Paul Vaiana, age 75, of Colts Neck, NJ, previously of Westfield, passed peacefully at home on Sunday, October 2, 2022. Originally from Sicily, Paul and his parents, the late Giuseppa and Vincenzo Vaiana, settled in Brazil post WWII. He came to the U.S. in the early 1960’s where he settled in NY and eventually graduated …
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Paul Vaiana, age 75, of Colts Neck, NJ, previously of Westfield, passed peacefully at home on Sunday, October 2, 2022.
Originally from Sicily, Paul and his parents, the late Giuseppa and Vincenzo Vaiana, settled in Brazil post WWII. He came to the U.S. in the early 1960’s where he settled in NY and eventually graduated from Brooklyn College.
Paul was part of the inaugural class of Physician Assistants at Touro College in NY and continued his education in Medicine at the UACJ Medical School in Mexico. He completed his residency at Trinitas Hospital (formerly Saint Elizabeth Hospital) before going into private practice in 1986.
Dedicated to his profession, Paul was renown as a compassionate, caring physician and his ability to communicate with his patients in many languages.
As an attending physician at various hospitals within Union County he also spent time giving back to the community. He served on committees and sat on various boards at Trinitas Hospital including President of Medical Staff, Medical Director of YES (Youth Enrichment Services), Medical Director of Chemical Dependency Unit, and a member of the Hospital Executive Board.
In addition to his positions at Trinitas Hospital, Paul served as a Commissioner of the Elizabeth Board of Education. He was an Assistant Professor of Clinical Medicine at Seton Hall University, a member of the Elizabeth Chapter of Unico National, and a proud brother of the Tau Epsilon Phi fraternity.
Paul was the recipient of several humanitarian honors, Unico Citizen of The Year, and many athletic awards in soccer. In his free time, Paul could be found enjoying outdoor activities with his family such as camping, boating, fishing, traveling, and car racing.
He is survived by his wife of 48 years, Doris Vaiana, three children: Jennifer and her husband Ian Becker of Highland, NY, Adrienne and her husband Victor Conti III of Clark, NJ and Paul Vaiana of Roselle Park, NJ; and five beloved grandchildren: Caitlin, Hannah, Isabella, Victor IV, and Maya. He is also survived by his sister Nina and her husband George Eckstein.
Visitation Thursday, October 6 from 2pm – 4pm and 7pm – 9pm at Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 S. Holmdel Road, Holmdel. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered on Friday, October 7 at 10am at the Parish of St. Mary, Colts Neck. Burial will follow at St. Gertrude Cemetery, Colonia.
In lieu of traditional remembrances, the family asks with gratitude that donations in Paul’s name be made to the National Kidney Foundation (www.kidney.org)
For messages of condolence, or to share a favorite memory of Paul, please visit his page of tribute at www.HolmdelFuneralHome.com
Teresa Wnek
left a message on March 1, 2023:
Dr Viana was my physician for many years. I don't want to go into lengthy details but he has helped me as well as my sister. May he rest in peace.
Barbara McManimon
left a message on October 13, 2022:
I was so shocked and saddened to just find out that Dr. Vaiana passed away 😢 He was much too young. I will forever be eternally grateful to him and how well he cared for my parents. He kept my mom alive for 15.5 years when she was only given 6 months to live. My dad just celebrated his 83rd birthday 10/1. He was very special to the Matlosz family and will be in our hearts forever. My heartfelt condolences to the family… what a huge void there must be.. 🙏💔🙏
Maria Hardoby
left a message on October 11, 2022:
In memory of Paul Vaiana, Maria Hardoby lit a candle
Giordano Family
left a message on October 8, 2022:
In memory of Paul Vaiana, Giordano Family lit a candle
Henry A Eimstad
left a message on October 7, 2022:
Jenn, please accept sympathies from Barbara and me to you, Ian and your entire family. I loved reading the comments of so many people. He was clearly loved and valued. Warm personal regards, Barbara and Henry
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Yani Varona
left a message on October 7, 2022:
In memory of Paul Vaiana, Yani Varona lit a candle
Helena Goncalves
left a message on October 7, 2022:
Thank You Dr. Vaiana for your commitment and dedication to your patients and community. It was a pleasure to know you!! Thanks for all the wisdom and the immediate call backs when I’d reach out on a question or concern about a patient. I learned so much from you as a pharmacist and as your patient in my earlier years. RIP Doc. ♥️😘🙏
Carol Henderson
left a message on October 6, 2022:
Heartfelt sympathy to you, Doris, and your entire family. Eternal rest grant unto him oh Lord and may the perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace.
