Paul William Switaj, 77, of Holmdel, passed away Tuesday, July 18th, surrounded by his family. He was the son of the late Grace (Spinelli) and Joseph Switaj. Born and raised in Jersey City, Paul was a graduate of St. Aloysius High School and St. Peter’s College. Paul’s dedication to serving his country led him to …
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Paul William Switaj, 77, of Holmdel, passed away Tuesday, July 18th, surrounded by his family.
He was the son of the late Grace (Spinelli) and Joseph Switaj.
Born and raised in Jersey City, Paul was a graduate of St. Aloysius High School and St. Peter’s College. Paul’s dedication to serving his country led him to put his career on hold during the Vietnam War. After his honorable discharge, he was an accountant for Touche Ross and Co., but soon ventured out to establish a successful accounting firm, Connolly, Switaj, Fogler & Co. in Holmdel.
On July 19th, 1969, Paul married the love of his life, Judith. They began their journey in Aberdeen, raising their growing family before settling in Holmdel in 1986. Paul found immense joy in playing golf, reminiscing about his rounds at Pebble Beach and working on his short game at the Shore Club in Cape May Court House. He spent memorable summers at his home in Avalon, cherished his walks in Holmdel Park, and above all, treasured every moment spent with his beloved family.
Paul is survived by his devoted wife, Judith, his children Brian and Mark (Kevin Fletcher). He is also survived by his siblings Ronald Switaj and Janice Lenahan, as well as niece and nephews Lexy, Michael, and Chris Lenahan.
Visitation will be held on Friday, July 21st from 2:00-4:00 and 7:00-9:00 PM at the Holmdel Funeral Home, located at 26 S. Holmdel Rd, Holmdel, NJ 07733. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered on Saturday, July 22nd at 10:00 AM at St. Benedict RC Church, 165 Bethany Rd, Holmdel. Following the service, an entombment will take place at St. Gabriel’s Mausoleum, 549 County Rd 520, Marlboro.
In lieu of flowers, please send contributions to Tunnel to Towers or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital in Paul’s memory.
To leave a message of condolence or to share a favorite memory, please visit Paul’s page at www.holmdelfuneralhome.com
Rick Yacowitz
left a message on August 21, 2023:
Paul helped me sort through a partnership breakup in 1985 and was mu CPA ever since. I could always depend on him to get back to me when I called , explain incomprehensible tax translation into manageable pieces and watch out for keeping me on tract . Much more than that , we met , talked taxes, then got into our real conversation, golf and fishing. I know nothing about golf and Paul knew nothing about fishing but we both throughly enjoyed hearing the other speak on these topics which brought us both joy . I will miss that very open , broad smile. Rick Yacowitz
Jaime Robertson-Lavalle
left a message on August 18, 2023:
Dear Switaj family, Paul was an optimistic, positive human being. He was also a dedicated professional of great integrity and a helpful advisor. While it is really sad to learn of his passing, it is comforting to know that Paul's life truly deserves to be celebrated. I am sincerely sorry for your loss.
Ulf Wiinberg
left a message on August 17, 2023:
Dear Family,
I received this message with great sadness. Paul was my accountant, and personal advisor on financial matters since the early nineties. He was the ultimate professional, not only about the rules but about my families needs and how to make decisions. He was always friendly but if I had what I thought was great ideas, his integrity ruled.
I enjoyed his advice and friendship immensely.
I am very sorry for you the family and your loss.
with sincere condolences
Ulf Wiinberg
Herbert and BeverlyGoldfarb
left a message on August 17, 2023:
Bev and I were clients But Paul was much more than an adviser he was a friend who we could talk to as well as enjoy reminises about our golf games. We will miss him and send our sincere condolences to his family. .]
