Stephen R. ‘Juggey’ Graves, 57 of Ocean Twp. passed away Sunday April 18th at the St. Barnabas Hospice and Palliative Care Center at Monmouth Medical Center, Long Branch. Juggey was born in Long Branch and lived in West Long Branch most of his life before moving to Ocean Twp. in 2001. He was a heavy …
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Stephen R. ‘Juggey’ Graves, 57 of Ocean Twp. passed away Sunday April 18th at the St. Barnabas Hospice and Palliative Care Center at Monmouth Medical Center, Long Branch.
Juggey was born in Long Branch and lived in West Long Branch most of his life before moving to Ocean Twp. in 2001. He was a heavy equipment operator for Monmouth County retiring in January of this year. Steve was an Assistant Fire Coordinator for the Monmouth County Fire Marshall’s Office. He was a member of West Long Branch Fire Company # 2, The Atlantic Engine Company, Long Branch Fire Department and the Shark River Hills Fire Company. Steve loved his tattoos, Harley Davidson Motorcycles, and all the fire departments and most of all his kiddo, Mars.
He was predeceased by his father J. Roger Graves in 1998. Surviving is his loving wife, Helen Karlo Graves; his cherished kiddo, Mars; father and mother-in-law, John and Mary Ellis, Rumson; one brother-in-law, Thomas S. Karlo, Jr., Atlantic Highlands; six sisters-in-law, Mary A. Karlo, Rumson, Stephanie A. Karlo and David Heater, Milford, Pa, Karen Ellis, Long Branch, Joan Ellis, San Anselmo Ca., Ginny and Frank Mazza, Shrewsbury, Betsy and John Lunney, Little Silver; two nieces Sarah and Maggie Mazza, Shrewsbury; a nephew, Corey Lunney; his lifelong friend, Brian Hagerman, West Long Branch; his 2nd wife, Lori Cole; and his mother and sister.
Visitation will be Wed. April 21st , 6 to 9 PM at the Woolley Funeral Home, 10 Morrell St., Long Branch. Fire Department services will be at 7 PM. Funeral service will be Thursday, April 22nd, 11:00 AM at the Funeral Home. Contributions may be made to the Mars Kalu Graves Education Fund, C/O Kevin Kennedy, Esq., 165 Highway 35, Red Bank, NJ, 07701. You may light a candle of condolence by visiting www.woolleyfh.com.
Judy Wortman
left a message on April 28, 2011:
Although I have not seen Steve in a long time, I have known him since he was a teenager. He was rough around the edges but had a heart of gold. I know he will be missed by those who knew and loved him. His family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Joanne Cosentino Graves
left a message on April 22, 2011:
Helen & Mary, Please accept my deepest sympathies on Steve's passing. Whatever the past was or was not,if not for it, I would never have my cherrished son Justin. He has been the comfort and joy in my life!
Jean Fischer
left a message on April 21, 2011:
old friends
The Warner Family
left a message on April 21, 2011:
I only knew Steve lightly for the years that Mary was in our Girl Scout troop. I had the great pleasure of getting to know him much better on the sidelines of the lacrosse field last spring. What a great guy! And so, so sweet. Always offering to carry my chair, making room for me to sit nearby, etc. A nicer guy you could not have asked for. I only wish Dudley and I could have gotten to know Steve better. My last memory is of Steve holding our new puppy. I will remember that moment for a long time. Although he could not speak with his voice he spoke with his eyes. I am so glad he could express pleasure even in his last days. I know Helen and Mary will miss him dearly. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you both. Lee & Dudley Warner
PONYTAIL
left a message on April 21, 2011:
It was my privlege to MEET you,WORK with you, and KNOW you.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
BRIAN
left a message on April 21, 2011:
I will never forget you,you were my second brother and your chief and always will be.Love you brother.
Linda Lopizzo
left a message on April 21, 2011:
You will be missed
Sonia Pacheco
left a message on April 21, 2011:
To the family of Stephen R. Graver, I am sorry for your loss. May the God of comfort and grace bring you peace in this difficult time.