Carlos Antunes
left a message on October 5, 2022:
To the Vaiana family I offer our deepest condolences on the loss of Dr Vaiana. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of great loss and sorrow. He was a great man and a truly gifted physician. He was always caring toward his patient and always took the time needed to ensure the best care was provided. Thank You Dr. Vaiana for always being there for our family. You will always be remembered. may you Rest In Peace.
Linda Gruss
left a message on October 5, 2022:
we are so sorry for your loss. he will be missed. Prayers and love and kisses are to everyone in the family.
With much love to all
Linda, Bill, Billy, David, Tzyy, and Cameron
Mary Cholankeril
left a message on October 5, 2022:
Heartfelt condolences from MaryCholankeril and family to the Viana family 🙏
Maryann Markowycz
left a message on October 5, 2022:
I am so sorry for your loss. Dr Vaiana was my doctor for many years. He was a great man
Joe Dante
left a message on October 5, 2022:
My condolences to the family of Dr. Vaiana. He was a great doctor and friend. He took care of me for thirty years. He saved my life in 2007 from a DVT. He took care of my father for many years. Rest in peace dear sir!
Yessica Lituma
left a message on October 5, 2022:
My deepest condolences to the entire family of Dr Vaiana. May your happy memories give you peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Joe Bruno
left a message on October 5, 2022:
Dr. Vaiana was a wonderful physician and a true gentleman. While caring for my aunts and uncle he was invariably warm, unhurried, compassionate and highly competent. He served the Peterstown community of Elizabeth for many years and was loved and respected by many. I observed first handedly his treatment of my elderly uncle who had numerous age - related health challenges and I am convinced that Dr. Vaiana´s care helped extend his life. Bless you, Paul Vaiana and thank you. Joe Bruno, Blue Hill, ME
Bill McHugh
left a message on October 5, 2022:
Paul was a friend and a wonderful man and physician. His passing is a loss to the world and the profession. Keep looking after us, Paul, from your place in Heaven.
Bill
john dickson
left a message on October 5, 2022:
A great man has passed away. Paul Vaiana was like no one I've ever seen before! I had the enormous good fortune to have the Vianna family buy the house next door and move in, in Westfield. Paul, Doris, Jennifer, and Adrienne arrived about 3 years after we moved in, and my daughter Amanda, immediately had two big sisters, mentors and later baby sitters! They also adopted my son Danny as their baby brother, and the friendship began. Paul Jr. the real baby brother, came along a little later! Paul was someone I only saw glimpses of most of the time. His devotion to medical duties was amazing. I would see Paul pulling out of his garage before sunrise, and most nights returning long after dark. That was 6 days a week, and then Sundays were one on, and one on-call! Some how on Sunday - Paul was with his patents, Doris's parents, his sister and brother in-law and having cook outs in the backyard! That schedule that Paul mantained went on for the entire 17+ years that we were neighbors. Oh he would comment, after a yawn, and an excuse me, that he had missed his power nap every so often, but mostly, he just took the hours in stride. I consider the time we spent living next door to the Viannas a stroke of very good fortune. I doubt, given the hours he spent every week, that I would have ever gotten to know Paul, unless he was right next door! For me I also feel very lucky to have spent the time together we had. Paul was generous with the thing he had the least of, his time! When my daughter struggled with allergies Paul came over and checked on her! Yes a house call! He had a gentle way about him that put people at ease, and as pressed for time as he often was, he never rushed through anything! He was soft spoken. He lead by example. Yes he headed up committees, and was on the board of directors, but with his reputation, and work ethic, when he spoke, people listened. To Doris, Jen, A's, and PJ, I know you're sad, and this is hard, but just think how lucky we all were to get to share time with Paul. He helped us all to be better people, and was a postivie influence that we will carry around with us forever. Thank you Paul Vianna, I am proud to call you friend, and to have had so much time with you. I hope this begins a long period of celebrating your life. It really is a life well lived we are the lucky ones who you shared it with!
Rosanna Cordoma
left a message on October 5, 2022:
My condolences to the family of Dr. Vaiana. He meant so much to our family. He will be greatly missed. Rest in Peace.
Sincerely,
Rosanna Cordoma & Family
Barbara Sixt
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Sincerest condolences on the passing of Dr Vaiana. He was my mother's physician and always compassionate. He will be sadly missed by all who knew him.
Caterina Boneville
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Paul no words can ever express what you meant to All of my family. Rest In Peace my beautiful giving caring cousin. Thank you for Everything and we love you.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Ariel Lituma
left a message on October 4, 2022:
My condolences to all family.RIP
Diane and Ian Henderson
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Our sincere condolences to Paul’s family as you mourn the passing of your husband, Father, and Grandfather. Please know you’re in our thoughts and prayers. Diane and Ian
Ginny Durett
left a message on October 4, 2022:
So sad to learn of Paul’s death. He was such a comfort to Jim and I when Rich died. Our thoughts are with you all.