Linda Pickett
left a message on August 17, 2023:
Please accept my families condolences as we just heard about Paul’s passing. Paul & Janice were childhood friends from Jersey City, their parents and mine were best of friends for so many years I cannot even count. He will be sadly missed Rest my friend
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
LawrenceHorowitz
left a message on August 17, 2023:
Dear Switaj Family
Paul was the only Accountant we ever had. I would say he serviced our family for close to 50 years. When my wife passed away in 2019 Paul was so helpful to me because my wife did the taxes all the time. Paul was so kind whenever I called him and he will be missed like no other. Hopefully Paul will meet my wife in Heaven since she picked him to by our Accountant 50 years ago. Paul's kindness will always be remembered and he will have a special place in my heart. Lawrence Horowitz and Maureen Horowitz in Spirit'
David Abbott
left a message on August 17, 2023:
So so sorry to hear about Paul. He has served me and my family, and his firm, for well over two decades. A man of integrity, compassion and gentle competence. We will miss him and his guidance. Thank you for sharing him Mrs. Switaj.
David and Rosann Abbott
McKinney TX
David Abbott
left a message on August 17, 2023:
In memory of Paul William Switaj, David Abbott lit a candle
Sherry Harris
left a message on August 17, 2023:
Dear Switaj family, I was deeply saddened to hear of Paul’s passing. He has been my accountant for over 25 years. I will mis his calm, knowledgeable and friendly demeanor. When I spoke to him in April, he was spirited and hopeful. In that call, we spent some time fondly updating each other on family. A wonderful man. My deepest sympathy, Sherry
Mary Kate Wold
left a message on July 27, 2023:
Dear Mrs. Switaj, Brian, and Mark,
I was so very sad to received the news of Paul's passing. Paul had been my accountant for at least 20 years. I of course appreciated his professionalism and dedication, but far more than that I appreciated knowing him as a person -- upstanding, kind, connected, always of good humor. I am terribly sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Mary Kate Wold
Kate Guellich Geraghty
left a message on July 24, 2023:
Judy,
I’m sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. He was a nice man, and I’m glad you had so many years together. I wish you peace. RIP, Paul.
Liz Castleman
left a message on July 23, 2023:
Mrs.Switaj,
I am so sorry for your loss!
Fondly,
Elizabeth Castleman
Frank Bossu & Nancy Uridil
left a message on July 23, 2023:
Paul (and his firm) was our accountant for more than 20 years. We trusted his work and deeply valued his candid, straightforward advice. In every way he traveled our lives with us and our children through many moves, colleges and life adventures. He was a remarkable, loyal, dependable, servant leader. And his sense of humor often came out in wry understatement. We are so very saddened by his passing and will miss him terribly. Our sincere condolences to his family. Grieve well and be patient with your own healing.
Steve and Judy Klein
left a message on July 22, 2023:
Dear Judy, I was so sorry to learn of Paul’s passing this past week. We just talked a month ago and he told me about his illness. He took it all in stride and shared a’ I’ll get through this attitude’ , a positive attitude he always exhibited throughout his life. Having left for Florida 30 years ago we hadn’t seen each other but talked during each year. I have fond memories of playing golf with Paul at the Riverview Outtings and seeing you both at the dinners that followed. He loved his golf and loved talking about it. I will truly miss him but will cherish those fond memories.
Art and Maryann Livingston
left a message on July 22, 2023:
Judy, Brian, and Mark--We are so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. The love and memories you share as a family will live with you forever.
May God Bless you and be with you as you grieve. Maryann a d Art Livingston
Stephan R Leone
left a message on July 22, 2023:
My heartfelt condolences to the Switaj family. Paul and his firm,by John Fogler, have been my varied business enterprises accountant's for over 40 years.He will be missed but not forgotten
Anneliese Galiano
left a message on July 21, 2023:
You will be so missed. You were truly an honorable, kind man. This is such a sad loss for your beautiful family. And the world. Rest in peace.
Peter Brogowski
left a message on July 21, 2023:
Judy, Mark and Brian. I'll always remember the wonderful childhood memories with Paul. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. Your family was a huge part of my life for so long and I'm just so grateful for the time and memories with Mr. Switaj. Please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.
Tina and Rich Rodowicz
left a message on July 21, 2023:
So sorry for your loss Judy.
Donna Mazza
left a message on July 20, 2023:
My Condolences to Judy, the Boys and your Siblings.
Paul you will be missed by many, we all loved you.