Bonnie Thomas
left a message on April 21, 2011:
You will be missed my friend. You always brought a smile to my face no matter how long it had been since we had seen each other.
Pati Conway Grasso
left a message on April 21, 2011:
Steve you are a dear friend whom i will never forget. you are in gods hands now and watching over everyone...you will be sadly missed my friend...Pati
Melissa Ford
left a message on April 21, 2011:
Ohhh Juggey... you were such a great man! I'll always remember trick-or-treating with you and the girls, the time you almost had to rescue me and helen from our concert in philly, (some great times and memories) and your "team juggey" will live on forever. RIP... Love you, Melissa xoxo
Phil and Marlayna
left a message on April 21, 2011:
Our lives will forever be enriched; for knowing you and having you as a friend. We will keep you and your family in our prayers. God bless you as he takes you home.
meghan (dunphy) lopez
left a message on April 21, 2011:
I am so honored to have met you...I will never forget the love you showed me you had for your family...I am sooo sorry you went through any pain but because you did and showed me such strength....I have totally changed the decisions I make each and everyday.. You will always be the one I owe my second chance of life to.. Thank you Steve.. Miss you forever...be a better mom and person all because of YOU...Helen and Mary thanks for sharing him..I wish you girls all the strength and love possible everyday...Meghan Dunphy Lopez
Chris Donofrio
left a message on April 21, 2011:
Kindness, love that is what I see and feel looking into your eyes. A beautiful soul. So many great memories of barbeques and family get togethers at Frank and Ginny's. I think that's where we all first met. Well if you ask me those are the best memories of my life spending time together with our dear friends/family. How blessed we are to have crossed paths - you are now a part of both Carmen and I and we carry you in our hearts forever. We love you Steve, Mary and Helen. As my Dad always said to me - we never say goodbye - always "au revoir" Until we meet again. Love c&c
Joe Grasso
left a message on April 21, 2011:
Pappy you will always be a great friend and a mentor in my eyes you will be missed by so many rest in peace brother.
Judy Mosca
left a message on April 20, 2011:
My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. Judy from Cancercare
pj covert
left a message on April 20, 2011:
steve you will always missed in our hearts and prayers
Becky Kopke
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Iwas honored to meet and know Steve, Helen and Mary.I met Steve he came to our Radiation Dept for treatment. He was this burly,graveley voiced teddy bear- Loved by all the staff in the dept ,especially the therapists, Dr Weiss,Roz, and myself. He adored his Mary and Helen.He was a wonderful presence and will be missed!!! He fought a cuorageous battle to the end.I am sorry for the loss that Mary,Helen, family and friends will endure.Our thoughts and prayers and hugs to all of you
Michelle Mazza
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Mary and Family, I love you and you know that i will always be here for you. as your best friend,we have had many great times together. Don't worry. These times will never be lost like your Dad will never be lost. Love you always! Mich Mazza
David Hanisch
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Steve was a great man. He always had great jokes and one liners. He always knew how to get the guys riled up. He was a great co-worker and it was a pleasure to of worked with him and to of known him. RIP my friend.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jessica Wardell
left a message on April 20, 2011:
I will miss you...In my heart and thoughts you will always be!
The Clarke's of TF
left a message on April 20, 2011:
We will always remember your kindness and wicked sense of humor! Also the love and pride you had for your daughter, Mary, and for Helen was truly so wonderful. God bless you and rest peacefully.
Katelyn Foran
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Warm thoughts and deepest sympathy are with you and your family.
Glenn Meuche, MSW, MA
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Although I am not able to take away the pain and suffering of your loss and grief I nonethless can leave the door open should you need to tell your story. My thoughts are with you and your family. Be well... glen (from CancerCare, Ridgewood)
Johnny Boy & Mom
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Stevie, Thanks for all you did for us. Your love of Helen and Mary --we will always remember. Rest in Peace--no one deserves free from pain more than you do.
Barbara DeLisa
left a message on April 20, 2011:
I have known Steve since we were kids in West Long Branch. I went to high school with Steve and his x wife Joanne. I am so sorry for your loss. He was taken much too soon. I am sure this is as upsetting to his daughter Mary as it will be to his son Justin since he will never get to know his father now. I will keep you and Steves family in my prayers.