Love, Ginny & Jim
Ginny Durett
left a message on October 4, 2022:
So sad to learn of Paul’s death. He was such a comfort to Jim and I when Rich died. Our thoughts are with you all.
Love, Ginny & Jim
Adrienne Conti
left a message on October 4, 2022:
In memory of Paul Vaiana, Adrienne Conti lit a candle
Stephanie Alvarez
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Dear Doris, Our sincere condolences to you and your children and grandchildren. May Paul Rest In Peace. God bless you all.
Stephanie and the Alvarez family
Emily Rudin
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Jenn and Ian...I am so sorry for your loss. You have my deepest sympathy. My heart goes out to you and your family at this difficult time. Wishing you the best and know you have my full support if there is anything you need.
em
Judith Rodriguez Golden
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Our memories will never fade, of the love and kindness Paul always gave everyone, family, friends, coworkers and patients. May you be resting in peace in Gods embrace.
Diego Saporta, MD
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Dr. Vaiana will be remembered not only as a great doctor but also as a great human being. I am honored I enjoyed his friendship for many years
Nadine Brechner
left a message on October 4, 2022:
My sincere condolences. Paul was a true gentleman and leader as well a caring physician! He will be missed by many!
Mr. & Mrs. Sachkowsky
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Our condolences. He was more than our Doctor, he was a great man. He will be forever missed. Heaven gained a wonderful angel.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Teresa Wnek
left a message on March 1, 2023:
Dr Viana was my physician for many years. I don't want to go into lengthy details but he has helped me as well as my sister. May he rest in peace.
Barbara McManimon
left a message on October 13, 2022:
I was so shocked and saddened to just find out that Dr. Vaiana passed away 😢 He was much too young. I will forever be eternally grateful to him and how well he cared for my parents. He kept my mom alive for 15.5 years when she was only given 6 months to live. My dad just celebrated his 83rd birthday 10/1. He was very special to the Matlosz family and will be in our hearts forever. My heartfelt condolences to the family… what a huge void there must be.. 🙏💔🙏
Maria Hardoby
left a message on October 11, 2022:
In memory of Paul Vaiana, Maria Hardoby lit a candle
Giordano Family
left a message on October 8, 2022:
In memory of Paul Vaiana, Giordano Family lit a candle
Henry A Eimstad
left a message on October 7, 2022:
Jenn, please accept sympathies from Barbara and me to you, Ian and your entire family. I loved reading the comments of so many people. He was clearly loved and valued. Warm personal regards, Barbara and Henry
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Yani Varona
left a message on October 7, 2022:
In memory of Paul Vaiana, Yani Varona lit a candle
Helena Goncalves
left a message on October 7, 2022:
Thank You Dr. Vaiana for your commitment and dedication to your patients and community. It was a pleasure to know you!! Thanks for all the wisdom and the immediate call backs when I’d reach out on a question or concern about a patient. I learned so much from you as a pharmacist and as your patient in my earlier years. RIP Doc. ♥️😘🙏
Carol Henderson
left a message on October 6, 2022:
Heartfelt sympathy to you, Doris, and your entire family. Eternal rest grant unto him oh Lord and may the perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace.
Carlos Antunes
left a message on October 5, 2022:
To the Vaiana family I offer our deepest condolences on the loss of Dr Vaiana. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of great loss and sorrow. He was a great man and a truly gifted physician. He was always caring toward his patient and always took the time needed to ensure the best care was provided. Thank You Dr. Vaiana for always being there for our family. You will always be remembered. may you Rest In Peace.
Linda Gruss
left a message on October 5, 2022:
we are so sorry for your loss. he will be missed. Prayers and love and kisses are to everyone in the family.
With much love to all
Linda, Bill, Billy, David, Tzyy, and Cameron
Mary Cholankeril
left a message on October 5, 2022:
Heartfelt condolences from MaryCholankeril and family to the Viana family 🙏
Maryann Markowycz
left a message on October 5, 2022:
I am so sorry for your loss. Dr Vaiana was my doctor for many years. He was a great man
Joe Dante
left a message on October 5, 2022:
My condolences to the family of Dr. Vaiana. He was a great doctor and friend. He took care of me for thirty years. He saved my life in 2007 from a DVT. He took care of my father for many years. Rest in peace dear sir!
Yessica Lituma
left a message on October 5, 2022:
My deepest condolences to the entire family of Dr Vaiana. May your happy memories give you peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Joe Bruno
left a message on October 5, 2022:
Dr. Vaiana was a wonderful physician and a true gentleman. While caring for my aunts and uncle he was invariably warm, unhurried, compassionate and highly competent. He served the Peterstown community of Elizabeth for many years and was loved and respected by many. I observed first handedly his treatment of my elderly uncle who had numerous age - related health challenges and I am convinced that Dr. Vaiana´s care helped extend his life. Bless you, Paul Vaiana and thank you. Joe Bruno, Blue Hill, ME
Bill McHugh
left a message on October 5, 2022:
Paul was a friend and a wonderful man and physician. His passing is a loss to the world and the profession. Keep looking after us, Paul, from your place in Heaven.