Do not worry about Judy, we her crazy YaYa Group will always be there for her as will all the other wonderful friends. Rest in Peace now Paul. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Cheryl Berman
left a message on July 20, 2023:
Dear Hudy
I was so sad to hear about Paul. Hoping that happy memories help to get you and your family through this difficult time
Mary Howard
left a message on July 20, 2023:
Dear Judy,Brian and Mark, You are all in my prayer as you grieve. Tony and I send healing thoughts. We wish you peace. Tony and Mary Howard
Elizabeth Ross
left a message on July 19, 2023:
For Judy, Brian and Mark and Kevin,
My husband and I send our deepest condolences to you all.
Please know how grateful I am for the honor and tremendous pleasure of working with Paul for nearly 35 years. He was a wonderful presence at Connolly Switaj Fogler.
With heartfelt blessings,
Liz Ross and Thomas Hubertus
Meghan Rodowicz
left a message on July 19, 2023:
Paul was an amazing man, husband and dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with Judy, Brian, and Mark. Love and hugs to you all!
The Rodowicz Family
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Rick Yacowitz
left a message on August 21, 2023:
Paul helped me sort through a partnership breakup in 1985 and was mu CPA ever since. I could always depend on him to get back to me when I called , explain incomprehensible tax translation into manageable pieces and watch out for keeping me on tract . Much more than that , we met , talked taxes, then got into our real conversation, golf and fishing. I know nothing about golf and Paul knew nothing about fishing but we both throughly enjoyed hearing the other speak on these topics which brought us both joy . I will miss that very open , broad smile. Rick Yacowitz
Jaime Robertson-Lavalle
left a message on August 18, 2023:
Dear Switaj family, Paul was an optimistic, positive human being. He was also a dedicated professional of great integrity and a helpful advisor. While it is really sad to learn of his passing, it is comforting to know that Paul's life truly deserves to be celebrated. I am sincerely sorry for your loss.
Ulf Wiinberg
left a message on August 17, 2023:
Dear Family,
I received this message with great sadness. Paul was my accountant, and personal advisor on financial matters since the early nineties. He was the ultimate professional, not only about the rules but about my families needs and how to make decisions. He was always friendly but if I had what I thought was great ideas, his integrity ruled.
I enjoyed his advice and friendship immensely.
I am very sorry for you the family and your loss.
with sincere condolences
Ulf Wiinberg
Herbert and BeverlyGoldfarb
left a message on August 17, 2023:
Bev and I were clients But Paul was much more than an adviser he was a friend who we could talk to as well as enjoy reminises about our golf games. We will miss him and send our sincere condolences to his family. .]
Linda Pickett
left a message on August 17, 2023:
Please accept my families condolences as we just heard about Paul’s passing. Paul & Janice were childhood friends from Jersey City, their parents and mine were best of friends for so many years I cannot even count. He will be sadly missed Rest my friend
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
LawrenceHorowitz
left a message on August 17, 2023:
Dear Switaj Family
Paul was the only Accountant we ever had. I would say he serviced our family for close to 50 years. When my wife passed away in 2019 Paul was so helpful to me because my wife did the taxes all the time. Paul was so kind whenever I called him and he will be missed like no other. Hopefully Paul will meet my wife in Heaven since she picked him to by our Accountant 50 years ago. Paul's kindness will always be remembered and he will have a special place in my heart. Lawrence Horowitz and Maureen Horowitz in Spirit'
David Abbott
left a message on August 17, 2023:
So so sorry to hear about Paul. He has served me and my family, and his firm, for well over two decades. A man of integrity, compassion and gentle competence. We will miss him and his guidance. Thank you for sharing him Mrs. Switaj.
