Pauline A. Sebolao, 61, of Oceanport, died Friday, July 9, 2021. She was beloved by family and friends alike, and will be missed tremendously. Pauline was born in Paterson, NJ, but grew up in Oakland. She attended Montclair State University where she studied and earned her Bachelors degree in communications, along with meeting the love …
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Pauline A. Sebolao, 61, of Oceanport, died Friday, July 9, 2021. She was beloved by family and friends alike, and will be missed tremendously.
Pauline was born in Paterson, NJ, but grew up in Oakland. She attended Montclair State University where she studied and earned her Bachelors degree in communications, along with meeting the love of her life and husband of 37 years. She took great pride in caring for her family. She looked forward to cooking and hosting family holidays and was a phenomenal cook. Pauline was described as genuine, caring, understanding and compassionate, and spent her free time volunteering at The Food Pantry. She was always accepting of others, without judgment, and ready to lend an attentive ear. All of her attributes, undoubtedly translated to her career as a Real Estate Agent for Coldwell Banker.
Pauline is survived by her loving husband, Joseph; her two sons Joseph, Jr. and Nicholas, and her two daughters Alexandra and Taylor. She was a positive influence on all who had the benefit of knowing her, and privileged to experience the capabilities of her everlasting heart.
Visitation for Pauline will be held Thursday, July 15 from 4-7pm at Woolley-Boglioli Funeral Home, 10 Morrell Street, Long Branch. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Friday, July 16 at 10:30am at The Church of the Precious Blood, 72 Riverdale Ave, Monmouth Beach. To share a favorite memory or send a message of condolence to Pauline’s family, please visit her page of tribute at www.woolleyboglioli.com.
Ed Timek
left a message on October 15, 2021:
I just found out about Paula's passing. I had gone to her Facebook page because I would periodically check in with her and saw that she had passed away. I am so sad about this. Paula was a good friend during our days at Montclair State College. We spent a lot of time together as Broadcasting majors and as DJ's on WMSC. My deepest sympathy for Joe and the rest of her family. May she rest in peace.
The Schoffelen Family
left a message on July 17, 2021:
Our deepest sympathy and condolences goes out to the Sebolao family. Out thoughts and prayers are with you.
Robert Pansulla
left a message on July 15, 2021:
Joe and Family:
May wonderful memories help you get through this most difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers from Scotch Plains. Godspeed.
Barbara Bryant
left a message on July 15, 2021:
We are so very sorry ? I enjoyed spending time with Paula @ PPYC Social club, preparing our Friday night dinners! Parys & hugs to the family.....??
Ria Gulian
left a message on July 14, 2021:
Dear Joe and family,
Rich, I and the girls are deeply saddened with the news..........
I pray that she is at rest with all of those family members that have passed before to comfort her at this time.
My memories of her are only good! She would join in for our walks on the boardwalk on the weekends, and stopping for ice coffee! Never forget getting me a wonderful job in Colonia and working with her. Rich and I were so happy to have her attempt to sell our home, even though there were no takers at that time, but she tried her best!
We send our love and prayers with you all. She will be missed.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Michael Michalisin
left a message on July 14, 2021:
Joe, our deepest sympathies to you and your family on the loss of Paula. I recall how family was very important to her and that she was very active in civic activities when you lived in Scotch Plains.
Sincerely, Terry and Mike Michalisin
Tara Floyd DeMizioDeMizio?
left a message on July 14, 2021:
Paula, I always enjoyed having my desk next to yours at Weichert where we would discuss our children, pets and life in general. That is why I referred both my Son and my Nephew to you when they decided to move to your area last year. Your patience, consideration, kindness and "mothering" was exactly what I wanted for them and I will always be thankful they had you to turn to. God Rest, Paula......you will be greatly missed.
Jacqueline Mandell
left a message on July 13, 2021:
My deepest and heartfelt condolences to the entire family. So very sorry for your loss. Sending everyone love, strength and prayers.
Erin Feeley
left a message on July 13, 2021:
When I think of Paula, I am reminded of the love and joy that was palpable to others and radiated from her when she spoke of her children. Rest In Peace Paula, you will be missed dearly.
Jamie Garber
left a message on July 13, 2021:
Paula was a very good friend and a wonderful mother! My heart goes out to her family..
JACK DANERI
left a message on July 13, 2021:
To Joe, Alex, Joey, Nick & Taylor,
We will always remember Paula's hospitality and smile as she opened her home to us "out-of-towners" whenever we rolled in. Squealing kids, barking dogs, great food, music, and lots of laughs! Rest in Peace, kind lady.
Jack & Jane
Darlene Daley
left a message on July 13, 2021:
Our sincerest condolences go out to your entire family for your tremendous loss. We wish you a peaceful journey in your healing.
Take Care,
Tom, Darlene, and Devin Daley
Theresa Capuano
left a message on July 13, 2021:
I say a prayer for Paula and her family whom ishe loved very much and spoke of often. I sympathize with her struggles I feel blessed to have known her for the short time I did. She was a light in a dark room and she spoke her truth. She will be tremendously missed and often thought about by her circle of friends that meet on Wednesday nights who will feel a void by not having her in our presence.
Nancy de Groot
left a message on July 12, 2021:
Paula was a beautiful and special friend. She was a sincere, loving, kind and caring girl and she shared this special gift with all people. Paula truly had a special light around her. I always felt a sense of warmth and happiness when I saw her. She was so incredibly proud of her kids and would beam with pride and love when she spoke about them. She will be missed dearly. She is a great loss to all of us yet a beautiful gift for God & heaven.