Bill
john dickson
left a message on October 5, 2022:
A great man has passed away. Paul Vaiana was like no one I've ever seen before! I had the enormous good fortune to have the Vianna family buy the house next door and move in, in Westfield. Paul, Doris, Jennifer, and Adrienne arrived about 3 years after we moved in, and my daughter Amanda, immediately had two big sisters, mentors and later baby sitters! They also adopted my son Danny as their baby brother, and the friendship began. Paul Jr. the real baby brother, came along a little later! Paul was someone I only saw glimpses of most of the time. His devotion to medical duties was amazing. I would see Paul pulling out of his garage before sunrise, and most nights returning long after dark. That was 6 days a week, and then Sundays were one on, and one on-call! Some how on Sunday - Paul was with his patents, Doris's parents, his sister and brother in-law and having cook outs in the backyard! That schedule that Paul mantained went on for the entire 17+ years that we were neighbors. Oh he would comment, after a yawn, and an excuse me, that he had missed his power nap every so often, but mostly, he just took the hours in stride. I consider the time we spent living next door to the Viannas a stroke of very good fortune. I doubt, given the hours he spent every week, that I would have ever gotten to know Paul, unless he was right next door! For me I also feel very lucky to have spent the time together we had. Paul was generous with the thing he had the least of, his time! When my daughter struggled with allergies Paul came over and checked on her! Yes a house call! He had a gentle way about him that put people at ease, and as pressed for time as he often was, he never rushed through anything! He was soft spoken. He lead by example. Yes he headed up committees, and was on the board of directors, but with his reputation, and work ethic, when he spoke, people listened. To Doris, Jen, A's, and PJ, I know you're sad, and this is hard, but just think how lucky we all were to get to share time with Paul. He helped us all to be better people, and was a postivie influence that we will carry around with us forever. Thank you Paul Vianna, I am proud to call you friend, and to have had so much time with you. I hope this begins a long period of celebrating your life. It really is a life well lived we are the lucky ones who you shared it with!
Rosanna Cordoma
left a message on October 5, 2022:
My condolences to the family of Dr. Vaiana. He meant so much to our family. He will be greatly missed. Rest in Peace.
Sincerely,
Rosanna Cordoma & Family
Barbara Sixt
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Sincerest condolences on the passing of Dr Vaiana. He was my mother's physician and always compassionate. He will be sadly missed by all who knew him.
Caterina Boneville
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Paul no words can ever express what you meant to All of my family. Rest In Peace my beautiful giving caring cousin. Thank you for Everything and we love you.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Ariel Lituma
left a message on October 4, 2022:
My condolences to all family.RIP
Diane and Ian Henderson
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Our sincere condolences to Paul’s family as you mourn the passing of your husband, Father, and Grandfather. Please know you’re in our thoughts and prayers. Diane and Ian
Ginny Durett
left a message on October 4, 2022:
So sad to learn of Paul’s death. He was such a comfort to Jim and I when Rich died. Our thoughts are with you all.
Love, Ginny & Jim
Ginny Durett
left a message on October 4, 2022:
So sad to learn of Paul’s death. He was such a comfort to Jim and I when Rich died. Our thoughts are with you all.
Love, Ginny & Jim
Adrienne Conti
left a message on October 4, 2022:
In memory of Paul Vaiana, Adrienne Conti lit a candle
Stephanie Alvarez
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Dear Doris, Our sincere condolences to you and your children and grandchildren. May Paul Rest In Peace. God bless you all.
Stephanie and the Alvarez family
Emily Rudin
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Jenn and Ian...I am so sorry for your loss. You have my deepest sympathy. My heart goes out to you and your family at this difficult time. Wishing you the best and know you have my full support if there is anything you need.
em
Judith Rodriguez Golden
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Our memories will never fade, of the love and kindness Paul always gave everyone, family, friends, coworkers and patients. May you be resting in peace in Gods embrace.
Diego Saporta, MD
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Dr. Vaiana will be remembered not only as a great doctor but also as a great human being. I am honored I enjoyed his friendship for many years
Nadine Brechner
left a message on October 4, 2022:
My sincere condolences. Paul was a true gentleman and leader as well a caring physician! He will be missed by many!
Mr. & Mrs. Sachkowsky
left a message on October 4, 2022:
Our condolences. He was more than our Doctor, he was a great man. He will be forever missed. Heaven gained a wonderful angel.
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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