David and Rosann Abbott
McKinney TX
David Abbott
left a message on August 17, 2023:
In memory of Paul William Switaj, David Abbott lit a candle
Sherry Harris
left a message on August 17, 2023:
Dear Switaj family, I was deeply saddened to hear of Paul’s passing. He has been my accountant for over 25 years. I will mis his calm, knowledgeable and friendly demeanor. When I spoke to him in April, he was spirited and hopeful. In that call, we spent some time fondly updating each other on family. A wonderful man. My deepest sympathy, Sherry
Mary Kate Wold
left a message on July 27, 2023:
Dear Mrs. Switaj, Brian, and Mark,
I was so very sad to received the news of Paul's passing. Paul had been my accountant for at least 20 years. I of course appreciated his professionalism and dedication, but far more than that I appreciated knowing him as a person -- upstanding, kind, connected, always of good humor. I am terribly sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Mary Kate Wold
Kate Guellich Geraghty
left a message on July 24, 2023:
Judy,
I’m sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. He was a nice man, and I’m glad you had so many years together. I wish you peace. RIP, Paul.
Liz Castleman
left a message on July 23, 2023:
Mrs.Switaj,
I am so sorry for your loss!
Fondly,
Elizabeth Castleman
Frank Bossu & Nancy Uridil
left a message on July 23, 2023:
Paul (and his firm) was our accountant for more than 20 years. We trusted his work and deeply valued his candid, straightforward advice. In every way he traveled our lives with us and our children through many moves, colleges and life adventures. He was a remarkable, loyal, dependable, servant leader. And his sense of humor often came out in wry understatement. We are so very saddened by his passing and will miss him terribly. Our sincere condolences to his family. Grieve well and be patient with your own healing.
Steve and Judy Klein
left a message on July 22, 2023:
Dear Judy, I was so sorry to learn of Paul’s passing this past week. We just talked a month ago and he told me about his illness. He took it all in stride and shared a’ I’ll get through this attitude’ , a positive attitude he always exhibited throughout his life. Having left for Florida 30 years ago we hadn’t seen each other but talked during each year. I have fond memories of playing golf with Paul at the Riverview Outtings and seeing you both at the dinners that followed. He loved his golf and loved talking about it. I will truly miss him but will cherish those fond memories.
Art and Maryann Livingston
left a message on July 22, 2023:
Judy, Brian, and Mark--We are so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. The love and memories you share as a family will live with you forever.
May God Bless you and be with you as you grieve. Maryann a d Art Livingston
Stephan R Leone
left a message on July 22, 2023:
My heartfelt condolences to the Switaj family. Paul and his firm,by John Fogler, have been my varied business enterprises accountant's for over 40 years.He will be missed but not forgotten
Anneliese Galiano
left a message on July 21, 2023:
You will be so missed. You were truly an honorable, kind man. This is such a sad loss for your beautiful family. And the world. Rest in peace.
Peter Brogowski
left a message on July 21, 2023:
Judy, Mark and Brian. I'll always remember the wonderful childhood memories with Paul. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. Your family was a huge part of my life for so long and I'm just so grateful for the time and memories with Mr. Switaj. Please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.
Tina and Rich Rodowicz
left a message on July 21, 2023:
So sorry for your loss Judy.
Donna Mazza
left a message on July 20, 2023:
My Condolences to Judy, the Boys and your Siblings.
Paul you will be missed by many, we all loved you.
Do not worry about Judy, we her crazy YaYa Group will always be there for her as will all the other wonderful friends. Rest in Peace now Paul. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Cheryl Berman
left a message on July 20, 2023:
Dear Hudy
I was so sad to hear about Paul. Hoping that happy memories help to get you and your family through this difficult time
Mary Howard
left a message on July 20, 2023:
Dear Judy,Brian and Mark, You are all in my prayer as you grieve. Tony and I send healing thoughts. We wish you peace. Tony and Mary Howard
Elizabeth Ross
left a message on July 19, 2023:
For Judy, Brian and Mark and Kevin,
My husband and I send our deepest condolences to you all.
Please know how grateful I am for the honor and tremendous pleasure of working with Paul for nearly 35 years. He was a wonderful presence at Connolly Switaj Fogler.
With heartfelt blessings,
Liz Ross and Thomas Hubertus
Meghan Rodowicz
left a message on July 19, 2023:
Paul was an amazing man, husband and dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with Judy, Brian, and Mark. Love and hugs to you all!
The Rodowicz Family
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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