate to meet him & Joanie fourteen years ago. He was the person you always wanted to be around. Even during his hardest days he always asked how everyone else was. He stayed positive throughout his fight. We are going to miss his laugh, our dinners together, family celebrations but most of all his presence. He will forever live in our hearts. Forever friends.
Rest easy Nick We love you, Rose & Vinnie
Pam Nowicki
left a message on June 11, 2019:
My memories of Nick date back to the 80's Farrell victory parties. Nick was always a soft spoken, kind, perfect gentleman. Many years passed before our paths crossed again at Willis where Nick welcomed me to the team with his warm smile & we continued to work together, after moving to Aon, for 21 years. Nick was not only just colleague, he was a true friend to the end & a family member to all of us. Nick worked very hard & was loved by all his clients & everyone who met him. What Nick loved most was his family & he couldn't have been prouder of his children & more devoted to his wife. He & Joanie clearly loved each other like no other! Over the past few years, Nick & I would get together for lunch every few months to catch up. We talked about work but most of all, we shared stories about our children &'reminisced about the past. Our lunches were truly enjoyable & I will miss them tremendously!
Nick, Rest In Peace my friend. Until we meet again...xo
Pastor Lee Marshall & Evangelist Berneti Gillard-Marshall
left a message on June 11, 2019:
There is so much to say about this remarkable Humble man that I don't even know where to start. We fell in love with him, his beautiful wife and the kids the first day we met them. Our hearts are so heavy at this time. But God did not want our brother to suffer any longer so he brought him home. Nick is at peace now no more pain. I know we will see you one day, May you rest in peace.
Andrea Bianco
left a message on June 11, 2019:
Our hearts are so very heavy over the loss of Nick Berlingieri. We had the pleasure of meeting Nick through our son Dominick who began his career at AON right out of college. My son was lucky enough to work directly with Nick and be a part of his team. Nick took him under his wing and shared all his skills of being a great negotiator, to be determined, and never take No for an answer. He learned from the best. Dominick was blessed to have Nick in his life , not only as a great mentor, but as a most wonderful friend. What a roll model! We are forever greatful to Nick for all his love, kindness and expertise he showed our son. Meeting Nick in person along with his beautiful wife and children confirmed what a wonderful and charismatic person he truly was. Rest in peace Nick. You will never be forgotten. Our deepest sympathy to his family. Andrea and Don Bianco
Mimi & Mike
left a message on June 10, 2019:
Where can we start, we met Nick when our children were only 3 months old. We have been close friends ever since, Our most memorable times were back yard bbqs that literally lasted all night. Long talks and laughs for hours and hours. Walks around the development and watching our kids graduate, nursery school, kindergarten and 8th grade together. He was our first Jersey friend, and will remain in our hearts forever. We love you and miss you already
Mike & Mimi
Sophia Galiano
left a message on June 10, 2019:
A candle was lit by Sophia Galiano on 2019/06/10
Vinny Bamundo
left a message on June 10, 2019:
I first met Nick on the little league fields when we were coaching our boys. Each day I knew him he proved himself to be a kind, loving, giving family man. He battled his disease bravely and deserves eternal happiness at the right hand of the Lord. I will always remember his kind smiling face when I think of him.
The Bamundo Family.
Eileen
left a message on June 10, 2019:
My heart is heavy that such a great man is gone too soon. Nick was truly a great person to work with at both Willis & Aon. I enjoyed hearing about his family who he was so proud of and loved so much! You will be missed. Eileen
Patrice Regan
left a message on June 10, 2019:
I had the honor of working with Nick for a very short time at AON but in this short time Nick was such a professional-- such a gentleman and truly a man in love with Joan!!! My prayers are with his family at this very dad time.
Jerome & Sandra Ferullo
left a message on June 10, 2019:
We met Joanie & Nick about 14 years ago. Spent time together with our children and friends.
I will always remember our time in Hershey Park celebrating New Years. I remember Nick would always say hello to my daughter, Presley by giving her a high-five and saying “hello Press”. She loved it. It made her feel special.
Nick was always kind and had the well being of others first & foremost. He was always fair & just. He left a positive mark on everyone’s life he touched. He will always be with us through Joanie, Nicholas and Gabriella. God bless & protect xoxoxo
Michael Cohen
left a message on June 10, 2019:
Loved sharing a good laugh with Nick who
will be so missed!! Our industry brings
friendship & none was more special.
Our deepest condolences & prayers.
Rest well my friend...you will be fondly
remembered.
All our love
Mike & Rosanna
Paul Smith
left a message on June 9, 2019:
Such a wonderful friend, always the consummate gentleman and optimist. You will be missed. Love you.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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