Bobdog
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Juggey will be greatly missed. He always had a smile on his face and was happy to see you. His life was devoted to saving others which was obvious by being a fire fighter. He will live in our hearts forever.
joseph e hyer
left a message on April 20, 2011:
great friend i will miss him always
John Sanders Jr.
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Steve thank you for the great memories.I will always remember the jokes and laughs you shared while hanging out at the fire house. You will be greatly missed by all.May you forever rest in peace.
Sarah
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Mr. Graves was a great man. Even though i never got the chance to meet him, i am GREAT friends with his daughter Mary. My friends and i wish him to rest in peace for all greatness to come to his family. We'll miss you!
Gina Longo
left a message on April 19, 2011:
On behalf of the Longo family I'd like to offer my deepest condolences. Juggey was a family friend and a wonderful person. he will be deeply missed. Rest in Peace Juggey, you fought a long hard battle. We love you!
Jane Hartman
left a message on April 19, 2011:
The kindest and strongest man I have known. Always there to help his friends and family. His love for his daughter — an inspiration. His love and appreciation for his wife — everlasting. We will miss you.
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Judy Wortman
left a message on April 28, 2011:
Although I have not seen Steve in a long time, I have known him since he was a teenager. He was rough around the edges but had a heart of gold. I know he will be missed by those who knew and loved him. His family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Joanne Cosentino Graves
left a message on April 22, 2011:
Helen & Mary, Please accept my deepest sympathies on Steve's passing. Whatever the past was or was not,if not for it, I would never have my cherrished son Justin. He has been the comfort and joy in my life!
Jean Fischer
left a message on April 21, 2011:
old friends
The Warner Family
left a message on April 21, 2011:
I only knew Steve lightly for the years that Mary was in our Girl Scout troop. I had the great pleasure of getting to know him much better on the sidelines of the lacrosse field last spring. What a great guy! And so, so sweet. Always offering to carry my chair, making room for me to sit nearby, etc. A nicer guy you could not have asked for. I only wish Dudley and I could have gotten to know Steve better. My last memory is of Steve holding our new puppy. I will remember that moment for a long time. Although he could not speak with his voice he spoke with his eyes. I am so glad he could express pleasure even in his last days. I know Helen and Mary will miss him dearly. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you both. Lee & Dudley Warner
PONYTAIL
left a message on April 21, 2011:
It was my privlege to MEET you,WORK with you, and KNOW you.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
BRIAN
left a message on April 21, 2011:
I will never forget you,you were my second brother and your chief and always will be.Love you brother.
Linda Lopizzo
left a message on April 21, 2011:
You will be missed
Sonia Pacheco
left a message on April 21, 2011:
To the family of Stephen R. Graver, I am sorry for your loss. May the God of comfort and grace bring you peace in this difficult time.
Bonnie Thomas
left a message on April 21, 2011:
You will be missed my friend. You always brought a smile to my face no matter how long it had been since we had seen each other.
Pati Conway Grasso
left a message on April 21, 2011:
Steve you are a dear friend whom i will never forget. you are in gods hands now and watching over everyone...you will be sadly missed my friend...Pati
Melissa Ford
left a message on April 21, 2011:
Ohhh Juggey... you were such a great man! I'll always remember trick-or-treating with you and the girls, the time you almost had to rescue me and helen from our concert in philly, (some great times and memories) and your "team juggey" will live on forever. RIP... Love you, Melissa xoxo
Phil and Marlayna
left a message on April 21, 2011:
Our lives will forever be enriched; for knowing you and having you as a friend. We will keep you and your family in our prayers. God bless you as he takes you home.