Amy Laufer
left a message on July 12, 2021:
Rest In Peace, Paula. You will be sincerely missed. I so enjoyed seeing you when all the girls gathered. I send you love. Prayers for your family. Gone too soon. ❤️
Valdes Family
left a message on July 12, 2021:
Our condolences and prayers go out to the Sebolao family.
Paula, thank you for the love and care you always showed our family, especially to Justine. We will miss you. Rest In Peace, dear friend.
Maria Petersen
left a message on July 12, 2021:
My deepest condolences to Paula's family. I pray that you find comfort in each other's arms. Paula will be terribly missed. I am happy to have had the priviledge of working with her. She is a wonderful co-worker! May she rest in peace.
Jayne Camlin
left a message on July 12, 2021:
Oh my gosh I am SO SO sorry to hear this news, it’s devastating! I worked with Paula and really enjoyed when she would work with me. We all really enjoyed working with her. She will be greatly missed?
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Ed Timek
left a message on October 15, 2021:
I just found out about Paula's passing. I had gone to her Facebook page because I would periodically check in with her and saw that she had passed away. I am so sad about this. Paula was a good friend during our days at Montclair State College. We spent a lot of time together as Broadcasting majors and as DJ's on WMSC. My deepest sympathy for Joe and the rest of her family. May she rest in peace.
The Schoffelen Family
left a message on July 17, 2021:
Our deepest sympathy and condolences goes out to the Sebolao family. Out thoughts and prayers are with you.
Robert Pansulla
left a message on July 15, 2021:
Joe and Family:
May wonderful memories help you get through this most difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers from Scotch Plains. Godspeed.
Barbara Bryant
left a message on July 15, 2021:
We are so very sorry ? I enjoyed spending time with Paula @ PPYC Social club, preparing our Friday night dinners! Parys & hugs to the family.....??
Ria Gulian
left a message on July 14, 2021:
Dear Joe and family,
Rich, I and the girls are deeply saddened with the news..........
I pray that she is at rest with all of those family members that have passed before to comfort her at this time.
My memories of her are only good! She would join in for our walks on the boardwalk on the weekends, and stopping for ice coffee! Never forget getting me a wonderful job in Colonia and working with her. Rich and I were so happy to have her attempt to sell our home, even though there were no takers at that time, but she tried her best!
We send our love and prayers with you all. She will be missed.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Michael Michalisin
left a message on July 14, 2021:
Joe, our deepest sympathies to you and your family on the loss of Paula. I recall how family was very important to her and that she was very active in civic activities when you lived in Scotch Plains.
Sincerely, Terry and Mike Michalisin
Tara Floyd DeMizioDeMizio?
left a message on July 14, 2021:
Paula, I always enjoyed having my desk next to yours at Weichert where we would discuss our children, pets and life in general. That is why I referred both my Son and my Nephew to you when they decided to move to your area last year. Your patience, consideration, kindness and "mothering" was exactly what I wanted for them and I will always be thankful they had you to turn to. God Rest, Paula......you will be greatly missed.
Jacqueline Mandell
left a message on July 13, 2021:
My deepest and heartfelt condolences to the entire family. So very sorry for your loss. Sending everyone love, strength and prayers.
Erin Feeley
left a message on July 13, 2021:
When I think of Paula, I am reminded of the love and joy that was palpable to others and radiated from her when she spoke of her children. Rest In Peace Paula, you will be missed dearly.
Jamie Garber
left a message on July 13, 2021:
Paula was a very good friend and a wonderful mother! My heart goes out to her family..
JACK DANERI
left a message on July 13, 2021:
To Joe, Alex, Joey, Nick & Taylor,
We will always remember Paula's hospitality and smile as she opened her home to us "out-of-towners" whenever we rolled in. Squealing kids, barking dogs, great food, music, and lots of laughs! Rest in Peace, kind lady.
Jack & Jane
Darlene Daley
left a message on July 13, 2021:
Our sincerest condolences go out to your entire family for your tremendous loss. We wish you a peaceful journey in your healing.
Take Care,
Tom, Darlene, and Devin Daley
Theresa Capuano
left a message on July 13, 2021:
I say a prayer for Paula and her family whom ishe loved very much and spoke of often. I sympathize with her struggles I feel blessed to have known her for the short time I did. She was a light in a dark room and she spoke her truth. She will be tremendously missed and often thought about by her circle of friends that meet on Wednesday nights who will feel a void by not having her in our presence.
Nancy de Groot
left a message on July 12, 2021:
Paula was a beautiful and special friend. She was a sincere, loving, kind and caring girl and she shared this special gift with all people. Paula truly had a special light around her. I always felt a sense of warmth and happiness when I saw her. She was so incredibly proud of her kids and would beam with pride and love when she spoke about them. She will be missed dearly. She is a great loss to all of us yet a beautiful gift for God & heaven.
Amy Laufer
left a message on July 12, 2021:
Rest In Peace, Paula. You will be sincerely missed. I so enjoyed seeing you when all the girls gathered. I send you love. Prayers for your family. Gone too soon. ❤️
Valdes Family
left a message on July 12, 2021:
Our condolences and prayers go out to the Sebolao family.
Paula, thank you for the love and care you always showed our family, especially to Justine. We will miss you. Rest In Peace, dear friend.
Maria Petersen
left a message on July 12, 2021:
My deepest condolences to Paula's family. I pray that you find comfort in each other's arms. Paula will be terribly missed. I am happy to have had the priviledge of working with her. She is a wonderful co-worker! May she rest in peace.
Jayne Camlin
left a message on July 12, 2021:
Oh my gosh I am SO SO sorry to hear this news, it’s devastating! I worked with Paula and really enjoyed when she would work with me. We all really enjoyed working with her. She will be greatly missed?
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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