meghan (dunphy) lopez
left a message on April 21, 2011:
I am so honored to have met you...I will never forget the love you showed me you had for your family...I am sooo sorry you went through any pain but because you did and showed me such strength....I have totally changed the decisions I make each and everyday.. You will always be the one I owe my second chance of life to.. Thank you Steve.. Miss you forever...be a better mom and person all because of YOU...Helen and Mary thanks for sharing him..I wish you girls all the strength and love possible everyday...Meghan Dunphy Lopez
Chris Donofrio
left a message on April 21, 2011:
Kindness, love that is what I see and feel looking into your eyes. A beautiful soul. So many great memories of barbeques and family get togethers at Frank and Ginny's. I think that's where we all first met. Well if you ask me those are the best memories of my life spending time together with our dear friends/family. How blessed we are to have crossed paths - you are now a part of both Carmen and I and we carry you in our hearts forever. We love you Steve, Mary and Helen. As my Dad always said to me - we never say goodbye - always "au revoir" Until we meet again. Love c&c
Joe Grasso
left a message on April 21, 2011:
Pappy you will always be a great friend and a mentor in my eyes you will be missed by so many rest in peace brother.
Judy Mosca
left a message on April 20, 2011:
My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. Judy from Cancercare
pj covert
left a message on April 20, 2011:
steve you will always missed in our hearts and prayers
Becky Kopke
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Iwas honored to meet and know Steve, Helen and Mary.I met Steve he came to our Radiation Dept for treatment. He was this burly,graveley voiced teddy bear- Loved by all the staff in the dept ,especially the therapists, Dr Weiss,Roz, and myself. He adored his Mary and Helen.He was a wonderful presence and will be missed!!! He fought a cuorageous battle to the end.I am sorry for the loss that Mary,Helen, family and friends will endure.Our thoughts and prayers and hugs to all of you
Michelle Mazza
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Mary and Family, I love you and you know that i will always be here for you. as your best friend,we have had many great times together. Don't worry. These times will never be lost like your Dad will never be lost. Love you always! Mich Mazza
David Hanisch
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Steve was a great man. He always had great jokes and one liners. He always knew how to get the guys riled up. He was a great co-worker and it was a pleasure to of worked with him and to of known him. RIP my friend.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jessica Wardell
left a message on April 20, 2011:
I will miss you...In my heart and thoughts you will always be!
The Clarke's of TF
left a message on April 20, 2011:
We will always remember your kindness and wicked sense of humor! Also the love and pride you had for your daughter, Mary, and for Helen was truly so wonderful. God bless you and rest peacefully.
Katelyn Foran
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Warm thoughts and deepest sympathy are with you and your family.
Glenn Meuche, MSW, MA
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Although I am not able to take away the pain and suffering of your loss and grief I nonethless can leave the door open should you need to tell your story. My thoughts are with you and your family. Be well... glen (from CancerCare, Ridgewood)
Johnny Boy & Mom
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Stevie, Thanks for all you did for us. Your love of Helen and Mary --we will always remember. Rest in Peace--no one deserves free from pain more than you do.
Barbara DeLisa
left a message on April 20, 2011:
I have known Steve since we were kids in West Long Branch. I went to high school with Steve and his x wife Joanne. I am so sorry for your loss. He was taken much too soon. I am sure this is as upsetting to his daughter Mary as it will be to his son Justin since he will never get to know his father now. I will keep you and Steves family in my prayers.
Bobdog
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Juggey will be greatly missed. He always had a smile on his face and was happy to see you. His life was devoted to saving others which was obvious by being a fire fighter. He will live in our hearts forever.
joseph e hyer
left a message on April 20, 2011:
great friend i will miss him always
John Sanders Jr.
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Steve thank you for the great memories.I will always remember the jokes and laughs you shared while hanging out at the fire house. You will be greatly missed by all.May you forever rest in peace.
Sarah
left a message on April 20, 2011:
Mr. Graves was a great man. Even though i never got the chance to meet him, i am GREAT friends with his daughter Mary. My friends and i wish him to rest in peace for all greatness to come to his family. We'll miss you!
Gina Longo
left a message on April 19, 2011:
On behalf of the Longo family I'd like to offer my deepest condolences. Juggey was a family friend and a wonderful person. he will be deeply missed. Rest in Peace Juggey, you fought a long hard battle. We love you!
Jane Hartman
left a message on April 19, 2011:
The kindest and strongest man I have known. Always there to help his friends and family. His love for his daughter — an inspiration. His love and appreciation for his wife — everlasting. We will miss you.
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